I m not liked, I know why but I don t know how to improve, please help!

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Look at the adjectives you use, sensitive, suspicious and straightforward are two completely opposite people, and they have no heart, no brains, and can't speak, which is a situation that anyone can encounter. It can only be said that the temperament has not yet been settled, so calm down before learning to do things and speak, consider the feelings of others, and find the trick to get along with others after a long time. Isolation is not judged by one or two things, maybe it is just that something has just happened and hurt others, and you don't notice it and don't fix it, then there will be such a situation, everyone has shortcomings, and being able to recognize your own shortcomings is a good start.

    I hope you have a good time with your friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you know your shortcomings, you shouldn't ask us how to do it, and being suspicious is the biggest problem.

    To make friends, you should be sincere.

    It also varies from person to person.

    We don't talk much when we talk together.

    Just be happy.

    So what kind of words to say to people of what kind of character.

    No way, that's how society is.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Actually, I don't think there's any need to cater to anything.

    When I was in school, I didn't like to be with girls, so I preferred to be alone than with a bunch of superficial students. What's so good about playing with a group of girls. Have a meal at noon and have a personal chat.

    I can introduce you to men who can go to love. Other than that, there's nothing good about it.

    Now I go back to China to see the most popular people of the year. Let's be honest. They all graduated from second-rate schools, and most of them were not admitted to university.

    To be a human being, you must be sensible, understand what you want, and even if you don't have a goal, you must understand the definition of the role you want to do in the future. You can go and engage in social relations and then mess up the social gangsters. You can also get high in college, have a very good job, and meet a good boyfriend.

    Tie the knot. People choose different paths, but no matter what they choose, they will encounter difficulties, and all kinds of things have to be overcome by scholars.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Personally, I think that girls, before you speak, you have to think about whether your words will hurt others. One of the girls in my class had a big grin and pointed out my shortcomings, but she laughed it off, which disgusted me. So, no matter whether it's a boy or a girl, as long as you think more about others, other people will naturally approach you, because you are a person who can understand others, at least as a boy, I will feel that although this girl is ordinary, but she is still a good person, if you have the opportunity, I will definitely talk to her!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm exactly like you, but I don't know what to do and I'm anxious at the moment.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Liking and loving are two different things, and you are now worried about missing him or you are not sure whether your dependence on him is a habit or a liking. It is advisable that you have a formal relationship with him for a period of time, and the time and experience will tell you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you feel a headache, it means that you are a kind person and can't bear to hurt her.

    But I know I don't like it, if I don't refuse strictly, it will hurt her. The so-called long pain is not as good as short pain.

    Oh, here's how to say no.

    1. Be calm and indifferent when you speak, and make people misunderstand with laughter.

    2. Make it look like you are concentrating on your studies without distractions.

    3. If she has the intention of being your girlfriend, immediately refuse. Don't give her any hope, don't be ambiguous.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Tell him that you're gay, a little vicious, but it really works, and people who like you won't like it anymore, but you'll be in trouble later.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Calm, since she doesn't say that you don't need to care, adolescent girls will have a little longing and little dreams, it's normal to have a crush, and it's naturally okay after a long time. Be yourself as you would be, don't keep thinking. Maybe people just treat you as a "sister".

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can tell him indirectly that you have a girl you like, or tell him about the type of girl you like.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Treat it like an ordinary classmate.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let's take it lightly. If you don't like her and she doesn't tell you, it's better to pretend you don't know. And don't tell anyone else, because that person will feel hurt.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Academics are the best excuse.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Keep pretending until she confesses.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can ask her out for a chat and tell her that you can be normal friends, and I think she'll understand when you say that.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Tell her you don't like girls.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You have the right not to like her, but you don't have the right to stop her from liking you!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Say you're good, but we don't call.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, and now there is equality between men and women, and some girls have more ability than boys.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you don't like it to be a little embarrassed to ask a girl to help you, then ask a guy to help.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is nothing, if you encounter any kind of problem in reality, whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as it is your friend, then at this time, you can ask for help, so there is nothing to be embarrassed about at this time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Consistent tolerance and understanding can always maintain enough attraction to each other to meet a happy love life. So, stop complaining, try to move the other party with tolerance and understanding, enhance your own charm, and achieve long-term attraction.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When a person needs help from another person, he or she will feel more difficult, may not be able to save face, do not want to find help from others, and hope that he can handle things alone.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You don't like to ask girls for help, and you feel a little embarrassed. There are a lot of boys who think this way. It also has to do with the personality of the individual.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't like to ask girls for help, I feel a little embarrassed, in fact, I think if it is necessary to need help, then it is not a big deal to ask directly.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You don't like to feel a little embarrassed to ask girls to help you, so how can you help? What should I do if the average boy can't help you and can't help you?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I don't like to ask girls for help, I feel a little embarrassed, if you don't like to ask him for help, then you don't go and don't ask for it!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You want to save face, you can think of other ways, or ask the boy to help.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you feel a little embarrassed, you can ask for help from a boy, but you can't find it, and there is nothing you can do to help a girl.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't be too embarrassed when you leave, because sometimes girls will help you a lot.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You don't like to feel a little embarrassed to ask a girl for help, I think the main thing to look at is the reason for the host's help.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This question is indeed very tricky, and it is the most important and basic question, which determines the direction of a person's life.

    You can quietly think about what you are most interested in, and you don't have to be interested in what industry you want to do, as long as you really want to do something. You can also think about what kind of person you want to be before you leave this world, what things you want to accomplish, what life scenery you want to experience, arrange them in order of priority, and then plan how to act. The heart is always a beacon.

    I think that's all I can suggest, I hope you get on your own path soon!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Scorpio's intuition is strong.

    You'll say don't know.

    In fact, I already know the answer but I don't want to admit it.

    Taurus men compare themselves.

    Maybe you can't satisfy the feeling you need to love passionately.

    You know all of this.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You are a Scorpio girl, a girl who dares to love and hate, since you have said the person you like, then you should be brave and bold to pursue, no matter what the result is, as long as you work hard, then there is no regret!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I don't know too much about your complicated relationship.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Whatever it is. What industry? Just do two things well. One is your major. You are your character. Professionalism determines your existence. Character determines your connections. The next step is persistence.

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