I don t get along well with my classmates in the dormitory at university, do you have any bad relati

Updated on educate 2024-07-12
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You've done a great job! Your classmates may not have changed their initial impression of you, but don't be discouraged. As long as you work hard, they will trust you!

    Don't put too much pressure on yourself, suggest to yourself: it's okay, they'll trust me soon, I've done my best!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Help the people around you and make them feel that you are not such a difficult person to work with!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No one will appreciate someone who has no personality.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's normal for some of this to happen, and the university paths are different and don't conspire with each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, dear. Clause.

    1. Take the initiative to communicate with your roommates. This can make the relationship between two people better, and communication can also solve a lot of problems.

    Clause. 2. Shouyu actively participates in various activities in the dormitory. For example, eating, shopping, not being isolated, and having a good relationship with roommates.

    Clause. 3. Don't let your presence disappear. Don't isolate yourself, create opportunities for yourself.

    Clause. Fourth, maintain an optimistic attitude. No matter what the outcome is, you have to be yourself, and don't be defeated by the little things in life.

    Clause. 5. Help each other. Helping each other is a traditional virtue.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The most painful thing about living in a dormitory is meeting people who don't agree with you. Of course, we should also be calm and not be too demanding of our roommates, as long as some of his practices do not affect us, we can be considered good roommates.

    Most of the troubles of adults come from always wanting to change others, always wanting others to be the same as their own thoughts, which is completely unnecessary and undesirable, everyone is different, it is very difficult to change, and it is not necessary, because your thoughts are not necessarily right, everyone's life experience and family conditions are different. What you think is right may be wrong in his world, and what he thinks is right may seem a little ridiculous to you, which is normal, not that you are right or right, but different, and the most common thing in this world is difference and difference. It's not scary not to hurt, don't keep thinking about it.

    1. Treat each other sincerely.

    Entering a new environment is not only nervous and hesitant inside, but also the other roommates. Someone of us has to take the first step to get to know each other, whether it's a cheerful personality or a slow to warm up, we should try to adapt to this roommate relationship.

    It's likely that the roommate will be the one we will be with for the next few years, and we will all have to cheat and balance the people we have been with, so it is extremely important to exchange sincerity for sincerity. For example, if a roommate's hair dryer is broken, we can take the initiative to lend our own hair dryer to our roommate. My roommate forgot to bring her a meal card, so we lent her a meal. Although these are small things, they are a bridge to bring roommates closer.

    2. Don't always try to take advantage of others.

    Getting along with roommates is like leaking fingers with friends, you can't always let others pay, and you definitely need to take some action. For example, others always share what they buy with you, but you always like to eat secretly and refuse to share it with others. Once such behavior is recognized, the relationship will break down as quickly as possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Learn to speak straight and don't beat around the bush (though I can't).

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal to drift away from friends or fight out of school because our living environment, social circles, and daily experiences are changing, and our relationships are changing as a result. Here are the possible reasons:

    1.Lifestyle changes: After leaving school, everyone around them will face changes, and may pursue a more stable and mature lifestyle, and may even live independently. This can also affect our social circle and group of friends.

    2.Different needs: As people grow older and their personalities mature, people's needs and values change. It may be that the former friendship can no longer meet each other's needs, and with it, drifting apart and discord.

    3.Geographical reasons: Sometimes, the relationship between friends is limited by geographical location, and they may be disconnected due to reasons such as distance or moving.

    4.Ideological conflict: It is also possible to quarrel or even break up between friends due to some irreconcilable differences or conflicts in values.

    In short, the relationship between friends will fluctuate and change, and sometimes they will encounter a cold war, and they can pursue reunion through communication; Sometimes you may have to choose to quit silently, because changes in the trajectory of life in daily life are always inevitable. However, this change is not necessarily a bad thing, and friends can also find new people to socialize with and share common interests, which can also be beneficial for the development and growth of life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A: Actually, I think that a dormitory stool is to endure each other. Just like some students will like to ask others to do things, and take it for granted when they do more, they feel that their things are what you have to do.

    He may be very stingy with your help, but if it is someone who disturbs Wang Rang in other bedrooms, he may be very enthusiastic to help others, always ask for other people's things, once he doesn't give it, he is stingy, in fact, he only gives others what he doesn't want, I have seen a lot of people like this, there is no way, it is best to endure it, after all, it is not good for anyone to tear his face. So the people in the dormitory sometimes appear in the superficial harmony, even if it is the harmony that eases the situation, but it is better than the cold war. When you are sure that you can't break into their circle anymore, then recharge your energy and do your best, people are like this, but the impression is not good, sometimes it is useless to work hard, only go with the flow.

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