How should Bao Ma take twins alone?

I have twins at home, one and a half years old, from birth is to feed milk powder, after giving birth to discharge from the hospital is almost all I a belt, mother-in-law to help cook, if you want a person to take from birth to be ready, do not often hold the child, let the child develop their own sleeping habits, my child is to sleep milk powder when sleeping, do not wait to drink to fall asleep, never have to coax to sleep, do not let the shooting, the child is about to leave when I bought two walkers, put both of them in the car every day, I don't care, do what to do, As long as the two children don't get sick, it's actually very easy to bring, and they go out to buy twin strollers. ‍‍

When I was three months old, I was alone, and my mother-in-law was not in good health. Until now, I don't feel too tired, there are other twins in our community, three people are tired enough, children are not good to take is mainly used to adults, I take children never deliberately take care of them, as long as they are full, do not hurt, I don't care about them, and I will never help her up if she falls down. At night, when the child goes to bed, wash the changed clothes, tidy up the house, and make a list of the food to be prepared for the next day.

Raising children by yourself is really not as tiring as you think. ‍‍

My twin boys are now 21 months old. At that time, I often used both hands and feet, and I was proficient in all eighteen kinds of martial arts. One is held in one hand, and one is still lying on the foot.

When you want to sleep at night, one milk hangs on a baby. When no one can help you, you have to figure it out on your own. Sometimes put it in the cradle and shake the baby, and sometimes, put it in the stroller and push it.

Take advantage of the baby's sleep to eat a quick meal, go to the toilet or something. To get to work, you need speed. ‍‍

I take two of them by myself, but it's true that I don't go to work, and I take them at home full-time. Personally, I feel that taking care of children is like working or doing a project, and you must first do your homework. Read more books, read popular science articles, and be aware of it.

It is necessary to have a correct mentality, adults live day by day, children live day by day, and hardships can be overcome. I can't let go of my husband, the man will work, and I will top ten old women, so our mother-in-law and mother will only take care of the grandson after a while. ‍‍

I suggest that you keep your two children apart so that they don't disturb each other. Such a child's crying will not disturb the other child's state. At the beginning, sit on a small record of feeding the two children.

This makes it easier for you to feed your two children differently. And you can know the routines of both children. ‍‍

I really can't bring it, I envy those I can bring.

1. Eat small meals and pay attention to nutrition. Twins will generally weigh less than 2,500 grams. When in the mother's womb, the two children share nutrition, and it is normal for the development to not keep up with the other.

But after birth, it is necessary to supplement nutrition. Children's swallowing and digestion are imperfect, so try to eat small meals often.

2. It is difficult to distinguish and mark well. So when twins are born, mom and dad have to find a way to distinguish between them. Commonly used methods of differentiation include: distinguishing with different clothes, cutting different hairstyles, wearing different accessories on the hands, etc.

3. Quarrel and fight calmly. Twins' daily routine is noisy, but that doesn't mean they're inherently enemies, on the contrary, this interaction is a unique way for twins to bond with each other. There are twin sisters who look alike, but their personalities are completely opposite, one is active and the other is quiet.

Their sisters often fight, and it is estimated that their parents worry a lot.

First of all, the family of twins can find helpers, such as hiring a confinement nanny if they have financial surplus conditions, or asking their parents and public goods mother-in-law to help take care of them, and make arrangements for them to do a good job of twinning work and reduce the pressure of taking care of their children. How to take twin babies Be attentive, attentive and attentive. It's not easy to take a baby, it's even more difficult to take a twin baby, the baby will cry, will crawl, you have to be careful of the baby's bumps, feed in time, don't let the baby catch a cold, always pay attention to the baby.

How to bring twin babies If one of the twins wakes up, mom and dad don't try to stop him from waking the other baby. They get used to snoring and making noises that disturb each other. When they get used to each other's voices, the twins can't wake each other.

Most twins are born with similar weight and nutritional needs, but there are also many cases where one of the twins robs the other of the baby's nutrients, resulting in one fat and one thin. At this time, the skinny baby needs to be fed a few more vertical plum tuans every day to supplement the needs of growth.

In fact, it is still difficult for one person to take care of two people, so if you want to take care of it, you must need two cribs.

