Difficult feelings, is the relationship unable to withstand setbacks and difficulties?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-19
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Feelings are a matter of two people, since she chose to give up on you, she can only say that you missed it, but there are a lot of missed things that you can't go back to, but you can seize the present. What to do depends on the situation, if you want her to be happy, you should confirm the doubts in your heart, there is a time when confession does not necessarily mean destruction, there is hope. But if you're just doing it for your own sake, there's no need!

    It's good to think about the emotional things yourself, and don't let the miss become a farewell...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Suggest not, I personally don't think it's necessary, since it's definitely going to be now, there must be a reason, there is no fate, let it be,,, and some things once the right time that belongs to it, it becomes meaningless,,, if you are really destined, you will still be together in the future, ps: I think even if you confess now, it is estimated that there is no meaning, just hurt the feelings between the three of you, personal advice, for reference only

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Some people, missing is a lifetime thing, forever looking back at the scenery can never grasp the scenery in front of you, do you understand?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In life, no one wants to see setbacks and misfortunes befall them, but in this life, setbacks are everywhere. When we start a new relationship, setbacks can come from time to time. But some people think that when they encounter misfortune, God is hinting that they are not suitable for them.

    Judging from the many successful loves in my observed life, two people meet is fate, God gives you a chance to meet love, and God is fair, will give everyone one or several fates in the invisible or shaped, with fate, whether you can go to the end and grow old together The most important thing is to grasp fate, a relationship is like the process of a person's growth, you will encounter such and such setbacks and misfortunes, because you and he are from different families, After more than ten or even twenty years after birth, two people have never known each other, so they have different experiences and eyes on things, and suddenly one day two people meet, which means that the two need to balance different or even opposite views on the same thing, this process is what we call running-in.

    In my opinion, the length of the run-in is determined by the degree of difference in the concept of two people, if two people are from the same family, the run-in time is obviously the least, and according to the law, this kind of love does not exist, two people from the same place, different places, different countries due to the difference in concept of the increasing run-in time is getting longer and longer, which is not difficult to explain why long-distance relationships are easy to break up. In fact, I think the reason for breaking up is that they have not withstood the test of God, and people who have really withstood setbacks and hardships can often live happily for a lifetime!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Feelings need to be maintained together, if two people break up because of a little thing or something, it can only mean that your feelings are not so deep, not love, may not be like, just good feelings, or other purposes together. Two people are together, understand each other, and be considerate of each other. Only those who stand the test of time are true love.

    When two people are together, boys should be more generous, more considerate of girls, and don't always quarrel because of some trivial things. The most important thing together is trust, two people have experienced ups and downs together, so that they can happily walk into the palace of marriage and support each other to the end of life.

    I think when two people are together, if the boy is always angry, angry, needs to be coaxed, and even always puts the breakup on his lips, such a person will break up early, and your relationship really can't withstand setbacks. Moreover, you are looking for a boyfriend, not applying yourself to be a mother, just like the big beauty and his little man in Zhao Wei's movie "To Our Dying Youth", the boy has no ability, can't stand things, can't bear the responsibility, can't control himself, makes other girls' bellies bigger, and says that your mother has arranged everything for you, you need to go back and convince her, if you meet such a scumbag, you should break up as soon as possible. Not everyone can go through life with you.

    Love each other as a family, if your relationship can't withstand the ups and downs, you can only say that you haven't met the right person, believe that you meet love around the corner, the best must be left at the end, refuse the scumbag, refuse the rotten girl. Healthy love, the right time, the right place, meet the right person, you will be the happiest person.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What to say! First of all, I am speechless to you! There are some things in life that you can not have everything, you must learn to give up, consider who is more suitable for you, remember to think clearly, do not hurt the other party now and will be deeper in the future, this matter is your fault from the beginning!

    But you can't be wrong again and again! Think carefully and solve it in the smartest way, I think this thing will make up for your mistakes when it is done well! Pray for you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    To tell you the truth, you're really hateful, and there are few people who can sympathize with you, and you're still making excuses for yourself, lifting a stone and shooting yourself in the foot, reining in the precipice, a man who plays with fire.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People always make excuses for their amorousness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It won't be so painful when you get married, really....

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Abusive women,,, troublemakers, repent.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The Cold War is very emotional, I feel that my face is very arrogant, I can't put down my face and bow my head, and the two of them will eventually fall apart, because love doesn't have so many bells and whistles, and after being together for a long time, you will find your so-called own principles and bottom lineYou love each other to a certain extent, and if you insist that you don't make the slightest change, then something is definitely wrong with you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If a relationship has experienced a lot of difficulties, then stick to your principles and keep going, you can overcome all the difficulties and finally move towards the palace of marriage.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The best way is for two people to understand each other, and both of them to learn together, and only then can they overcome difficulties.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    We can encourage and support each other when we go through tribulations, and as long as the relationship between two people is deep enough, I don't think any ordeal will stop your relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are many ways to overcome difficulties, the premise is that you must have a good attitude, complain less, persevere, and need to give and tolerate and understand in the world of love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A relationship, if there are many difficulties, it requires two people to work together to overcome these difficulties.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, two people should be sincere about each other's feelings and have enough trust, so that they can overcome the difficulties encountered in the relationship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To look at the relationship problem correctly, it is impossible to have smooth sailing, there will always be twists and turns, we must have perseverance and courage, and cherish this fate.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We should regard these difficulties as a kind of tempering in life, and we must learn from experience so that we can overcome them.

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