How should a woman with children adjust her mentality?

<> first, women with children in the second marriage, they know how to cherish more.

They prefer to manage it with their hearts, because they have had a failure, so they will summarize the experience and lessons of marriage, they have learned to control their emotions, and they will also know how to speak better, they will not say on a rampage, nor will they easily accuse and belittle men, they have more understanding of men, they have more contentment with life, they will not force many things, they really cherish everything they have now, they know that living a life requires two people to work together, He won't leave everything to a man alone.

Second, they are more responsible.

Think about it, if a woman wants to marry better and easier after divorce, then he can definitely not have children without children. Don't marry a woman with children in a second marriage, can she not hear it? Can she not know that it is not easy to marry with children?

But she still wants children, so what does that mean? It shows that she is not only thinking about herself, but for the sake of her children, since she was born, she must take care of it. Besides, even if she didn't think about remarrying, could she not know how hard it was to live alone with children?

She chose to have a child because she knew that if the child lived with his father, then his father would definitely not manage it as well as her, and she didn't want the child to be wronged, so no matter how hard she worked and how difficult her life was, she had to live with the child. Do you say that a responsible woman is not a good woman?

Third, they know that firewood, rice, oil and salt are expensive, so they are more likely to run their families.

A second-married woman has experienced marriage, he knows what life is like, knows how many days a bag of rice can be eaten, how to buy vegetables to save money, she lives with her children, knows that life is not easy, so she will not spend money indiscriminately, he knows that money has to be spent on the blade, houses, cars, and children are all in need of money, so he will not spend it indiscriminately, he will focus on the family for all expenses, and most importantly, she is going to take her children into a new family, so she will definitely make the children and this family better, She will be more attentive to the business.

So you know how good a second-married woman is, right? If you are really lucky and marry a woman who is married for the second time, don't treat others as nannies, that is your wife, the woman you will live for the rest of your life, treat her well, and she will pay you back a hundred times!

As long as you use your tolerant heart and love this woman, you are good to the child, and the child will be good to you, and the family can be harmonious. Raise this child as if it were your own.

Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, what you like is this person, the other party and the ex-husband divorce can only say that they are not suitable, and they have not met the right person, so are you the right person for her now Who does not have a little past and experience, see if you are enough to love her. And since you ask this question, you must have some mind in your heart, but what is the fault of the child, she did not choose to come to this world, do not ask you to fully accept and love her, treat her as a friend you have just met, and treat each other sincerely

I don't think there's a problem.

Mutual understanding and tolerance. Long live understanding!

Liking is the reason, and there is also discovering her merits and the advantages of marrying her, and reducing the attention to these issues.

Marriage is the most important thing in life. When everyone gets married, they think about it from the beginning to the end, thinking that this is the only wedding in their lives. But the reality is often cruel, sometimes we find that the other party is not the person who can grow old together, and there are many reasons why the two eventually parted ways.

But life will go on, and many people will choose to remarry. Generally, divorced people remarry with remarriage partners, even with children, and many people question whether a divorced woman with children can marry? Let's take a look at an experienced man.

Mr. Cui. After Mr. Cui divorced, he took a son and a daughter, and Ms. Liu also took a son and a daughter, and the two reorganized their families. Over the past 30 years, Mr. Cui has treated his stepchildren hard, even better than his own children, and now he thinks about it, he can't stand his biological children.

However, the behavior of Ms. Liu Hengze and her stepchildren in recent years has chilled Mr. Cui's heart. First of all, when her biological son got married, Ms. Liu proposed for divorce, because she was afraid that Mr. Cui would give all his savings to his biological son for marriage, and when his son got married, he would have no money.

In desperation, Mr. Cui drafted an agreement with Ms. Liu, and all the savings were divided into two. But when his son was still short of a bride price of 10,000 yuan when he got married, Mr. Cui borrowed it from Ms. Liu, but Ms. Liu refused. Mr. Cui said

Otherwise, you can lend me 10,000 yuan first, and I'll pay you back when I collect my share. As a result, Ms. Liu offered to pay back an extra 3,000 yuan. Mr. Cui, who was cold-hearted, had no choice but to agree.

Now Mr. Cui's health is not good, and he said that his prostate is enlarged and must be removed partially, which requires 5,000 yuan for the operation. On the one hand, Mr. Cui has always felt guilty about his biological children and did not inform them. And Ms. Liu, who wanted to rely on her, filed for divorce again, although she had beaten her stepchildren, but they all shirked it for various reasons.

Mr. Cui is all lost, it is really Lu Yao who knows that the horsepower has been seen by the people for a long time, and his more than 30 years of dedication have been put into practice, but the result is still Mr. Cui who is taken care of by his own children.

When asked if Mr. Cui gave you another chance, would you still find a divorced woman with children to marry? Mr. Cui smiled honestly: It's okay to experience this kind of lesson once, if I am given another chance, I would rather be single and take good care of my own children.

Although this is an isolated case, there are many similar examples in real life. The second marriage with a baby girl can be married, and the man will also take care of the orphan and widow, but as a wife and stepson, you must know how to be grateful, and it is best to have another child that belongs to them, which is the safest way for the man, otherwise it is likely to be thankless.