What will become of those who have suffered a lot in life?

Become calm. Because they have already experienced strong winds and waves, their hearts have become calm, and they will not be easily excited.

People who have endured great hardships in life are basically mentally stronger, able to deal with some setbacks calmly, and especially cherish the hard-won happy life.

People who have suffered a lot in life will eventually become hard-working and inspirational people. They know that they are the first to be different from others, and they want to work hard to change the status quo, so they can endure hardships more than ordinary people.

<> writer Yang Daxia pointed out that hardship is happiness.

You will find that those hardships you have endured are actually "stepping stones" to urge self-growth.

1.became taciturn, because he was taught and neglected, and he knew how to observe words and colors and be cautious in words and deeds.

2.Restrain your temper.

Only calmness can find a solution to the problem.

3.I learned to be ruthless.

You have to live well for yourself, and you won't be too nice to others.

4.I like to be alone and not feel lonely.

I have seen through the world and understand the chaos of the group, so I have to make a choice.

5.Study hard to improve yourself.

Knowing the importance of learning, I began to learn to enrich and improve myself.

6.It has become more and more self-disciplined.

Self-discipline is the primary tool for solving our life's problems. When you are self-disciplined, life is invincible.

Those who have not endured hardships fantasize about returning to the era of the big collective, and those who have endured hardships no longer want to go back to the era when they did not have enough food and clothing. That's the difference.

People who have endured hardships know that it is not easy to make money, and they will check their lives diligently. For those who have never suffered, I don't know how. Because I am a person who has been able to endure hardships since I was a child, and when I am old and rich, I will also be very modest.

Life, indeed very different, some people, the sky is high and I fly, the sea is wide with me, earn 10,000 yuan a day, glory and wealth, and enjoy the prosperity of the world; Some people, who have achieved nothing, stay at home, can't earn a penny, don't have a house, a car, and can't even marry a wife. It lives like ants.

However, the world of difference in life seems to have little to do with having endured hardships and not having endured hardships, and it has a lot to do with the genes of one's parents and the educational influence of the family, as well as with one's personal efforts.

Let's just talk about the two students I taught, they were classmates.

Student A is the only son of the principal's family of our school, and his mother is the leader of the procuratorate. At school, except for the teacher, the students didn't know that his father was the principal, he was humble, helpful, and responsible, and seemed to be a capable person. He studied hard and worked hard, always maintained the top few in his grade, and finally, he was admitted to a very good university for bachelor's, master's and doctoral studies, and after graduating with a doctorate, he went to work in Shenzhen with an annual salary of one million.

The other student was an orphan and his mother was a junior who died later, and from the age of five or six he lived at his grandmother's house. Grandparents and uncles are farmers, his aunt is sick, and the family is poor, and the hardships he endured can be imagined.

This child also likes to go to school, but he is withdrawn and does not want to communicate with others, so he always studies there by himself and does not listen to the teacher.

He didn't get admitted to college in the first year, so he kept reviewing, and his grandmother's family had no money, but he still had to review, and he didn't get admitted to college after reviewing for many years.

Some relatives told him to stop reviewing and find a job to work hard to earn money, but he just didn't listen. Grandma asked him to fall in love and start a family, but he didn't listen.

This child is now in his twenties, staying at home every day, not working, not in love, just playing with his mobile phone, not listening to anyone's words, a dead dog can't drag the wall, his seventy-year-old grandmother still works every day to earn money to support him.

People, the influence of his parents' family environment is too important to him, but his own character and his own efforts are more important.

Everyone can break free from the environment and succeed with individual efforts!

People who have really endured hardships are often very strong, they will not back down when they encounter difficulties, and they are also very frugal in life and do not like to get too close to some people.

1. You don't need others to understand yourself, and you don't need to talk too much to others. People who have suffered a lot, when they are at a low point, they all carry it by themselves, and there is no one to talk to them, and no one cares and greets, so after they have survived all the hardships, in fact, they understand best in their hearts that there is no empathy in this world, it doesn't matter if others don't understand, and they don't need to explain too much. 2. I don't like to get too close to others and don't seem to fit in.

3. Work silently and work hard to save money.

He is very low-key, special hard-working, he doesn't take anything to heart, and the pattern is very big.

Very hardworking, very hardworking, and very concerned about everything, but also able to help others, can solve problems for others.

Their mentality will be a little more peaceful, they can endure a lot of hardships, they will not care, they can do a lot of work.

Very calm, very calm when encountering things, very steady in doing things, have their own ideas, know their own abilities, and will not be too strong.

Very economical, no longer dare to spend money indiscriminately, there will be a lot of savings; I work very hard, but I am afraid that one day if I don't work, I will have no money, and my life will be miserable again; Very positive, but also very optimistic, always hopeful about life.

No one is born silent, silent, and calm. If you feel that there is such a person next to you, you don't like to talk very much, and you are still young and calm. There is no doubt that this person has suffered a great deal of pain in places you can't see.

I have a friend who can say that he did it "overnight". But this growth is passively accepted, he doesn't want it, and neither do we, as friends. Good friends are especially fond of playing, noisy and laughing, so to speak, the most childish one in our social circle.

However, people have good and bad luck, and there are unpredictable circumstances in the sky. I vividly remember that summer when his father was convicted of a "capital crime" in the hospital outpatient clinic. For us who were still very young, we were at a loss to deal with the doctor and the result.

He locked himself up all night and no one could see him, and the next morning he would become a mature and stable person that no one else knew. Since then, he has had the appearance of a steady and unspeakable adult. Behind everyone's maturity lies pain.

Any strong-willed person has high rules and regulations for yourself. As the song sings: "No one can see a rainbow without wind and rain, no one can succeed casually."

The seven-colored rainbow must be after the storm, there is never a shortcut in life, if people are not ruthless to themselves, it will be difficult to achieve what they want. From a certain point of view, people who have suffered a lot will become "ruthless". This kind of "ruthless" mistakes others, only to oneself.

Sometimes what you see is the tenacity of others, but in fact, it is a kind of self-cruelty to yourself. Human beings are naturally lazy and weak, and everyone wants to live out the flowers in the greenhouse. If the natural environment allows, no one wants to be proud of the cold plum and the snow as soon as they are born.

A child who is hurt will cry after being injured, and a child who is loved by no one can only hold back. Being able to cry is happiness, and not crying is perfection.

Happiness in life never comes inexplicably. Happiness is not a standard, but a reward. Yang Lan said this on the reciter:

Suffering is a part of life, it tests the noble character and wisdom of each of us, and only those who have undergone training can enjoy the transformation of pain into capital. "Pain is frustrating, depression is tenacity; Pain can be confusing, and there is no direction after being confused. People who can come out of pain will see a different world in their eyes.

Those who hoe the ground at noon are more likely to truly understand the connotation of "every grain is hard". Anyone who has endured great hardships knows that daily life is very complicated, and we should do our best to find a place to live, so we should cherish it.

It is particularly stable, very mature, very open, and calm, and generally has these characteristics, which are particularly obvious and can be easily seen.

If you find that there is such a person around you who doesn't like to talk very much, and he is still old and steady in doing things. There is no doubt that this man has suffered immensely in places you can't see.

They will enjoy life more, be grateful for life, be content and happy, such people have experienced hardships and know that life is very difficult, so they will cherish it more.