What should I do if my girlfriend always says to break up for no reason?

First of all, make sure that you are not at fault, girls mention breaking up, it is definitely not for no reason, even if your girlfriend is too willful, or she is using the breakup to blackmail you and scare you, there must be a reason. First of all, you have to make sure that it's not you who is wrong, but your girlfriend who is deliberately willful because you love him, so that you can make corresponding moves. But if you are wrong, and your girlfriend says to break up in a fit of anger, but you ignore it, then I estimate that the breakup is more likely.

If you are at fault first, even if your girlfriend doesn't mention the breakup, you have to admit your mistake as soon as you should admit it, apologize when you should apologize, and don't wait until your girlfriend threatens you with a breakup. Your girlfriend can forgive you for making mistakes, but it is impossible to forgive you for not admitting your mistakes. If your girlfriend is always threatening you with a breakup, I advise you not to take it to heart.

In fact, she wasn't so aggrieved at all, she knew everything in her heart, she just wanted to be willful, but she didn't know it when she was too willful. Well, you have to understand, you just pretend she's really angry, and then you just have to be silent. She must be very angry, because her purpose is to scare you, but you are like a wooden man on the side without speaking or reacting, her words and actions will definitely be more intense, you don't care about that, look at your girlfriend in silence, just continue to be your wooden man.

She scolds you, or hits you, or whatever, and you just stand there. If you are sure that your girlfriend is deliberately losing her temper, and that your girlfriend is using a breakup to achieve a certain goal, then you can't take a cold approach. Even if you want to fulfill your girlfriend's wishes, you can take it easy, and now, you don't have to have anything to do with your girlfriend, you can tell your girlfriend who is trying to blackmail you with a breakup:

I'll give you a moment to calm down, and then tell me if you're sure you're breaking up with me. Personally, I guess your girlfriend, who always likes to break up to achieve her own goals, will be blindfolded when she hears this. Then what you have to do and continue to do yours is it, of course, don't give her too long to "calm down", girls, it's not a big deal to be willful occasionally.

Sometimes it's really annoying for your girlfriend to mention the breakup at every turn, you say you have a problem, why do you always mention the breakup? Is it so fun to break up? But if you think about it the other way, when you first met her, wasn't she like this?

Because she loves you and knows that you love her, she will be so willful to the extent of being reckless. As far as I know, girls will only show their character wantonly in front of the person they trust and love very much, and the more they love, the more willful they will be. So, after you have a proper "punishment", hurry up and comfort a few words, otherwise your girlfriend will be sad in your heart, and you will feel good when you see your girlfriend sad?

So, find an opportunity to comfort her properly. The more headstrong your girlfriend is, the more you can't be too "used to it". You can spoil her, love her, and love her, but you can't overdo it.

If you accommodate her too much, then you may spoil her. When you get married, it is very likely that she will run away from home for you again and again, you say, when the time comes, you have to work and take care of your family, and you have to find your wife everywhere, do you think you have enough energy? If your girlfriend is really willful, can't coax well, can't persuade well, doesn't give up if she doesn't achieve her goal, and doesn't care how excessive your demands are, then, I advise you, when will you wait if you don't leave at this time?

Turn around and walk away silently. If you don't worry about your girlfriend herself, you can find a place where she can't see it.

Personally, I think that sometimes what a girl says is different from what she thinks in her heart, maybe he just threatens you, wants you, and cares about her. Maybe you don't give her enough security, and then you often don't care about him, pay attention to him, and then he wants to attract your attention and say this to you, you will cherish her more, so you have to care for him often, take her out on a trip, and the two of you communicate often, don't often say break up, otherwise you will really break up when you talk about it.

Summary. Hello, there are several reasons that could be 1Your girlfriend feels that you don't care enough about her, or that you don't love him enough. Expect to evoke your love for him with a breakup, rather than really wanting to break up.

My girlfriend always said what was the reason for the breakup.

Hello, there are several reasons that could be 1Your girlfriend feels that you don't care enough about her, or that you don't love him enough. Expect to evoke your love for him with a breakup, rather than really wanting to break up.

I realized that it has been more than a month now, that is, after opening a room with him twice, I started to say that I would break up, and I would block it! But every time I went to her after that, she still came to see me and had sex with me ......After separation, it's very cold to be blacked, do you two often stay together?

Or don't see each other for a long time.

At first, I was together every three or five times, and finally I felt a pain in my brain, so I came out to work, he knew me and had a boyfriend before, and I talked about it for almost three years, I said it doesn't matter, as long as I don't get married, I'm going to rob it, it's together, but it's blocked when separated, and the teacher needs to contact me No, I feel like he doesn't love me at all, and he's been torturing me and playing with me, has she and her previous boyfriend been separated.

From your description, it doesn't look like he has feelings for you, but rather like he sees you as a sexual partner. I beg your pardon for taking the liberty of saying this.

No, it's a few times, but it still can't be broken, he said that he can't give up a person who has been good to me for a few years, and I hurt him a few times for you, I suggest you find out if they are really broken first. It stands to reason that you have a normal room, and after you are done, he doesn't want others to know about your relationship.

It's not broken, he said that he has been talking about people for a few years, so he can break it if he says it, it's okay, sister ......I just want to hear the truth. It means that he is playing with me, and he is lonely

It feels like it is. Blocking you is afraid that her relationship with you will be discovered by others.

She may have stepped on two boats.

His boyfriend found out about me having sex with her, and he forgave him ......

That means that her heart is still on his boyfriend's side, and you are just his supper or snack, not a meal.