Everyone else has a girlfriend in college, but I don t have a girl to deal with, how to resolve it?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How can I say it.,Feelings are two things.,If there's no girl taking the initiative, you can take the initiative yourself!

    Falling in love with someone starts with appearance, falling into talent, and being loyal to character. Of course, those boys who look against the sky have already been carved up, and most of the remaining boys have to rely on talent and character to win! Here are some tips on how to make yourself more outstanding!

    First of all, the clothes should be neat and decent: as a boy, if you don't have cosmetics and long hair that you don't have to play around, then you have to put a lot of thought into your clothes. It's important to be neat and clean, and it's something that most boys can do, so it's not a big deal.

    Then "decent" is even more important! Dressing depends on the occasion, and some boys like to wear leggings in gym class! To be honest, I really don't know what to think, maybe I think it's more comfortable to wear, but I'm sorry, most girls can't appreciate it!

    What's more, some boys are really too sissy, and they are more feminine than women when they go shopping, and they even talk loudly, in fact, many girls don't like this type of ......It's too eye-catching!!

    Secondly, you have to have your own specialty. It doesn't have to be good at basketball or proficient in a certain aspect, you always have something you like to do You have to learn to expand your strengths, not to show off, at least in a certain aspect you deserve to be remembered! Otherwise, you will have a girlfriend in the future, but suddenly one day your girlfriend will find out that you seem to be worthless......That's embarrassing!!

    Also, you have to have a good character. Don't say that you don't care about girls in everything.,At least you should have the demeanor that a boy should have.,Some boys are accidentally bumped into by girls and look like they look super disgusted......Don't look at yourself like that! If I bump into you, it's clear that you've earned it!?

    Try to let the girls show a little gentlemanly demeanor, okay? Don't be so stingy!

    In the end, in fact, most girls are still not very willing to take the initiative to chase boys, if you want to find a girlfriend, you still have to rely on your own initiative, those girls who are loud to find a boyfriend have long been taken away by the active boys, and when you find that you are not very good in itself, you may be invited to their wedding! So, when you meet the right girl, chase it, failure is not terrible, people must have a small goal, what if they succeed? Even if you fail, you can count yourself as experienced!

    Don't think that some boys are born to flirt with girls, in fact, there is a lot of effort behind the scenes

    It's very happy to have a good love in college, but don't force it if you really can't meet it, maybe your girlfriend is on her way, just wait! But if you have the right person, I still hope that you can treat this relationship with your heart, and you don't have to follow the other party in everything, at least don't do something that deliberately hurts the other party. This is not only a matter of demeanor, but also the basic morality of being a human being!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    <>Oh my God, big brother, you don't think that other people's girlfriends, girlfriends take the initiative to chase people, everyone has girlfriends, haha, generally speaking, girls don't take the initiative to take care of people, generally I think if you're not particularly handsome, the average girl won't take the initiative to take care of you, you still need to take the initiative to take care of girls, okay, it's just that you take the initiative to pursue girls, it's not necessarily a pursuit, just add a few more girls' *** or QQ numbers, and then usually talk more about it, In fact, as long as you take the initiative in this thing, you will have a story, that is, maybe you will find a few girls or which girl in it, and talk to you better, and then maybe one day you can go out together for a meal, watch a movie or something, this fate is coming!

    Anyway, if you don't take the initiative, there is no possibility of having a girlfriend, well, you still need to take the initiative on your own, big brother. It's that if everyone else has a girlfriend, you also take the initiative to find one, I don't think it's very difficult, it's a girlfriend, in fact, as long as you treat her with your heart, if you chase someone with your heart, in fact, girls are the kind of creatures who are good to her, and he will go with whom, so I believe in you, you can still chase girls, so ah, big brother, work hard

    But in fact, I don't think college is the time to have a girlfriend, that is, in fact, a girlfriend is not a necessary thing, if everyone else has a girlfriend, if you envy it, you can go to find one, but in fact, not is not a bad thing, you know, it is more important to enrich yourself in college, it is a girlfriend, sometimes it depends on fate, that is, if you think you don't have it, I think it's to go to the library more, read more books, This will still help you find a girlfriend in the future, really enrich yourself, and then get a few more scholarships, and then there will be girls who will notice you

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Now people's thinking is more and more transcendent, and now children in elementary school are in love, not to mention college students, today we will talk about today's topic together, in college, everyone else has a girlfriend, and they don't have a girl to deal with how to resolve it.

    Today's college students are not the same as before, because there are too many communication software now, such as buckles, WeChat, Momo and so on. So it's normal to fall in love in college, if college students don't fall in love, it's not normal, then let's get down to business, talk about today's topic, if you don't fall in love in college, is there a girl to deal with, how to resolve it, this point is explained first, if this is the case, this shows that your appearance may be a little unsatisfactory, but in reality, some of them are not good-looking, but they still found some good boyfriends and girlfriends, what is the reason, this shows that falling in love is not ** appearance, So don't feel inferior, it's generally easy to find a girlfriend or boyfriend, the general mouth will speak, and at the same time, the heart is also careful, with a sense of humor, integrity, etc., such people are easy to find. But if you don't encounter it, you can take the initiative and don't be too shy, and you will generally succeed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't have a girl to bring courtesy, you should join a few associations to do his public activities and socialize by yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's better to be yourself, or to make yourself better.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1: First of all, look at your social circle, there are few people who pretend to be blind in the social circle, and the way to meet girls is very small. 2:

    In terms of personality, see if you are more introverted and slow to heat, and you are more shy when talking to girls. Hall 3: I hope that the girl will take the initiative to take care of herself, unless the girl likes you very much and is brave and may take the initiative to find you.

