What is the first thing a man should do when he is confused about his future?

Find someone who really cares about you, she only cares about you, not your money, status, power, etc. Then strive to realize the value of your own life, for yourself to realize. People who don't care about you, in fact, you don't need to care.

Don't let your life be useless. Make your life worthwhile and let others remember your existence, so that you have not lived in vain.

You already have a goal, and then it's time to really put it into practice, it's good to have ideas and beliefs, but it's not better to work hard for yourself and live for yourself.

My brother tells you a truth, and that is that the people who love you only need to work and make money.

People who don't love you talk to you about material things ... Car house ticket business. To put it bluntly, I want to ask the female land,,, what capital do you have to talk about this. Since they are all together, it means that they are on the same level, and the high energy is high there...

The buddy grove is huge,。。 You're very young. It's much more suitable...

If you don't have a career, a man will never have a foothold, don't expect anyone to look up to you.

Therefore, it is better to be optimistic about your own direction and make yourself stronger.

If you have the ability and experience, start a business and start a small business.

If you have the technology, you can make money steadily. If you want people to look up to yourself, you must first look up to yourself.

It's hard to say, you better learn a useful technique, I learned it in the blue bird, and the one in Changping.

He should go to the countryside to experience life, or look at the beggars on the streets, there are people who are worse off than us, and stop and think. Watch some TV, a lot of TV now has something that moves us.

No matter how much he walks, his heart is scattered unless he will pay persistently for one thing. Otherwise he would think of flies on the glass. The future is bright, but there is no way out.

Pick up the pen and paper, make a personal life plan step by step, and then follow your own plan.

Work hard to live the life you love. To live is to have hope.

Look at the people around you who are working hard, and think for yourself what they have

The world is so big, go out and walk more.

Have a dream and work hard for it.

At this age, it is estimated that the education level is not high, so let's learn the skills to support your family. Decide early, settle down, do a line of love, after a few years, you will have your own achievements, if you are a gangster in this line of gangsters, in the end you will find that you are not good at anything, just a waste of time.

Find something to do first, slowly get to know yourself first, know what you need, and then go to Bo according to your needs.

The first girl, you should have asked the reason at that time, and if there is a problem, you have to find a way to solve it. In the second relationship, your wife is too much, don't you know if the man has a ** under his knees? This kind of woman should have been divorced a long time ago!

Now you, back to the previous single life, you should be glad that you can have a new choice, this time you must find a suitable person for you, the two in-laws together, the most important thing is to get along, home and everything is prosperous. As for your work and you can't contact the opposite sex of the same age as you, you can ask your family to help you arrange a blind date, or ask your relatives and friends to help you introduce you, good luck.

I can only say that I sympathize with your current situation, but don't be afraid that you are still so young, like I have achieved nothing, confused future, and I am not half as good as you now. Now your main thing is to earn money, and with money everything is there, you have to think like this. There is no way, this society is a material age.

I think what he needs most is the understanding and support of his family.

Zhi is not a wife, no.

DAO can blame or suspect that he is not capable enough, try to make him feel relaxed when getting along with him, it is best not to mention the topic of career, you don't have to say too much, just accompany him, let him know that you love him, support him, and believe in him. Let him have the confidence to make a comeback.

Don't ask, you don't understand it, let's learn how to be a qualified person first, don't talk about talents. Think about it yourself, the minimum condition for being a person is to be self-reliant and not to become a burden to this society! You can do it before you can talk about the next step!

It's normal to start from the grassroots at the beginning. Generally, comrades-in-arms in the army have deeper feelings than classmates in school, because they have endured hardships and worked hard together, and their feelings are very deep! Generally will help, you don't have to worry about that.

Now the point is that you said it yourself, and you didn't learn anything. In the construction industry, if you haven't been in this industry for more than 5 or 6 years, you have no experience, and others won't believe it; Even if people want to help you, they can only let you be an assistant first, an assistant or something, the key is still yourself, lazy, and don't want to do it, so how to do it.

But I advise you to continue on this path, and leave aside any other things your father's comrades-in-arms to help you or something. You don't have solid strength yourself, and anyone to help you is in vain.

Now that I have an internship, you can start from the very basics, and what you learn in school can only take you to get started, and you still need to accumulate experience by yourself, and yesterday my father's friend gave me a lesson. It means that everything on your own in the future, now you accumulate experience relationships, etc., can help you in the future.

In fact, the most important thing you should do now is to believe in yourself and have confidence in yourself. I think that just by studying in school to master a skill, that is tantamount to fooling the alliance, even those who learn well may not dare to guarantee that they will be handy as soon as they enter the society! After all, society is developing at a high speed.

You should take advantage of the internship opportunity

If you don't believe in yourself anymore, what can others do for you? Others can only help you for a while, it is impossible to help you for a lifetime, you have to rely on yourself for everything, relying on others is fake and unreliable.

The suggestion is to check out some motivational books or make a short-term plan. Follow the plan step by step, and when the short-term goals are achieved, you should be full of confidence, so that there will be no anxiety and uncertainty about the future

The less you know, the more uneasy you are, and the more you know, the less uneasy you will be when you have a clear plan and goals for the future.

If you meet such a person, start with his interests. Help him open the picture. Participate in social activities with him. Then slowly approached his heart. And little by little to do his ideological work.

Think more about when you can. Constantly encourage yourself and give yourself the confidence to win and embrace every beautiful tomorrow; Start with small things, easy to succeed things, slowly regain your own intuition, and after accumulating a lot of experience over time, you can solve the "mystery" of fate! Good luck with your best of luck!

It's very simple, do what you are doing now and learn to help others more. As long as there is no problem with food, clothing, housing and transportation, there is no problem. Naturally, everything will be fine.

Seeing such information from you, just say a few words, if you are the second generation of officials, you don't have to be confused; If you are a rich second generation, you don't need to be confused; If you are a second-generation farmer, you should not be confused. You're only 22 years old now, so it's still early to get married? It's not too late for a few more years, don't disrupt your life by seeing someone else get married, getting married at the age of 22 will only increase your burden.

If you had ideals in the past, but you don't have ideals now, then find back your previous ideals and then work hard. 22 years old is a good time to start struggling, energetic, enough time, if the family economy is still passable, then you are now a burden on a person is definitely not big, so, 22 years old and the next few years are the easiest time, so, you should let go of unnecessary baggage, stay active, believe in yourself, do what you want to do, do what is beneficial to the future development. Enjoy these good times that you should strive for, and if you miss it, you won't come again.

22 years old, still young; Opportunity awaits you. Finally, good luck,

Plan your life well, at least for now, you're still at the beginning of your life.

You can also find a job first, and then choose your favorite career according to your interests, hobbies, and specialties after a year, and get the job in a few years (such as taking the civil service exam, such as taking the relevant certificate).

With a few years of work experience, you will have a clear idea of where you are heading in life, rather than being confused now.

It's easy to work part-time. But I survived by working part-time. It's up to you. It's best to go to a junior college. Then upgrade to the top. Improve your academic qualifications.

If you don't know what to do, do what you can first.