How to solve the problem when a third party intervenes in a marriage?

Marriage is a matter of two people, and two people are just right. If there is a third party in the marriage, it will definitely be crowded and will also affect the relationship between the husband and wife. In some marriages, a third party intervenes, resulting in a bad relationship between the parties. So, how should we respond to third-party involvement?

First, don't make a lot of noise.

When you find out that your lover has a "third party", losing your temper and making a fuss is not the best way to solve the problem, and it may not work. Instead, it can cause your lover to break the jar and things get out of hand. If you simply can't accept his or her betrayal of you and decide to part ways, then why don't you fight with him and hurt yourself?

What should you do? If you want to save your marriage with him, it is wise to restrain your emotions first, then calm down and carefully analyze the reasons, understand the investigation situation from many aspects without revealing your look, and figure out if there is a problem between you as a couple, whether it is your own problem or the other's problem. Next, we should do this work in a targeted manner.

First of all, we can talk about the harm that third-party intervention can do to a family. Then, we should recall the hard-won union process between you and him (her), make him (her) realize that developing with a third party may break up the family, and let him (her) take the initiative to solve the trouble he (her) has caused.

Second, accept the facts.

After adjusting your emotions, all you have to do is calm down and don't yell at him, because the fact has already happened, and no amount of emotions can save your feelings. At this time, only when the mind is mature can everything be resolved. Change yourself, start over, come out of this shadow and learn to accept reality.

Don't expect him to change his mind. Don't expect the junior's conscience to find out. All you have to do is shape yourself.

Only by changing yourself can you truly let go of everything. If you are blindly entangled, it will cause him to get bored and leave you.

Third, efficient communication.

Managing a marriage is as serious as treating your own children. If you want to catch each other, you must always pay attention to their needs and inner desires. Finding the needs and meeting them is the most important thing.

Because only in this way can we keep looking, communication is the first step of harmony between husband and wife, small problems are not solved, and over time they will become big problems and become the fuse of divorce. When a third party intervenes, be sure to pay attention to the other party's emotional changes. We should have a spiritual communication to resolve all cause and effect so as not to lead to divorce.

When faced with this kind of thing, you should maintain enough reason to solve this matter, and the third party will have a dialogue to tell the other party that he already has a family, hoping that the other party can not destroy the family, so that there is not a lot of benefit to himself, and at the same time persuade his other half, and whether the scholar can decisively refuse the intervention of the third party.

Legal analysis: Whoever has a spouse and bigamy, or marries another person knowing that he has a spouse, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or criminal detention.

Legal basis: Article 258 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China: Whoever has a spouse and marries him, or marries another person knowing that he or she is stupid and has a spouse, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or short-term detention.

Article 1043 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Families shall establish a good family style, promote family virtues, and attach importance to the construction of family civilization. Husbands and wives should be faithful, respectful and caring for each other; Family members shall respect the elderly, love the young, help each other, and maintain equal, harmonious, and civilized marriage and family relations.

Then you must not forgive the other party directly, at least you must know what the attitude of the object is, and then consider whether this marriage is still necessary to be saved, if not, just divorce.

You should communicate with the other party, and let this matter be perfectly resolved, so that you can maintain your marriage, otherwise you will get hurt.

In the face of such a situation, you should take the initiative to defend your marriage, and you should also let the other party give you an explanation, you should be brave enough to collect relevant evidence, and withdraw from it.

At this time, you must be calm, and then you should decisively divorce the other party, don't settle, such a marriage is already in name only.

At this time, you must first protect your own interests, and don't act aggressively towards your husband, and divorce directly.

will choose to divorce each other, and then fulfill the two of them, give up this marriage, and then start a new life.

I will choose to divorce, as long as I have a third party, no matter who the reason, I will not be able to be with the other party again.

I will choose to divorce, if the other party finds a third party, I will divorce decisively, and I will not continue to live with someone who does not love me and betrays the marriage.

I will take the initiative to communicate with the other party, understand the other party's thoughts, and find a reasonable solution, so that the marriage can be very stable.

First of all, you must be calm and talk to your husband. Why is this problem occurring? It depends on her husband's attitude again, does Ji Liang want this family, or do you want a divorce?

I think this time I should talk to this third party and tell him not to meddle in other people's marriages, which is very immoral.

Calm down first, judge whether you can tolerate it, and then find a solution, which can protect your rights and interests through legal means.

We have to divorce this irresponsible partner immediately, because this kind of person is very selfish and never cares about your feelings, so we can only divorce him. Also, when you get divorced, remember to protect all your rights and interests.

I think we should talk to this third party and not destroy other people's families, which is very immoral. Maybe you can sue for divorce.

I think we should have a good chat with a third party, don't be impulsive, and be patient to persuade him to understand that what he is doing is wrong.