    4: Boys strive to improve themselves, whether in foreign trade or study, at least to make themselves look clean and motivated. 5:

    I try to participate in many activities at the university, increase my network, take the initiative to meet new people, and expand my social scope. 6: If you have a favorite object, you will take the initiative to pursue it, and other people's hidden girlfriends are also actively pursued by others, of course, it is not excluded that girls take the initiative.

    7: Now is the time for self-learning, and there is not much need to attach much importance to such things. Most of your energy can be focused on studying, because when you are excellent, you will naturally attract more people.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can first see if you are very handsome, handsome and explosive, as the saying goes, people look at the face first and then look at the inside, if you look average, don't think about walking on the road Li This will be accosted, after all, the ratio of men and women is seriously imbalanced.

    If you still improve the burn outwardly, it is recommended to pay attention to two points: temperament and dressing, as the saying goes, it is better to dress well than to wear well, if there is a particularly prominent dress in the crowd, it will first attract the attention of the opposite sex, and temperament is also very important, what kind of temperament you take will be cultivated, which will greatly reduce the impact of appearance.

    In the end, if you are rushing to find a girlfriend, it is also crucial to take the initiative, and if you meet someone who likes to be skinny, you will chase after it, leaving a good influence on the other party.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If someone else has a girlfriend but no boyfriend, people of the same age have girlfriends to tell if others have girlfriends, avoid mentioning things that girls hate in the future.

    If someone else has a girlfriend, temperament is also very important. When someone else has a girlfriend, the key is to enrich yourself. Don't be sad or envious because someone else has a girlfriend. Make sure that the reserved ** number is open. Someone else has a leaky girlfriend is someone else's business.

    It's your business to train yourself from now on. It's normal to not have a girlfriend in college.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Ay. College life is indeed an important part of life.

    I've been chasing a girl for many years, and she sent me a sentence on QQ: If you never abandon, I will in life and death.

    I didn't understand, so I asked a friend who had passed level 6 to translate, and he said: If you don't leave me, I will die with you! .So I was heartbroken and never contacted the girl again. Later, I passed the sixth level of English, and I realized that it was the ...... "If you don't give up, I will live and die".

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This situation may be caused by your introverted personality and dislike to communicate with people. You have to be more open-minded, take the initiative to participate in all possible groups or activities such as club bureaus, and have more contact with girls, so that you will have a chance.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, you may not have too many girls in contact with yourself, and you may be relatively homely. Pay attention to yourself in the course of some occasions and. Only you have your own ability.,Or if you're good at stupidity, you'll naturally attract girls from the good and bad rock show to talk to you.,You or something.。

    Therefore, the iron needs to be hard. You also need to work harder on your own.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Become good and see the past, such as fitness, improve clothing, read more books, and find hobbies similar to each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since it's because everyone else has a girlfriend and you want to have a girlfriend, then you can find one. Zhongyun.

    The classmates at school can sell Danliang, or expand Chi Tuan's own social networking.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, in college, you have to overcome your inner fear, be bold in your relationship, and be thick-skinned.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Participate in more group activities, learn to read books in the library, and get to know many classmates.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then study hard and keep improving! If you have strong ability and work well, others will pursue you in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Everyone else has a girlfriend in college, and you don't have a girl to deal with it, so you have to take the initiative to chase others.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Why do you have to have a girlfriend yourself! Feelings are very fateful, instead of thinking about how to find a girlfriend, it is better to study your studies!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A: Not having a girlfriend is not a failure! It's normal not to have a girlfriend in college, and that doesn't determine whether a person succeeds or fails.

    Many people in college are boyfriend and girlfriend, and after graduation, they are separated, and entering the society is another world, love in college is just love, and love after entering the society is towards marriage and happiness. So don't come to this to judge yourself as a failure, it's a wrong idea. Reading well and studying theoretical knowledge in college is the king.

    When you develop well, enter the society, enter the company, and there are a lot of girls around you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Entering the college years, getting rid of the shackles of teachers and parents in high school, it can be said that college life is much better than high school life, and it can be regarded as carefree.

    In fact, many college students have entered a misunderstanding, college life is indeed a lot less constrained, but if you want to achieve something, you have to rely on your own self-discipline. If you want to have a good job in the future, it is important to learn professional knowledge. With a skill, you have the ability to make money, and if you have money, can't you find a girlfriend?

    In college, it can be said that most of love is very pure, and you don't need to think about the trivial things of life, such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. As long as you look okay and chase a girl with your heart, or have a higher emotional intelligence, it is not difficult to have a female friend.

    It mainly depends on your own positioning and ability, if you are very good, there will naturally be a bunch of flowers around you. Whether you want to find a girlfriend or not depends on your wishes.

    There are also some people who don't have a girlfriend because they don't have a suitable one, or they want to go to graduate school or go abroad, etc., and they don't want to waste time and experience because of talking about girlfriends. Before I have the ability, I just hope that I will live a good life alone.

    In short, if you can't find a girlfriend in college, you have to think about your ability, emotional intelligence, family background, appearance, etc. If you are very average, then work hard to improve yourself, so that you can have the capital to have a good future for your other half.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, you need to be actively looking. It is recommended that you tell your friends and relatives about your desire to find a girlfriend and ask them to introduce it to you, which is currently the most common way; You can find goals among colleagues, classmates, and friends, and take the initiative to confess them; Finally, be proactive in expanding your network, so you know more people and have a better chance of finding a girlfriend.

    Another point is that we must have a clear understanding of ourselves, and we must not be arrogant or arrogant.

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