Is it right to control one s own destiny,,, give an answer

That's right! It is true that the fate of the individual is in his own hands, but the difference is that some people do not like to be in their own hands, and they will leave their own destiny to others or to the destiny itself.

Sometimes fate is in the hands of others.

I've seen a story about a student who was so good at learning that he used to substitute for his teacher, and the school leaders liked him.

This kid has always been full of confidence to get into a major university, but in the end, he actually failed the list, and he didn't receive a notice from a university, and his self-confidence collapsed at once.

Just when he didn't know what to do, the school leaders asked him to stay at the school, and he really didn't know how to thank the school, so he repaid the school with his hard work.

But one day, he accidentally found an admission letter from a major university that he should have received more than 20 years ago.

It was only then that he realized that the school had taken a fancy to his teaching talents, so he withheld his admission letter privately.

In a moment of rage, he took the school to court, but even if he could win, twenty years of youth were gone.

This man, his destiny, if he is in his own hands, then he is already a graduate of a key university, a graduate of a key university, and with his hard-working character, his future life can be imagined.

So sometimes people's fate is also in the hands of others.

I don't know. Everyone's point of view is different, the living environment is different, and the people, things, and things encountered are different, so many things, many feelings will be different, and it can be said that in today's society, there are very few people who can support their own destiny.

One of the teachers told me that today is actually the result of your yesterday, so tomorrow will definitely be the result of your today. Quite simply, most of the things are in your own hands. Most of what is said here is within your reach, but what you can't do is only pray.

This desire will make you more alive!

There is a part of the destiny of the individual that is in the hands of the society, and what we can do is to give full play to the part that we can control.

In fact, only 10% of each of us has tapped our potential. I have to say that each of us has infinite possibilities in the future, it depends on whether you have confidence in yourself.

The good or bad of fate cannot be simply measured by whether it is successful or not. In addition, there are differences in everyone's definition of success. I like the saying that "success is to get closer and closer at your own pace", and success is not a result, but a state of being on the road all the time.

But there is always a success in the traditional sense, and perseverance and hard work are the necessary conditions for achieving him, that is, the part that we can control personally. There are many other conditions, and sometimes there are social factors. This epidemic has changed the fate of many people.

Summary. Hello: The fate of an individual is written by the individual or by the society.

405 I believe that the fate of the individual is still in his own hands, not in the hands of society.

If a person has nothing to do, does not learn and has no skills, no matter how good the society is, he will not achieve anything, at most he will eat and drink like other ordinary people. And once the society is in turmoil, such a person is the first to be hurt and the first to be abandoned by the society, because he has no value and is a moth to the society. The famous example is Greece, before Greece's welfare was good, causing many people to get by, not wanting to forge ahead, anyway, they don't work and have ** support, and with the bankruptcy of the Greek state, the whole people are in debt, and these people who rely on ** have a hard time.

You say, no matter how good the society is, what's the use of you not having the ability?

Whether an individual's destiny is in the hands of the individual or society.

Hello: Is the fate of an individual in the hands of an individual or in the hands of society405 I believe that the fate of an individual is still in his own hands, not in the hands of society. If a person has nothing to do, does not learn and has no skills, no matter how good the society is, he will not achieve anything, at most he will eat and drink like other ordinary people.

And once the society is in turmoil, such a person is the first to be hurt and the first to be abandoned by the society, because he has no value and is a moth to the society. The famous example is Greece, before Greece's welfare was good, causing many people to get by, not wanting to forge ahead, anyway, they don't work and have ** support, and with the bankruptcy of the Greek state, the whole people are in debt, and these people who rely on ** have a hard time. You say, no matter how good the society is, what's the use of you not having the ability?

If a person works hard, learns all the time, and constantly absorbs nutrients from work, life, and society, so that he can continue to improve, then no matter how bad the society becomes, he will be a human being, at least he will live a much better life than ordinary people. The simplest of you is the ** in 1999, when no one understood the Internet, they came out to work hard, and in 06, the spring of the Internet came, and Alibaba reaped the fruits of victory. You say, no matter how bad the society is, what's so terrible about you having the ability?

But if you say that, it means that society promotes personal growth, right?

Hello, it can be said that you are strong, and society is not terrible.

Society is a catalyst, but the fate of the individual is still in his own hands.

Not sufficient. If society progresses, it is not good for individuals not to work hard.

If you work hard, you will take your destiny into your own hands.

Can you say something specific.

Those who work hard certainly have more advantages than those who don't, even now it may not be visible, but God will definitely give you a chance in the long journey of life (for example, to live to the age of 70). And if you don't have the ability to catch it, then maybe life is over. There is still 1% hope to seize the opportunity if you work hard, and 0% chance if you don't work hard.