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1. Always pursuing superficial things and not paying attention to inner cultivation.
Women are always pursuing superficial things, and if they don't pay attention to inner cultivation, it is easy for people to have a superficial and material impression, just imagine, a woman only knows how to buy clothes, buy cosmetics, how to match clothes, shoes and bags, and which lipstick number is more suitable for her ......I know almost nothing about life, you are like raising a talking doll with her, or the kind that spends money, maybe at first, you are fascinated by sex, or you are interested in seeing sex, but what about after a long time? Do you still like embroidered pillows with a bag of grass as much as you did at the beginning?
2. Look at things negatively and always be sentimental.
Sentimentality is contagious, and like yawning, it can easily affect those around you. If a woman is always living in sorrow, she must not be very popular. Such a woman will not have a very broad vision, and her mind is as narrow as her vision, she has a negative attitude towards everything, and always thinks about things in a bad direction.
Such a woman is also pathetic, she always allows herself to live in a sad and low atmosphere, and she never experiences new feelings. Her negativity and sentimentality will only make men desperate to leave.
3. I like to complain.
If a woman always puts complaints on her lips, then I'm sure 50% of the people around her will not like it. If there is something you want, or what you want to achieve, then go for it, and when the result of the matter comes out, you will complain vigorously, so that those who have worked hard will feel after listening to it?
Such women simply lack the consciousness to accomplish one thing by their own efforts, and they always blame fate or others for their failure and unhappiness, and they should not be liked.
4. Be careful.
In social life, it is difficult for a person to be alone, either he can pick up a leak if he suffers a little loss today, or he can make some profits today and get some rest tomorrow. But there is a kind of woman who has a very small heart, and she can't bear to suffer a little loss, and she cares about everything, such a woman not only lives tired, but also makes the people around her feel that it is difficult to get along with, and it is natural to not like it.
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"Not hypocritical enough" The mouth is not, and it will not open its eyes and tell nonsense! It's too real to talk too much, and it's too stupid to do things! Do things too straightforwardly and don't pay attention to the image!
I won't say anything around the bush, and I won't do anything stupid and stupid! Treat people and things, and don't look at words!
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A girl will recruit many girls for the following reasons:
1. Vitriol and mean, some people always like to speak with thorns, treat people coldly, do not give people the slightest room for maneuver, make people feel impersonal, speak without saving face for others, and point out the wrong places of others to make others embarrassed. Being mean is an attack on the surface, but it is actually self-defense! It seems to exaggerate your "bad", but in fact, it can't adapt to your "good".
Therefore, the mean person is quite pitiful, hurting others and not benefiting himself, annoying and disturbing himself. One day, if you don't like to praise others and don't like all the flowers, it may mean that you are starting to be unhappy. The stronger the person, the more generous, and the happier the person, the more he can appreciate and accept the good of others.
2. Like to show off. I understand that people who show off are themselves because of other deficiencies, actually. But using one's own strengths to be shorter than others is very hated. Take the simplest type of showing off wealth, and now this hatred of the rich is prevalent in a world where the psychology of hatred of the rich is widespread.
Showing off your wealth is very unpopular, and you should restrain yourself when you meet people who are poorer than yourself, because they are very fragile in their hearts, and if you are showing off, it is easy to cause disgust and alienate the feelings between you. There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people, don't be too arrogant.
3. Self-centered, this kind of person ignores the occasion and the mood of others. Whatever you are talking about, he will lead you to his own side, causing us to come to an abrupt end, and sometimes even delay your business. This kind of person who is not a good listener is a headache.
I think it's Yi Yang Qianxi, when he first debuted, everyone was not optimistic about him, and felt that his sense of existence was very low, and later he proved himself to everyone.
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