They should be treated equally, and no matter what they do, they should not take sides of the other, and if you do so, it will be beneficial to both of them.

If a mother wants to take care of 1 to 6 month old twin babies alone, it is very hard, and she must have enough energy and physical strength to support it, so that the baby can develop a regular life schedule. That way you won't get too tired.

If you are alone, it is best to read more about the experience of taking care of your child shared on the Internet, and read more books on taking care of your baby.

You can only devote all your energy to the twins, and they can do some housework or clean up while the twins are sleeping.

If a mother wants to take care of twin babies from 1 to 6 months old, she needs to pay attention to the dynamics of the baby at all times and learn more about parenting.

She takes care of the twins herself, and the children are also very hard things, the two children are very difficult to bring, to eat, drink, and wash, if the two children are taken care of, this mother is also a very great mother.

It is very hard for a mother to take care of twins alone, and it is a hard and tiring thing for the children to hurry up and wash and cook when they sleep.

In modern society, competition is fierce, young people are under great pressure, and many young couples choose to have only one child, otherwise even if they have money to support, they will not have time, and many times they have to rely on the support of the older generation. Unfortunately, not everyone has the right to choose.

No, I just received a submission from a mother in the morning, saying that I gave birth to twin sons in my first child, which was a great thing for the whole family to celebrate twenty years ago, but now I can only look at a pair of sons and worry. Later, I begged my mother-in-law for help, and decided to bring Dabao by myself before going to kindergarten, and my mother-in-law helped bring Xiaobao.

Now, three years later, the couple plans to take their children back from their hometown to kindergarten, and they realize that the gap between twins can be so big under different living circumstances. Whether it is daily life habits or character development, even if they wear the same clothes and carry the same school bag, outsiders can see the difference between them at a glance.

Personality gap: The children brought by the in-laws are more arrogant, and the children brought by the parents are more sensible.

Bao's mother said that she found the problem on the first day she took the child, a family of four went to the mall, Xiaobao actually dared to go up and lift the skirts of other little girls, which made Bao's mother ashamed, and when she was criticized afterwards, Xiaobao looked "I'm not wrong" arrogance. Bao Ma had to ask her mother-in-law to ** educate, but she didn't expect her mother-in-law to hear it and directly say "What is there to criticize about this kind of trivial matter", and then Bao Ma realized how terrible the older generation of "intergenerational relatives" is.

You must know that when you don't educate your children well, there will always be someone to help you "educate" in the future, and I'm afraid that it won't be a scolding or a beating that can end at that time. Therefore, parents must pay attention to this problem, if the older generation is to spoil the personality of their grandchildren, or it is more reliable to bring the baby by themselves, it is better to suffer for three years than for a lifetime.

Life gap: The children brought by the in-laws have many problems, and the children brought by the parents are more self-reliant.

The most headache for Bao's mother is that Xiaobao's living habits are very serious, even if she picks and chooses meals when she eats, she often chatters non-stop, and Bao's mother's family has always advocated "food is silent, sleep is silent". In addition to the bad problems, Xiaobao does not know the basic life skills, seeing that he is going to kindergarten, he can't even wear his own clothes and lift his pants, and he is spoiled by his mother-in-law.

Language gap: The children brought by the in-laws speak dialects, and the children brought by the parents speak Mandarin.

This mother works in Beijing, and the selected kindergarten speaks Mandarin. Dabao was raised in Beijing since he was a child, and Mandarin is naturally very standard, but Xiaobao, who was raised by his mother-in-law, is not good, he has followed his grandparents since he was a child, and he is affected by the language environment, and his mouth is "plastic Mandarin".

It may seem like a small thing to adults, but it is different for kindergarten children. Differences in language may lead to children being laughed at, isolated, and when they realize that they are "different", they may refuse to speak later and fall into low self-esteem.

Most of the children brought by parents will be very well-behaved, and most of the elderly brought by their in-laws will spoil their children, and blind habitual care will make children arrogant.

Children brought by parents will definitely be more well-behaved and self-disciplined; The children brought by the elderly will be spoiled and self-centered, which is not conducive to the growth of the child.

Parents are sensible and can learn more. The coquettishness brought by the in-laws can't respect their families well. Impolite to guests, special fake.