Can you control your own destiny, can you control your own destiny

Not everyone can firmly grasp the so-called fate, and fate is not all in their own hands, otherwise we will not care about the sorrow of birth, old age, sickness and death and the fatal pain brought to us by sudden injuries. When my sister left six years ago, I clearly felt the fragility of life and the powerlessness of nature too often, and the political books at that time said that we were not powerless in the face of nature, and we needed to exert subjective initiative. How can we hold our destiny in hand?

How can we guarantee that He will not shrink in our hands? Nearly 70,000 lives in Wenchuan fell in **, thousands of eagerly awaited hearts, can we use such a sentence to send them away? Tell them that their fate is in their own hands, don't you think how pale it is?

Why do you ask this? Fate is not in your own hands, is your life controlled by others? As the old saying goes:

It is in heaven to succeed, and it is up to people to make things happen. Youyun: It's man-made.

For, you may not be able to change your own destiny, but if you don't, you will not change your destiny!

Haha, your fate is your own, although there is more oppression from the outside world in this world, but you have to live on your own.

Destiny can be in your own hands.

And then you're going to find out that you want to have a good ending, and God is going to give you a regret, and that's when you're going to think, God is going to play tricks on me, but we're going to have to live well, so there's one thing I'm going to say to you, before you do everything, tell yourself, do your best! Fate is in your own hands! And afterwards, you need to tell yourself, it's okay, it's all gone, you don't have to think about it, smile at everything, and you'll feel that God doesn't seem to be so fond of playing tricks on me.

Life is like a blank sheet of paper, and the black dots and bright spots are drawn by yourself. What should fate be? Who should be in charge?

Maybe we've been confused and we've lost me. "I am confident that if I live for 200 years, I will hit the water for 3,000 miles"This sentence is the best interpretation, grasping one's own destiny is like seeing the sun erupting, a strong and beautiful idea arises spontaneously, the light of the great vitality envelops us, do to be a person who controls his own destiny, to be a strong man of life. Everyone who comes into this world is a small flower equal in a hundred gardens, but it blooms in different shapes, colors, and fragrances, and each flower has a unique world.

Each person's destiny should be in their own hands, not to exclude, deny the influence of society on the destiny of the individual. The differences between people are reflected in family background, academic accomplishment, growth experience, etc. For the same thing, because everyone has a different outlook on life and different values, they will make different judgments and choices, which will lead to different life paths for everyone.

Compared with a person who is obedient, he may obey everything, obey his parents at home, obey his teachers at school, and follow his orders when he steps on the job; And if he is a more assertive and rebellious person, he may go his own way and don't care what others say. In this way, the life trajectories of these two types of people will be completely different. There will be a lot of regrets in life, not all dreams can be realized, there is a saying that all kinds of things in the world will eventually become empty, miss the flowers and branches of yesterday, and miss the present.

If you say that there is a fate, why do you get together, if you say that there is no fate, what is the fate! Maybe everything in the world has been arranged for a long time, but before the time comes, you can't grasp it, and when the time comes, you don't care about it anymore. Life is a matter of constant pursuit.

Nature is fair, it will not let it stay a little longer because of the color of spring, nor will it deprive it of the right to exist because of the silence of winter. There is only one life in a person, love life! The road that is identified must be bravely walked, and a better tomorrow will be drawn by yourself. Adopt it.

Struggle is the reason for human existence! Therefore, we live for ourselves, and we live to leave our traces.

First of all, we must recognize the true face of fate and see the current fate of the individual, so as to have the opportunity to get rid of the manipulation of fate, otherwise we will change the soup but not the medicine, and fall into the illusion of thinking that we have broken free from fate.

What is our destiny? Destiny involves the direction of our lives and our daily lives. What is driving our destiny?

First of all, the cultural background, as well as the values in the cultural background, values provide us with the standard of judging things, as well as the direction of our behavior, and according to the value standard to give us a positive emotional experience or negative emotional experience of behavior, guiding us to show our daily behavior according to the value standard, our words and deeds do not follow the behavior pattern given by the value system, including our joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and more in-depth into our work, marriage, friendship, success goals, retirement, etc. This is how we see many people as if they are one of the tens of millions that can be reproduced, and there is no influence on one of us or less of our society, and our existence can be completely replaced by others, which is our fate. I am free from the grip of fate, and I have the courage to become a unique person, an irreplaceable person, a person with the freedom to choose.

You can read the "Book of Enlightenment (First Draft)" to discuss this aspect.

Traditional Chinese understanding of fate is divided into fate and fortune. Life is a person's origin, and luck is a life experience. People can't change their lives, but they can change their fortunes, which may make some sense in a society with extremely poor mobility and a relatively closed growth environment, but this statement cannot be established in today's society.

First of all, although the birth of an individual has a great impact on the individual, but the modern society has a large mobility, rich information, and the same life achievements are very different, it is difficult to explain that the origin has played a decisive role, but in general, the material environment and educational environment of the individual origin will have greater advantages, and the second generation of officials and the second generation of the rich are generally easier to achieve socially recognized achievements than ordinary people. As for luck, not to mention, any time you have a feeling of learning, it will far exceed the role of feng shui and fortune telling, not to mention that the authenticity of feng shui and fortune telling itself has not been accurately confirmed. As long as anyone continues to grow and treat themselves with a new attitude, they will always change their past destiny.

In modern society, it is also said that fate is life, and luck is experience, and the same principle is the same.