How good would it be to be able to pass the past, to forget the past or to face the past?

Oh yes, it's always good to remember, and the brothers in the game before will feel heartache when they recall, hey, I miss my brothers and sisters who ran away, I haven't seen them for more than 1 year, people's personalities will change over time, more than 1 year, my friends have forgotten about me 555555 landlord I feel the same way!! The landlord's memories are like fireworks, she is beautiful, but also very distant. We have to face the reality, don't always indulge in memories, we must aim for the future, the past is gone, those brothers and sisters who have struggled with you, brothers and sisters who have a good memory with you, believe it, they will remember, now we have to face life, face the future !!

There is no one in the world who has any feelings back to square one. Because as long as time is passed, it is separated by thousands of mountains and rivers. Since it can't be recovered, don't cling to it.

A lot of things have an expiration date. Expired and unwaiting. You just have to relax and go with the flow.

Transactions have their own rules. Forced hopes are more likely to be disappointed.

I've felt that way too.

A lot of friends in the past have not been contacted, and gradually faded out of sight, in fact, it is normal, there will always be fewer contacts after a long time, as long as there are a few intimate good friends around, it is enough, don't be sad, you will make a lot of new friends.

There should be two reasons why the unforgettable past is entangled:

1.Separation due to practical causes.

Many college lovers have experienced many good memories together and have deep feelings for each other, but when they graduate, they often have to separate due to various practical conditions.

As the saying goes, "Whether it's an occasional whim, or a destined fate encounter, there are always many helplessness that cause the two to not be able to rely on each other for a long time." ”

I haven't forgotten it for so many years, so it's better to seal this memory. After all, life always has to look forward, and the past is the precipitation of life, a part of life experience, and it is also a kind of happiness to recall occasionally.

2.Zeignick Memory Effect.

The Zeignick memory effect is the idea that people tend to forget things that have been done and have known results, but are impressed by things that have been interrupted and have not yet been dealt with. In psychology, this is called an "unfinished plot".

The second unforgettable possibility is that due to some objective reasons at the time, I failed to give this unforgettable relationship a result, whether it was good or bad. For this reason, there are some regrets in my heart, and the obsession of longing for the result makes me unable to let go and forget.

For example, the other party moves, or the family arranges to study abroad, or the job is suddenly transferred, etc.

Why it is recommended to treasure.

1.It's good to have some regrets.

Just like "distance produces beauty", sometimes, being too close to the truth or demanding a result may not be what you expect. Only with true relief can we meet again without being too embarrassed and face it calmly.

2.There are always some good memories in life.

There can be many memories, but the most beautiful and memorable ones may be so many things. is like the old ** at home, carrying the memories of life in the past.

I think it will be better to face the past, and only by facing the past can we know that we are insufficient, so that we can correct ourselves, so as to make ourselves stronger and stronger.

Personally, I think that in fact, for the past, we need to dare to face it, and at the same time, after facing it bravely, we also need to forget it as soon as possible, after all, there are still many beautiful futures waiting for us.

We all have to live in the present and forget the past, so we can't face the past if we forget the past.

I think it's best if you can completely forget the past, and if you can't, it's good to face it right. At the very least, you can get a lot of education from it.

In the face of the past, it is impossible to say that you will absolutely forget something, because there is always the possibility of remembering it. But if you face it successfully and are relieved, you will never need to worry about remembering to mention it.

Of course, it is to face the past and face the past self. That's what you've learned from the past, it's a stepping stone to maturity.

Of course, it is to face the past, because no matter what attitude you take towards the past, it is already in the past tense, that is, it has an impact on the present, it is also your past choice, if you regret it because of the past choice, it will have a bad impact on your present life, facing the past, after all, it is these pasts that distinguish you from others, which makes you have an exclusive life.

Of course, it's good to face the past, and it's useless to forget the past, because it's impossible to go back to the past, so it's better to face it calmly.

It is recommended that you have everything in the past, to affirm your past, to avoid making mistakes in the future, to make a good reference for our future, and to face the future requires you to show courage, set a goal, and strive to achieve.

Of course, it's better to forget the past, but if it's a bad thing, it's better to forget about it and start over.

I think it's better to forget the past, not to face the past, to tell him to pass forever, and it would be better to forget it.

It's better to face the past, it's impossible to forget the past, unless you have amnesia, only by facing the past, can you lift all your thoughts and views on the past, so only by facing the past, it's good.

Is it better to forget the past, or to face the past? Life should go on, and the past should be forgotten so that we can live a better life.

