In college, I couldn t distinguish what a girlfriend was, what a friend was, and what a wife was

Updated on psychology 2024-07-06
68 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Friend: I can talk to you about everything, I can roll the sheets with you, I can fool around with you, but I don't need you to be responsible and I don't care about my body.

    The person who posted you is called a friend.

    Girlfriend: will keep talking to you about things because of the fear of losing you; I can roll the sheets with you, but I will tell you to pay attention to your body;

    When it's cold, you will wonder if you are dressed warmly; When eating, it will occur to you that the person you don't have to eat is called a girlfriend.

    Wife: Whether you are poor, rich, or sick, the person who has the courage to accompany you through your life is called a wife.

    Secondly, what you said, "Because I think that when a girl grows up and marries someone else, she rarely interacts with her former male classmates" is wrong, everyone has their own social circle, can you say that you will not contact your former female classmates after you get married? Or your former female classmate contacted you, would you hang up unceremoniously and directly**?

    Therefore, if you look at things to see the essence and not just look at the surface, if your wife is having an affair with someone else, of course it is not good, but if it is just a normal conversation, this is completely within the acceptable range.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Girlfriends need to admit it publicly'Wife"It's a girlfriend who has been in bed As for you, you just haven't met a girl you like

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, this is a matter of your mentality, everyone talking and chatting with everyone is not necessarily all about getting married in the future! Friends are men and women, you should try to communicate with other people, so that after a long time you will be able to distinguish what kind of person is suitable for friends and what kind of person is suitable for marriage! Otherwise, you'll never know!

    Friends are mutual! If you don't contact someone, you may be afraid of misunderstanding or something! Personal opinion only!

    I hope it can help you, I hope it will be oh thank you!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's about having an idea in your mind, and you want to think about who is what and who is.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Psychologically immature, they all communicate with others, so that this phenomenon will not occur.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After reading your description

    But what do you ask?

    Do you want to talk about how to end up with the girl you knew in the Propaganda Department? >

    But you also said that you didn't have any thoughts about her, and you just thought that you were going to be together like this

    That means you're not in a relationship right now, are you?

    Although I don't want to invest too much emotion because I'm hurt

    I'm sure you'll always meet another girl you want to protect, so let time decide

    Now it's just a matter of going with the flow

    I always insist that if you really have something you like, you will chase it, and don't let yourself regret it because you missed it

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let it go, or you will be hurt, learn to protect yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Damn, do I have to dig the foot of the wall?

    In this way, look at who is beautiful, and she bf is not worthy, digging wildly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Say it if you like it, it's very simple, whether you like it or not is her business.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you tell the truth: I advise you to study hard, focus on your studies first, and as you said, if you are afraid of getting hurt, it is recommended that you wait until you graduate from college to find a girlfriend, so that it is more stable!Because there are many examples of people who break up after graduating from college, and I don't think you want that as a result).

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I just think her relationship with you is normal. It's just that you're familiar with it now. It's that you want to think about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are two places for men to think about problems, one is the brain and the other is the lower body.

    Think for yourself, if both places think you should chase her, then go on it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You will only hurt all the people you have in contact with even more!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I can't stand it!! Didn't finish it! Don't even divide it! If you insist on giving it to me, I'll take it! Hee-hee---

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's ethical to continue your relationship with your female friends, which one broke up and chased.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The typical abusive love is that you don't know your true feelings You are just a feeling, a like, just a hormone secreted by the brain when a man sees a beautiful woman, and it is recommended that the landlord reacquaint himself with himself.

    Hehe, I don't know much about the situation, don't blame me for the wrong thing, I wish the landlord good luck.

    ps: It's just college and it's good to have fun.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You have too many ideas. The psychological state of many girls is that the more people pursue, the more they can satisfy their vanity. Although they already have a boy they really like in their hearts.

    You are not called a flower heart, but a green stupidity.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm talking about it when I'm working. Digging corners comes at a cost.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Live in the moment.

    There will be no such opportunities in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The last thing in this world is two-legged people. Don't be in such a hurry to find a girlfriend, you see so many people around you, handsome, not handsome, don't they all have wives in the end? As long as a man has a career, he has a wife.

    Let's think of it as friendship. Don't break it, break it, it's not even that good.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't want to get hurt, the first criterion for finding a girlfriend is not to be distracted, because there are definitely men who are better than you. He now abandons others and chooses you. Then you will definitely abandon you in the future and choose someone else. Remember.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Someone else's innocent friendship, and you distort your understanding.

