What to do if a mother hits her child

If the child is afraid to go home, then it is estimated that it will be too much There is also a possibility that the mother only blindly beats and does not do ideological education, so every time he hits, the child is not aware of the mistake but is afraid of the mother This kind of teaching the child has no effect at all It will make the child mentally and psychologically shadowed, and it will also bring harm, will be afraid of contact with people, withdrawn and does not like to talk, does not like to go home, has low self-esteem, and even nervousness, will have no self-confidence, is afraid of doing everything wrong, and is afraid of being beaten, these are all before the rebellious period These pains will be manifested in the rebellious period Revenge Running away from home I feel that hitting people is a kind of enjoyment, psychological enjoyment, easy to go astray, don't like to study, and after reaching the rebellious period, I begin to regret not studying at the beginning, and the behavior during the rebellious period will end up blaming my mother, and you are the one who caused this.

I was also smoked like that by my mom when I was a kid

But she's all for my good

was smoked, and there was still a red one after another on his body

So since I was a child, I was afraid that my mother would be alone, and now that I grow up, it won't happen again

Is there any way to beat the child in this way? It will make children have a shadow on their mental and psychological spirits, and it will also bring harm, they will be afraid of contact with people, and even nervous, they will have no self-confidence, they are afraid of making mistakes in everything, and they are afraid of being beaten, which is completely an educational problem for adults

Make the child have fear and ambition.

The following are some of the suggestions given for the education of children hitting their mothers:

1. Care for children. Some children will hit others and want to get their parents' attention. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children's physical health, improve their self-confidence, show their strengths, and make their children feel loved and cared for.

2. Teach children how to vent their emotions. Children will encounter certain troubles, and it is necessary to vent their worries and anger. Therefore, parents can guide their children to confide their inner emotions to adults, listen patiently to their children's feelings, and release their children's unpleasant and suppressed emotions at that time.

1.First of all, don't fight small children. If a child hits his mother, the mother must remember not to fight the child, otherwise the child will go further and further down this road.

2.It is a wrong behavior for a child to beat his mother, and this must be made clear, and the family should not make a fuss, let alone ignore it.

3.Don't be indulgent. If a child hits his mother, parents must punish the child, such as punishing him or not giving him food. Don't think that a child beating his mother is a small problem, ignore it, or let it develop.

4.Don't hit your child when you communicate with him. A child is a blank slate, and what his parents do to him, he may treat his parents later, so don't hit your child when educating him.

5.When the child beats his mother, he stares at the child tightly and asks the child, the parents have worked hard to raise him, and what he gets is the return of beating his mother? The child will gradually realize that it is wrong to hit his mother and stop hitting his mother.

6.Teach children to respect and be respected. Children must learn to respect others from an early age, and let children enjoy the beauty of being respected, so that children will not hit their mothers.

7.Parents are always mindful of their words and actions. As parents are the first teachers of their children, the behavior of parents directly affects the behavior of children, so the child's hitting of the mother may be caused by the parents' incorrect behavior.

Parents must self-examine to see which of their behaviors are inappropriate and correct them.

The child hitting the mother shows that you are usually spoiled by the child, which will lead to this.

It is recommended to communicate with the child more often and not spoil it. If you are wrong, you have to fight, but you also have to pay attention to a degree.

For mothers, I think we should consider whether their status in the family is not very high, and the child has a certain understanding.

The status of mothers in family education is mainly reflected in the following aspects.

1. Whether the mother is respected by the whole family.

2. Whether the father has a positive and supportive attitude towards the mother's educational concepts and methods.

3. Whether the father comes to communicate and coordinate the problems caused by the intergenerational education.

4. Whether there is a division of labor in housework, such as whether the father accompanies the child at home when the mother does housework.

5. Whether the father is gradually occupying the main position of education.

1. Find out why your child hits someone.

Over time, children are growing, and in the process of growing up, their sense of self is constantly germinating and growing. If something is not satisfactory, they will move to show resistance. If you encounter a situation where your child hits someone, parents should first find and analyze the reason for your child's beating, and then formulate corresponding countermeasures according to the reason for the child's beating.

2. Teach children to have a reasonable catharsis.

When children encounter distress or emotional difficulties, parents should teach their children to correctly express their inner anger and troubles, which is very necessary. To this end, parents should actively guide their children to pour out their inner emotions, and parents should patiently listen to their children's demands, so that children can vent their inner dissatisfaction and depression.

3. Set an example.

It is very important for parents to set an example, because some children imitate the beating behavior of their parents when they see their parents. Therefore, when a child hits someone, parents should check whether they also have the behavior of hitting someone. If so, you should correct it in time, pay attention to your words and deeds, and be a role model for your children.

4. Care for children.

Some children like to hit people just to win the attention of parents, so in order to solve the problem of children hitting others, parents should care about their children, pay more attention to their children's physical and mental development, so that children can gain self-confidence. Parents can also praise their children's strengths, so that their children can feel the love and care from their parents.

The mother should be regarded as the child's enlightenment teacher, which is crucial to the formation of the child's character. Therefore, mothers should teach by word and deed, if they find that their children have beaten people, they should stop it in time, and actively guide and educate their children to avoid letting children form bad habits of beating people. Otherwise, it is easy for children to form a rebellious character, which is something that parents pay special attention to.

In the face of the problem of children's beating, parents should guide their children in a timely manner, pay special attention to the child's physical and mental development, find out the reason for the child's beating, and then formulate an appropriate plan to solve the problem according to the child's own situation.

Hello dear, in this case, there are several ways to do so. First, you can tell your mother that hitting someone is illegal and you can't hit someone. Second, you can reason with your mother, but in fact, it is not right for your mother to beat her child without understanding the problem, which will hurt the child's heart.

Third, tell your mother that there are things you can communicate with, tell each other your thoughts, and we can learn from each other's strengths.

If the mother hits the child, then the child should seek help and protection from the surrounding cracked elders or relevant departments as soon as possible. At the same time, if the child needs to face this problem, here are some words that may be suitable for the child to say to the mother:1

Mom, please don't hit me, I'm so scared. We can sit down and have a good talk and find a way to solve the problem. 2.

Mom, please calm down, if we have any contradictions and differences, we can sit down and communicate well. 3.Mom, why are you hitting me?

I was sad and painful. I hope you can understand how I feel. 4.

Mom, I love you, but I don't like it when you hit me. I hope you can control your emotions and don't do anything to me. It should be noted that if the mother often hits the child or even uses violent means, then the child cannot tolerate and tolerate this behavior, and should seek help and protection from adults, schools or public security organs and other relevant departments in time.

Domestic violence is a serious social problem that requires the attention and resolution of the whole society.

Personally, I think it's wrong, this kind of punishment is the least good kind for children, although it can be regarded as a kind of education, because the beating is heavy, the body is hurt, and even the mind has a sense of fear; If the blow is light, it will have no effect; If you fight too much, you will become numb. And the little ones will slowly develop the idea of violence to solve the problem. When it comes to beating, if the child is not satisfied, it may be an adult, because the parents set an example for them, which is the result of a study.

In fact, children do things wrong, the key is to be reasonable, for the problems generated, find ways to solve them, in this way, children will also develop the habit and idea of solving problems. It is recommended to read "How to Say Children Will Listen, How to Listen to Children to Speak". I hope it helps you, in fact, there are quite a few such books, as long as we are willing to take the time.