I m about to graduate, and I don t know what to do.

Many students are just like you, facing such problems, don't worry.

Your parents want you to stay with you, so if you want to, then accept their arrangement, preferably within your own tolerance. If you can find a stable job, you can also rely on the help of relatives and friends.

The ability to learn in school does not mean the ability to work in society. You don't have to worry about your academic performance, those only represent the past, and many students I know are doing very well in the workplace, not those who study well.

Core advice: It is better to find a job for you through relatives and friends, or find it yourself, by your parents' side, which is more appropriate. Then try to take the test or something at work.

1. Change the concept of employment.

Change the concept of valuing the whole people, ignoring the collective, and despising the individual.

Change the concept of employment that one job is chosen for life, and establish the concept of employment first and then employment.

Change the employment concept of blind comparison.

Obey the needs of society and the needs of the post.

Break down old secular prejudices and find employment through multiple channels.

Do not wait for the arrangement, find the market by yourself, and compete for employment.

3. Establish the employment concept of matching labor and remuneration: when we are looking for a job, we should not only look at the monthly income, but also consider what you can contribute to the employer, as long as you can create more value for the other party, the other party will naturally give you no less.

4. Focus on the long term and face the future: In the process of choosing a job, we should accept those occupations that have the potential for development and can give full play to their potential.

5. Treat the unemployed correctly: Some graduates cannot be employed in time for a period of time after graduation, and there is a phenomenon of temporary unemployment. The reason for this situation is mainly due to the influence of supply and demand in the talent market.

Unemployed is a normal social phenomenon and a real problem we are facing, so we must be fully mentally prepared and psychologically endured. However, it is important to note that we cannot be artificially unemployed, that is, blindly pursue an idealized career position and voluntarily give up employment opportunities.

A problem for society! You are the "baby" and "child" around your parents, and as a child, you should also understand the feelings of your parents, they are for your good! I know that you are not very sure about civil servants, and I am afraid that you will not live up to your parents' expectations of you!

Young people should go out and break through, the key is how to break your parents' perception of you, and you can't just have ideas, your actual way, where do you want to go out, and what is the future development direction after you go out? It is actually very difficult to make money in the real society I personally agree with your parents' expectations for you, take the exam well, if you can pass the bar exam, you will have a bright future in the future! If you are not a reading material, then you had better be mentally prepared to do what business you are going to do and which company to work for?

Actually, now it's a philosophical question.

Many people have experienced this situation, they can't find a job after graduation, how to treat their family, how to face their friends.

My advice is to find a job to support myself first, and the opportunity is to find it slowly.

Looking at the landlord's post, I saw my shadow back then, and I graduated from college, and I studied e-commerce for a few years. But no matter what, I can't find a suitable job, and I don't know what to do! Later, I simply went out to break in.

I entered a Japanese electronics factory and did management. Later, I had some savings and opened a mobile phone store! I've been working hard for so many years.

I'm worth almost a million Although I'm still worried about not being able to find a job at the beginning, I'm fine now when I calm down and think about it!

I think you should set foot in society first, because you don't have social experience yet. I don't know how to deal with a lot of things, and I still have to ask others questions like you have now. If you want to survive in society, you have to learn to see through others and learn how to use scheming.

Use your plan perfectly. Today's social professionals are everywhere and have no place at all. Maybe you think you have enough of a city, but there are people outside the world, and there are many people who are better than you.

Civil servants make money slowly but steadily, but society is different, as long as you find an opportunity, then making money is picking up money. However, at the beginning, there should be a wall everywhere, there is an old saying that the sky will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, and starve their bodies and skin. As long as you are not afraid of hardship, society is your best choice".

I think boys should go for it! The salary of civil servants is fixed, and no one can go to school, and there are still many places to use money in the future. What you learn may not be what you use, come on!!

I think that youth is the capital, and if you are not afraid of hardship, going out for two or three years is also a kind of exercise for your psychology. And if your experience increases, it will also be beneficial to your future life and work. Furthermore, don't be attached to your own profession, and now many people who go out are not professional.

If you are an undergraduate, you will still be a little productive if you go to the coastal zone for two or three years. But don't make a decision so quickly, after graduation, in combination with the actual situation, take those exams, and listen to your parents' opinions.

Above. Don't say I'm going to spoil you in the future.

Say nothing more and stick to your own path.