Those who have suffered greatly, you can see it at a glance. What are the four characteristics that

Down-to-earth and steady, polite to people, never big words, introverted; When a person has these four characteristics, it means that he has suffered hardship.

Very mature, very steady, very strong, especially able to endure hardships, will not lose his temper, and has special endurance.

Treat everything relatively calmly, be able to carry things and have a sense of responsibility, and have an extremely strong personality, while being low-key and calm.

Very calm, very calm when encountering things, very steady in doing things, have their own ideas, know their own abilities, and will not be too strong.

Very economical, no longer dare to spend money indiscriminately, there will be a lot of savings; I work very hard, but I am afraid that one day if I don't work, I will have no money, and my life will be miserable again; Very positive, but also very optimistic, always hopeful about life.

They are very frugal, reluctant to spend money, even if they have money, they are not willing to buy new clothes, their clothes are usually patched, they don't like to talk much, and they like to be alone; Those who have suffered a lot, they will keep secrets.

I think the first characteristic is that they don't like to talk, they will be very forbearing, they will not talk about their experiences with others, and the second is that they like to be lonely very much, and they will enjoy their time alone.

Pi Xiaorou doesn't smile, won't be easily moved, is more taciturn, is very indifferent to everything, won't care, they will keep their mouths shut.

No one is born silent, silent, and calm. If you feel that there is such a person next to you, you don't like to talk very much, and you are still young and calm. There is no doubt that this person has suffered a great deal of pain in places you can't see.

I have a friend who can say that he did it "overnight". But this growth is passively accepted, he doesn't want it, and neither do we, as friends. Good friends are especially fond of playing, noisy and laughing, so to speak, the most childish one in our social circle.

However, people have good and bad luck, and there are unpredictable circumstances in the sky. I vividly remember that summer when his father was convicted of a "capital crime" in the hospital outpatient clinic. For us who were still very young, we were at a loss to deal with the doctor and the result.

He locked himself up all night and no one could see him, and the next morning he would become a mature and stable person that no one else knew. Since then, he has had the appearance of a steady and unspeakable adult. Behind everyone's maturity lies pain.

Any strong-willed person has high rules and regulations for yourself. As the song sings: "No one can see a rainbow without wind and rain, no one can succeed casually."

The seven-colored rainbow must be after the storm, there is never a shortcut in life, if people are not ruthless to themselves, it will be difficult to achieve what they want. From a certain point of view, people who have suffered a lot will become "ruthless". This kind of "ruthless" mistakes others, only to oneself.

Sometimes what you see is the tenacity of others, but in fact, it is a kind of self-cruelty to yourself. Human beings are naturally lazy and weak, and everyone wants to live out the flowers in the greenhouse. If the natural environment allows, no one wants to be proud of the cold plum and the snow as soon as they are born.

A child who is hurt will cry after being injured, and a child who is loved by no one can only hold back. Being able to cry is happiness, and not crying is perfection.

Happiness in life never comes inexplicably. Happiness is not a standard, but a reward. Yang Lan said this on the reciter:

Suffering is a part of life, it tests the noble character and wisdom of each of us, and only those who have undergone training can enjoy the transformation of pain into capital. "Pain is frustrating, depression is tenacity; Pain can be confusing, and there is no direction after being confused. People who can come out of pain will see a different world in their eyes.

Those who hoe the ground at noon are more likely to truly understand the connotation of "every grain is hard". Anyone who has endured great hardships knows that daily life is very complicated, and we should do our best to find a place to live, so we should cherish it.

It is particularly stable, very mature, very open, and calm, and generally has these characteristics, which are particularly obvious and can be easily seen.

If you find that there is such a person around you who doesn't like to talk very much, and he is still old and steady in doing things. There is no doubt that this man has suffered immensely in places you can't see.

They will enjoy life more, be grateful for life, be content and happy, such people have experienced hardships and know that life is very difficult, so they will cherish it more.