What are the psychological stages of a man after divorce

The psychological stages of a man after divorce are as follows:

1. The psychological stage of a man after divorce - the shadow of his ex-wife.

Many men will miss their ex-wives after divorce, which will inevitably affect his remarriage. often can't help but think of his ex-wife, and even compare it with other women, maybe it's better in his heart to be his ex-wife. Such a divorced man is a bit stupid and a little infatuated, and it is not easy to get out of the shadow of his ex-wife and remarry.

But such men are usually more nostalgic for the old and don't like the new and hate the old.

Second, the psychological stage of a man after divorce - dare not let go and love.

Men generally don't dare to let go of love after divorce, because of the influence of their ex-wives, it will be difficult to trust women, subconsciously.

There will always be suspicion of the other party. It is also possible that you are not confident enough in yourself. In this case, even if a man has a new relationship, he will be bound by love, unable to let go, and not free enough.

In this way, the other party will definitely be unhappy, and at this time, the two parties are prone to conflicts, and the man may be afraid of encountering the failure of the marriage again, and directly give up the relationship.

3. The psychological stage of a man after divorce - fear of losing his freedom again.

Marriage restricts the freedom of body and mind. For example, if you have been married for a long time, and one of the spouses goes out for a while, even if the other spouse misses it, there will be a sense of relaxation. After a man divorces, the departure of his ex-wife makes the man realize the benefits of single freedom, and after experiencing the failure of marriage, the divorced man will feel completely liberated, so he is afraid of stepping into another marriage and losing his freedom again.

Fourth, the psychological stage of a man after divorce - distrust of women.

Men generally do not trust women enough after divorce, so although it is unfair to other women, but this is a normal reaction, the average man can adjust, not to say that he will have a grudge against all women, men are generally very strong, but at the same time very vulnerable. If the next woman is not able to give the man enough sincere love and loyalty to break the man's suspicion and distrust, then remarriage is unlikely for the divorced man at the moment.

Fifth, the psychological stage of a man after divorce - no confidence in himself.

After some men divorce, they encounter the ruthless abandonment of their ex-wives and will become lacking confidence in themselves. If a person lacks self-confidence, then he will not see his own strengths, even if he is very good. He may put the reason for the failure of his marriage on himself, feeling that he did not do a good job to let his wife leave, so he has no confidence in himself and has been decadent and remorseful.

Pain and guilt.

Most of the divorce is filed by women, before the formal filing for divorce, in fact, women have repeatedly warned and even threatened men to divorce, but men generally do not take this warning and threat seriously, thinking that these are just women's words to vent their emotions, therefore, when women calmly say to men that we are divorced, and start to deal with divorce-related matters without looking back, men will be shocked, and vigorously deny the fact that women desperately want to divorce. Because men didn't think that women would really take this step.

When divorced, men will behave very open-mindedly on the surface, but in fact, deep down in the hearts of men, they will feel particularly painful and guilty, feel that they are not a qualified man, feel that they are too failed, feel that divorce makes them too faceless, in order to relieve pain and guilt, men will use a lot of alcohol, smoking and other ways to vent their emotions.