Can t afford to buy a house! Do you want to be with him!

You should seriously think about it, is the house or your boyfriend more important in your heart?

If you break up with your boyfriend because you don't have a house, it only means that you don't love your boyfriend.

If you really love your boyfriend, you won't think about breaking up because you don't have a house.

If you're looking for a boyfriend just for the house, then you should go for the big money.

Objectively speaking, the house is more important, and I think it depends on your joint efforts to complete it.

Now people are so realistic. Do you really love each other? He can't afford to buy a house, you should be more considerate of him.

I'm not the kind of person who wants love without bread, but if we want to love each other with all our hearts, I'll wait.

If you can't even pay the down payment and the monthly payment, forget it! Find a new !!

What to do with the house.

Stay for two people.

Does a man have to give a woman a house when he gets married?

Your woman's dowry is worth only a few taels of silver.

Understand whether you love people or houses.

The house is gone, and the lover is still there.

If the lover is gone,。。

To truly love someone is to pay for him, and since he is so prevaricated, then ...

If you like it, you can go together

If you don't like it, you're not together!

Poor Ghost kicked him out.

I can't even afford a house, so what are I doing with everything.

It is said that husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly separately during disasters.

Yes, you should find someone with whom you can share happiness, and this kind of sharing suffering is unacceptable.

It's just that people and people have different concepts.

What are you doing together?

How do you want the rest of your life to be?

This depends on the feelings of both parties, the feelings are deep, it doesn't matter if you can't afford to buy a house, as long as two people stick together, they are not afraid of any problems.

If you don't understand, you should hurry up and prepare to buy a house, because material is the basic guarantee in your emotional life, otherwise you will quarrel for material things all day long in the future, and no matter how good your feelings are, they will deteriorate. If you love her, as a man, you should give her a safe nest, and then imagine if your daughter were to get married, what kind of mentality would you have towards materialism?!

Don't just think about yourself, you should also be a customer!

Love is ultimately based on material, love her, give her a home, a lover is a home.

Nowadays, girls have high material requirements, even if she doesn't care about her parents, she doesn't want her girl to marry and rent a house to live in! Go for it!

If you love each other, you can take out a loan and work together If, hehehehehe.

Those who can't stand the test of the house are not good children.

It's good to understand, I wish you to get out of the pit as soon as possible.

Nowadays, people's material needs are too great, hey, society is like this, there is no way.

This is the rhythm of getting married naked! Or is it a precursor to elopement!

My family is not in good condition and I can't afford to buy a house. But my girlfriend got married to me anyway. Because of this, I love her very much after marriage.

Feel for yourself. You have to know what you're after. Happiness is lived by oneself.

Nowadays, many leftover women want to be happier than others, so they want to find better conditions. Get your mind right, and see if he treats you well. Look at the action, don't just listen to sweet words.

Think about what you really want. In fact, it is understandable to find a marriage with good conditions and work less hard.

Love is your own business, marriage is everyone's business, it depends on how you think about it. If you think he is a potential stock and worth your effort, then go bravely and bless you.

In fact, this is mainly in your wishes, what kind of life do you want to live, of course it will be very comfortable to find a husband with a house and a car, this is a very simple truth, others drive to karaoke, eat Western food, and the little couple is romantic, but you work hard for life, rent a house, and spend money to calculate, of course, it is a world of difference. But if your love for him is enough to support you to endure this hardship, you feel that it is bitter and sweet to be with him, and you will definitely complain, then nothing is a problem.

I've heard that there are girls who find a very poor boy, and then the two of them have a good life, the main thing is that both of them are very hardworking, you think you can just endure hardships, if your boyfriend is diligent and motivated, it is worth entrusting.

If you are fine in your hometown, it will be very difficult to live in other places, and if you rent a house in a city with high prices, you will generally have little savings. So if you can work hard to earn enough money, you still have to buy a house.

You go to your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have a look, and you will know why your parents strongly oppose it. Most of the reasons are because the man cannot afford to buy a house and live with his in-laws. Your family is thinking about you.

Now the housing prices are so high, it's normal to can't afford it, I now live with my parents with my wife, as long as the relationship between the two parties is good, material things are secondary, you can fight for it later, many of my friends don't have a house when they get married. After getting married, the relationship between husband and wife is also very good, and you can choose to buy a house with a mortgage, and if you can, you two will pay it together. After all, it's the two of you who live.

I think that as long as you have fun together, the first thing is to have fun!

This is the difference between love and reality.

Does the boyfriend have the skills to specialize and what does he have the ability to change his family's financial situation?

How can it be possible to break up after falling in love for so long, as long as two people are single-minded, it is difficult to do anything

If you feel that you are full of affection, stick to your opinion, and if you are not confident in your relationship and feel that you can't hold on, it is best to let go as soon as possible.

Take your own ideas about your own things, work hard together, life will get better and better, I wish you happiness.

If you really love him, you won't care if he has a house or not.

Ask your heart.

Is he diligent?..

If you are diligent, it's fine.

If you're lazy, don't choose him. Lazy people can't give you happiness.

The diligent are never poor. It's only a matter of time before you get rich sooner or later.

I don't know when he'll get rich.

If your love is based on material things, then you don't want to be with him, such love cannot be called love. Love is not to enjoy glory and wealth, but to share joys and sorrows, if you are not, I also look down on you.

If you really love him, do you care about that, then you must not really love him.

I think you should think clearly about whether it's the person you're going to marry him or his money.

There's nothing wrong with being realistic! But the key depends on his character and whether his personality is suitable for you! If you come together, don't care about material things!

Don't bully young people into poverty.