I think that since we have forgotten the past, we should actually face the past bravely, so that we can lay a better foundation for our future life and make our life more enjoyable.

It's definitely good to forget the past. Try to forget about the past and you can reopen it.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory.

Thank you for your question!

It must be good to forget the past, no one wants to live in memories. Whether it was once beautiful or painful, for one person, this is a thing of the past. Now that it's over, it's time to say goodbye to it!

The author believes that the reason why many people can't forget the past is that they dare not face the reality. Finally, allow yourself to live in pain all the time. Take feelings as an example, whether it is a boy or a girl, they are always used to paralyzing themselves in a self-deceptive way.

Knowing that it is impossible to go back to the past, he still insists on doing some actions that will not help.

Having said that, people have to face the reality, be brave and say goodbye to the past, this is the growth of life, but also the maturity of the mind. Thank you!

Is it better to forget the past, or to face the past? Of course, it's good to forget the past, so that you are in a good mood and you can start from scratch.

Face the good of the past and forget the bad of the past.

At the end of the year and the beginning of the year, a nostalgic thought has been perpetuating.

Think about the past year, think about the past years.

In the drifting thoughts, I look forward to finding another affirmation, and I also want to give myself an answer, and I am willing to gain an expectation.

It wasn't until the desk calendar came to the fifteenth day of the first month with the passage of time that I realized that the new year was about to start two months, and the 365 days that I thought were sufficient had started the countdown in a simple and simple way.

It turns out that everything new has begun for a long time, the past year, and even the past years, whether full of achievements or regrets, have passed, although memories are also a kind of motivation, but the deeper source comes from the future expectation.

I need to be ready to connect with the future, with the decisions of the past, with the attitude of the present.

The ledger is full of trivialities, looking back every night, trying to find traces of joy and happiness in them, this is a new training, to restore the tranquility and soothing that has been born spontaneously for a long time.

Re-reading the prose, watching the autumn moon and spring flowers read the old window courtyard, this is also a kind of training, in order to find those words that have been lost for a long time.

I'm doing something new, with memories of the past, with expectations for the future.

Letting go of the past is actually a blink of an eye, and the new life becomes a habit, only to find that behind all choices is actually a long-standing grievance.

Those good and bad, all in the past.

But those gained, precious, regretted, are all there. They will all be there in the days to come. So, I didn't lose anything, but because the past was widened, I had a future.

I've been watching the Korean drama "Please 1988" these days. The most impressive thing is not the ending lines, although the lines at the end of each episode will cause strong resonance, but when writing this article, what kept coming to mind was the lyrics: "The past is the past, and it also has meaning".

This TV series is about the life of the past generation, 32 years have passed since 1988. They were young and young at the beginning, and now they have entered middle age. And in this TV series, how many of us, maybe we are young, maybe our temples are slightly white?

It's as if the past and the present overlap.

If you're watching this TV show and you're saddened by their lost years, then don't think so. In youth, there is never anything to be sad about, even if it has long been a thing of the past and become unattainable. Because - the past is the past, and there is also meaning.

Sometimes it feels like the wind didn't exist. But they are also like the wind, taking something away from you and leaving something behind.

So, when the wind blows away, you can still remember the temperature and feeling when the wind blows on your cheeks and arms. Although you can't remember how many gusts of wind have passed by you in your life.

But the same gust of wind doesn't blow around you a second time. It's like, you won't meet the same person a second time. Just like Mr. Yu Guangzhong's poem, "The next time you pass by, there is no longer me in the world with lead". Now, please cherish everyone around you.

And those who have only been left in your memories, please also take some time in the quiet of the night, and occasionally take some time, to think about their faces, the tone in which they speak to you, the faces of their smiles... Slowly, perhaps, a smile will be on your lips. This is the meaning of the past, the meaning of them, even if there is no possibility of seeing each other again, but they can also bring you something from afar. Those people, those things, may become clearer and clearer, or they may become more and more blurred, but in your heart, the feeling they bring to you will always be the same and will not change.

Remember, ah

Even if something bad happens, in the middle of the night, if you suddenly feel sad - then, just think about it, the present will be the past, and everything in the past will be meaningful, so ah - please put away the sadness of the present. Say to yourself – the past is the past, and there is meaning.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; also because he loves you, he calls for your interest to turn it into a ...... for him and Yu Xiao's interestOr because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

A beautiful love enriches life, and a ruined love that has passed the test is perfect.