    Making more friends during your college years will be very helpful for your future society.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Dude, I'm in a very similar situation to you, I was afraid of hurting both parties and having no girlfriend, so what you do now is still going to continue to do it, and you can accept it yourself, you can dig into the corner of someone else's wall to show that you are very good, and this kind of relationship is relatively strong, but you can confess to them and see how they react. If you start to object, then say it's a joke, so it ends well, it doesn't hurt feelings, and it won't affect helping together in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Look at your narrative, you just have a good impression of those girls (including the one in the Propaganda Department) and not love, love can make people dizzy, and you want to pursue her by any means, although you have been injured, but you still have scruples and hesitations on the basis of liking, so I think you haven't been shot by Cupid's arrow, and it is recommended that love be followed, don't force it too much!

    And I wish you happiness!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then you want to open it. One word. Play.

    As for what to play. Of course, it's playing with other people's feelings.

    Except for this. There's nothing more to play with.

    Think about when I first met my wife. It's pretty much the same as you.

    But it's just playing. I was tempted. !

    There is no way to do it. The more you give. The more you are injured.

    You have to remember this sentence.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Basically, we both encountered the same problem, I also found the girl yesterday, this one is not married and her boyfriend is not married. Be brave enough to show that you care about her and help her from the heart, come on.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, this kind of name is disgusting for people of my age, and I am not used to the call of husband and wife between students. Expert.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, whether it will be disgusted depends on the character of the other party.

    What's the hurry, take your time, call her first.

    Back to the nickname, she replied at home.

    You can call her whatever people call her.

    If you call your wife, you can wait until it's time for her birthday, or when you're celebrating your birthday, or on a holiday like Valentine's Day.

    Or you ask your girlfriend for her opinion, if she doesn't suggest it, just call me I think it doesn't make sense to call your husband or wife when dealing with the object.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Depending on what kind of personality your girlfriend is, if she is a more stable person, it is better not to, she will think you are frivolous. If that's what she usually calls you, that's fine.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it were me, I wouldn't be used to it, after all, I don't know if I can go to the end, I can call these baby. Girls will be sweeter in their hearts. However, it should not be called in public. The rest agree with the fourth floor.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It depends on how far you are. If it's just a place, don't applaud. Then she'll feel like you're not doing this to everyone.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This varies from person to person. You'd better ask her.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No, generally you have a heart for her, and everything is happy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's good if you are diligent and motivated, the most important thing is that you are good to her, and she also knows how to be grateful, otherwise your academic qualifications may become an obstacle for you, and you can read more books to improve yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When a woman falls in love with a man, she looks to the future.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    College students can't say anything, as long as you have a common topic and there is no generation gap

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    As long as your love is strong enough.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    University student? Does it matter now!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It means that she is afraid that you will be suspicious in a long-distance relationship, or she thinks that there must be a better man in college and wants to dump you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Stupid! It's just that she may not be getting along with you!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I don't want you! He has a junior. I have abandoned you, mourn! Brothers.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    How simple and clear, it means that she wants to break up with you, she doesn't like you anymore, and she will find a better job in college or later.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    She doesn't feel worthy of you, and you can find a better adoption.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It means that she doesn't like you anymore, she is a future college student.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It does make sense, although it is not entirely correct, but it is less stressful for both sides. Good for both families!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    What happened to the rural girl? Don't look down on rural people, count the generations of your ancestors, and your ancestors must have also farmed. It's not that you understand it this way, they are also college students, just because she is a rural person, it is wrong for you to be a household!! It's infuriating.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Speechless. What's wrong with rural women, aren't the ancestors of your family from the countryside?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Love is a person's business, a person's Zen, rejoicing alone and breaking off by itself. Like a year of flowing water, the lone lamp is contrasted, and the experience is alone. Love is not a noun, but a verb, and it requires you to give, give, and give ......in order to water a flower.

    But where do the flowers come from without seeds?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Simple, easily shy, and you have not many girls who have the same experience as you.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Cheerful and kind, that's all.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    In fact, if you don't look for the best, it's a waste of money, and there are more cases where there are no results! Oh! I'm a freshman girl. Personal opinion!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Then continue to be obedient, and fate will naturally come at the right time

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    I can talk to you.,A girl with a good personality.。

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    When you really feel the need to look for it again, you don't have to deliberately look for what it looks like, find what you love.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Just let it be, don't pay too much attention to it, she will gradually appear by your side.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    When you see a beautiful woman with a good character, you chase it, and you don't lose anything.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It's nothing, it's good to like it, but it's basically unrealistic, just playing. Don't take it too seriously.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    It's good to be able to find it.,Where are so many requirements.。。。

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Don't look for it, don't look for it, it's best to never, never.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    This kind of thing is a female ticket, and you have to follow fate.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    In your case, find the middle and bottom.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    It's better to finish college and look for it.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Generally, there is no good result, and the graduation day is the breakup day.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Nowadays, college students always want to fall in love, and they feel that they can do it everywhere.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    If you have a woman, you should laugh.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    If you still love her, forgive her.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    If you don't want to be separated, you can confess everything, and you can think about it after you explain it clearly.

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    People have always been someone else in their hearts, can you have a good result there?

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