At the age of 20, if you were to choose, what kind of man would you choose?

If you want to get married, choose the latter one, and if you want to fall in love, you will choose the first one. I personally think you should choose what you like, your family is not good, if you don't fall in love now, you won't have time and conditions to talk about being busy with life in the future. The second one, while good, is likely to be just in front of you.

A man who is 8 years older than you and has much more social experience than you, can you tell whether he just wants to have fun or is seriously in love with you and hopes to get married and help you in your life? If two men pursue you, it means that you are very attractive and do not have to worry too much about choosing a mate in the future.

I don't think it's useful to call. Think for yourself.

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20. Get married.

I'm 18 and want to finish.

But no one. Unlucky.

Don't rush to choose.

You'll talk about it after you graduate.

Oooh. It's more troublesome.

I would choose the second one.

The first is that his problem doesn't seem to be easy to solve.

The second is your question over time.

Maybe it will change.

Life is still long, stop and go, look and see, otherwise you will regret it when you meet a better one in the future.

If you want to get married in the future, choose the second one, because the man who is older than you knows how to take care of you and loves you, and if you are just playful or something, choose the first one.

I'll choose the latter, women will age faster, so that 8 years older is about the same.

The former may have a relatively common language.

It should be to see who you like more.

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1. Pay attention to promises, successful men will never go back on their word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled before making a wish. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted. The man who runs the train with his mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and can't take action for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity.

Second, do not exaggerate. A successful man never talks casually, he will grasp the appropriate silence, and speak clearly but not babblingly. Just drink a little wine and tell a little story about your own little experience all over the table, and half a room can hear it without a loudspeaker, this kind of man, at most, will make the audience laugh, and no one will put your various so-called "road of struggle" in their hearts.

3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted. They read books, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotations. But they are unassuming, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they are never deliberately showy in order to satisfy their vanity.

They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more you taste it. Fourth, broad-minded. Successful men don't care, they don't covet small gains, they don't care about small losses, and they don't chatter about this and that.

Their vision is never stumped by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family. Success 5. Not self-centered. Men respect themselves and know how to respect others even more.

They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men who are "how I am", the typical little emperor's temper, have not grown up yet. 6. Have the courage to admit mistakes.

Successful men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at good advice. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their own inappropriate decisions, and never make excuses to prevaricate. 7. Be strong-willed.

Successful men have the psychological quality of not messing around, once they determine the goal they are striving for, they work towards it, and when they encounter setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but they never give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set out with confidence. 8. Clean and tidy.

Successful men respect their appearance. They have a hairstyle that suits them best, a clean chin without stubble, a face that is not greasy, and no long nails. The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they are neat and generous, and they won't be crumpled like a courier.

They will never wear black leather shoes and white socks and wear suits to travel. 9. Successful men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the affected areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood ...... voluntarilyThey don't necessarily do all of these things, but they don't do nothing.

10. Have hobbies. They are not robots who only know how to work, they know how to use their hobbies to regulate their tense nerves, and they can work and relax at the same time, which makes them interesting. No wonder the women say:

Men with hobbies are not easy to get bad.

Hello, although you are not detailed enough, I still !! No!!! It is recommended that you marry A!

1. Have you ever considered why a man in his 30s doesn't get married? You must not believe what he says about waiting for you to appear, fate or something like that. You should also think about why your boyfriend doesn't want to get married too early?

It's not that there is a problem with his attitude towards life, but that the employment pressure of college students is too great, and the pressure of survival is too great, do you inadvertently add pressure to him, and are you afraid that you will be wronged if you get married too early?

2. The concept of a girl having a home at this age is understandable, but don't forget that the boy's mental age is 4 years younger than the actual age, that is, if you let a 20-year-old child marry you, it is understandable that he doesn't want to get married too early. The two of you have a 5-year relationship foundation, and in the past 5 years, you know better than anyone what your boyfriend is, just because you don't want to get married too early and break up? To what extent has the career of the man in his thirties developed in what you are talking about?

Have you ever wondered what your boyfriend will look like in ten years? It's not fair to compare you to the two of them!

3, Can you guarantee that this man in his thirties will not seduce other girls in the future? There are only two situations for people in their thirties who don't get married, and as soon as they get married, they find someone who is almost 10 years younger than themselves: one is that the career is particularly big, and it is worth marrying such a person.

The other is a man in his thirties, common sense infers that he must be looking for a partner in his 30s, looking for someone in his 20s, and the motive is not pure!

4. Listen to your parents, that's right! A person in his 30s makes you happy, just like I make my 10-year-old niece happy! Don't be stupid!

Personally, I think,,It's good to be with B,,I have friends looking for someone who is 9 years older than her,,They are also very good,,But I found a man who is 2 years younger than me,I always think he's not very mature,,But sometimes he's not very mature,,,I think I'm also good with my friends,,I don't think it's a problem,,The problem is that you love that more,。 ,Have you explained to others?,,More than 30 is not very big,,, I personally like men older than me,,Mature,Steady。。 Observant..

It's very simple, you ask yourself, who do you love more?

b is very young now, but sooner or later he will be 33 years old one day, and the key question is, who do you love more? Who loves you more!

The age is a little older. However, it must be right for a woman to be with a man who is good to herself and can give her stability and security. What do you think.

There is no standard for love, the key lies in your selection criteria for each other!