The successful man you see now also came from him.

Ask questions like this, if I were your boyfriend, I wouldn't have the confidence to be with you!

It shouldn't be. I also couldn't afford to buy a house and was abandoned by my girlfriend, and now I work hard alone. It's really bitter, are you willing to endure it?

On the bright side, you should ask him so that he will have a direction to work in!

Look at the worst, you should be realistic, life is not only about love, but also bread! Are you really that great enough to do love unchanged? I don't believe it, just because you ask this question!

It depends on what kind of life you choose, what kind of man you choose, whether your boyfriend is self-motivated, if you really love him, you can urge him to work hard with him.

You're right. I'm on your own page. The facts are practical, and no one can change them. In the practice of feelings, there must be a certain amount of material. It's like the bare minimum of eating, wearing. Live. Don't be the best.

Are you in a hurry to get married? Still not in a hurry? After all, he still graduated in 2 years!

He's just a student now, and he can wait until he graduates to start working, and then take out a loan to buy your house! Right? So when I get married, I think it's better to ask him to finish his studies and wait for the job!

After all, he is a man, and he needs to face these things with more brains and mentality! Or, if you live together in the future, will it be possible that you will come forward in both big and small things? In that case, why would you want to get married?

Calm down first and think about it, is your relationship really so strong! If both of you are very determined, then go on, encourage him to make good progress, find a good job, teacher sports should be a teacher or something, find a good school to be a teacher and recognize the trustee! When it settles down, you can think about the next step!

If you're shaking your own feelings, it's time for you to make some choices!

Marriage mainly depends on the relationship between the two people. If the other party has development potential, family conditions, and the current situation are secondary.

You can't get married because of the house You can live in your mother-in-law after you get married, and the two of you will work hard for a few years, and then buy a house and move out.

For women's realistic attitude towards money, all of them are hit. But if your boyfriend says that he is so depressed, he may not be able to afford it now, but he will definitely be able to buy it later.

Come on, elope, how happy you are together, still young, some have time to struggle, and if you really suffer together, it will be very sweet in the future.

Although material is not as important as love, it is the premise of love. If you don't have a material foundation, even if you get married, you will quarrel over some trivial things about firewood, rice, oil and salt in the future. lz can think clearly, whether your boyfriend has the potential for development, even if you can't give you a material life now, you may be able to give it later, it depends on your vision, whether you can choose a high-performance stock.

So do you want to marry a man you like or a new house, and you ask yourself, so if you're a man, would your girlfriend be sad if she thinks like that?

I'm a person in love, to be honest, I never thought of letting my boyfriend's family help us buy a house, he is an only child, his parents are classrooms, just give us a down payment, what is money, my boyfriend and I are very determined and never doubt our ability to earn money in the future, we also have two years to graduate, many teachers around me are relying on themselves to buy a house, rely on yourself, self-reliance is a little happier.

What do you do? Don't you just want to work, don't make money? Is your boyfriend responsible for raising you?

If you are like this, you will not have any status at home when he becomes your husband. How old is he? It's only a junior year, and who knows what will happen when the road ahead is so far?

The conditions of your family are good, and he calls the conditions average. What you have to ask is, do you love him? I advise you to forget about it, because I don't see any trend at all that you want to work hard, since you want to be together, you want to get married.

It is necessary to be ready to face the future together and work together. It is you who choose your husband, not your parents who choose your husband!

lz love for 7 years, love is very sensible.

Whether this should continue or not, in fact, you know very well in your mind.

Think about what you want.

Can this man give you what you really want.

House, for now, is an important prerequisite for marriage.

Ask yourself what you can accept from him and what you can sacrifice for him.

7 years of relationship is nothing, is it?

Do you really like him? If you really love him, you can't do without him, then the two of you can buy a house by yourself. How can he have a regular job when he graduates, you also have a job, and if the two of you take out a mortgage together, it will not be so difficult to buy a house.

In fact, many parents are not very accepting of marriage now, my parents have a lot of opinions on my marriage, but now it is not very good, my house is my own mortgage, and the car is also bought with a loan, we don't use their money, and if we are filial to them, they will not have so much objection. The old man hopes that we can find someone to help them relieve their pressure, so that they will not be very opposed to you if we don't use their money. In fact, the future is your own, your current life may be very hard, but will it be bitter for a lifetime, as long as you love each other and do not betray, good days will always come to you.

It's all fresh, and the man hasn't worked yet, so some people like it.

I've had a job for a long time, and I don't have a girlfriend yet.

Then I ask you.

Now there is another man who has a house in the city. There are cars. There is money.!

But you don't love him. Maybe you love him ( the money ).

So would you choose him?Will you live with him in peace?

Please don't be so powerful.!...What age is it?!

In this life, being able to find someone who can accompany you for a long time is already a gift from God

What more do you want?

House ?Car ?Money ?

For you to have more important than the relationship between the two of you

People can be safe and secure in this life. Happy and happy.!Better than anything else.!Why bother yourself...

I'm also a junior.

I think it depends.

If his family has a relatively large house, and he is an only child, then it is still okay for his parents to buy a smaller house to live in and you live in the big one (don't think this is abuse of the elderly, my parents regret every day that after buying such a big house, the old couple will live in the house empty, and the old couple don't need to live in such a big house).

If he is destitute, then it is better not to advise you, poor couples mourn everything, and 99% of the quarrels between husbands and wives in the world are for money. After marriage, love will soon be consumed, and daily firewood, rice, oil and salt will become the whole of life. Which of these things doesn't cost money???

Men and women have a different social division of labor, and it is not advisable to blindly pursue economic equality.