Women, who attach too much importance to feelings, why do they make themselves cheap ?

Because the other party doesn't care, can't see, and doesn't appreciate it, it seems that everything you do doesn't matter, then your contribution is meaningless, and no matter how much you do, you can only move yourself.

This will be very tiring, and other people will think that you are very hypocritical, and if you can't do without them, they will have nothing to fear you, they don't care, and you will become more and more humble.

A woman who is too emotionally attached will make a man feel that he can't get rid of it, no matter what the man does, the woman will follow him with all her heart, so the man will become uncherished.

A person who attaches too much importance to the other person will regard the other person too seriously, and love the other person far more than himself. This will make people feel that you are not important and that you will be cheap.

In fact, the reason why people who value feelings are often the ones who are hurt is because they have always lived for others, put other people's ideas first, and never asked about their own needs.

There is nothing wrong with heavy feelings, what is wrong is that you also have to put a mind on yourself, only if you are good enough and good enough, you can attract better people.

1. Take the initiative to change yourself for men Observe that many women will change themselves in their relationships. Women see this change as proof of love, but men don't. When a woman becomes unrecognizable for the sake of affection, your attraction to a man will decrease day by day.

When you become a completely different person, there is no attraction in the eyes of your man. The reason why a man is with you is because he is in love with you for what you really are. The most real you he likes, but you buried his love with your own hands.

If you have been taking the initiative to change for a man, even if you love him deeply, he will only think that you are cheap. Since men are not asking you to change yourself, you should be generous with yourself. Use the most genuine self to attract men, so that you can really retain men's hearts.

Women should remember that no matter how much you love a man, please don't change yourself easily. Being brave is the best protection for yourself. Second, it is a woman's own choice to take the initiative to give up her job for a man, but many women put the responsibility on the man, believing that it was the man's love that prompted her to give up.

When a woman does this, not only can she not protect her feelings well, but it will also make men think that you are cheap. Taking the initiative to give up a job for a man is not a manifestation of loving a man, but an increase in the burden on men. Even if a man can take care of your life, he will look down on you because of it.

In the eyes of a man, a woman who has the ability and a job is truly valuable and worthy of his cherishment. You don't even have that value, and no amount of anything you do is in vain. If you don't want to lose value in the initiative, don't give up on your job.

Even if you find a very rich man, you have to rely on yourself to support yourself. Women should understand that work is not only a guarantee of life, but also a reflection of personal value. With a stable job, your life and your relationship will be more stable and beautiful.

3. In order to completely retain men's hearts, many women began to accept the power of money and tried to use money to meet men's material needs. Although it is not a bad thing for a woman to spend money for a man, if a woman is taking money to stick to a man, the final result is destined to be unsatisfactory. Although a man is happy to spend a woman's money, he will not look up to a woman because of this, but will feel that a woman is already necessary for him.

Influenced by this kind of thinking, a man will gradually feel that it is a natural thing for a woman to stick to herself, and he will no longer feel moved, let alone take women seriously. In this way, there is no point in the woman's giving. Even if you spend all your money for him, he won't miss you.

Taking the initiative to take money to stick to a man is a very cheap thing, no matter how much you love a man, you should not do this to yourself.

A woman in love, it doesn't matter if it's cheap or not, as long as you're a girl who is disliked by boys, then it's cheap to do whatever you do, it's cheap to take the initiative to pursue, it's cheap to invite him out to play, and even the brand she wears looks cheap. On the contrary, the guy really likes his girlfriend and regards you as a baby in the palm of his hand, no matter how noisy or willful you are, you are cute, allowed, and even unwanted. In fact, the initiative is more suitable for boys than gender, but the truth is understood, and the initiative will be tired after a long time, so when the couple gets along slowly, one party takes the initiative, and one party must understand and cater to the other party's initiative, and it is best to maintain the most comfortable relationship.

I didn't expect the male god to be surprised, and then said lightly, in fact, I have always only been an ordinary friend, I have no feelings for you, as a friend, I want to tell you that girls must not be too active, not only will people think that you are very shameless, but also seem very cheap! Many people say that girls should not take the initiative too much, and they should want to indulge, and I support girls to take the initiative to pursue love, but girls must be clear that you can take the initiative, but you must not post it upside down. There must be a degree of initiative, and what is the degree is to ensure self-esteem.

It is easier for a woman to attract a man than a man to attract a woman, as long as a friendly and favorable signal is released, it is easy for a man to become active, but it does not guarantee that the man who is attracted is what the woman wants and likes. Modern women are on the rise, and although many of the outdated rules of the past no longer apply, while removing many old frameworks, women have also created some new frameworks for themselves! Therefore, as a woman, taking the initiative in love will seem cheap!

In the feeling of friendship, the girl's initiative is not cheap, but many times he knows how to grasp his own love, and knows how to take the initiative to pursue his own happiness for the sake of Jianchun.

No, if you don't take the initiative all the time, it will make the other party very tired, and it will be a matter of time before you leave.

One: The person who takes the initiative does not really pay well on the knife edge that the other party needs. It's like a kind help, the other person you give may not want it, and it may not be needed.

Second: too active will make the other party feel that everything comes too easily, we all know that the harder the more precious it is, just like the rainbow that appears after the wind and rain will also make people feel better, of course, it is not excluded that the rainbow colorful color, I think there is also wind and rain to support it is more beautiful. Anything that comes too easily will make people subconsciously bury the word "general".

People are especially precious for what they have worked so hard to earn.

Three: Will there be that (: I know you won't go, so I can run amok?)

In fact, some people don't really feel cheap, but the enjoyers know that this kind of Lu Zao has a certain amount of insurance and will not disappear, so it is very casual and does not pay attention to it. For example, family affection, we are always more polite and polite in front of strangers.

It's easier to release all your emotions in front of your loved ones. In fact, I think that in front of relatives, we should be more restrained, and they all say that the love of parents is great and does not ask for anything in return, so is this kind of love a cheap orange sparrow? I don't think so, and I can't think parents should do that.

Everyone has nothing to do, everyone must know how to be grateful, and no kind of giving can be said to be cheap.

A man's pursuit of a woman is actually a hunting process, and the prey that is directly delivered to his mouth must not be cherished, because he does not enjoy the process of conquest, on the contrary, the prey he spends a lot of time and energy getting, he will be reluctant to eat, and the hard-won harvest. Let him know how to cherish it better. A smart woman will not always be stupid and good to a man, because she knows that the other party will not cherish it, you only need to be good to him occasionally, such as commemorative days, it is best when he is most vulnerable and sick, you will never abandon him to take care of him, enough for him to remember you for a lifetime.

In conclusion, I just want to say that any relationship should be based on "mutuality", "coming and going", and mutual understanding and understanding. I don't take the initiative to get anyone's favor and I don't let anyone down for my help. Don't be a stupid child who can only give, and don't think of yourself as so kind and generous that you have wronged yourself.

Yes, being too proactive often seems cheap, and if you want to have a good relationship, you have to maintain a certain mystery, just like Eason sings in the song, "What you can't get is always in turmoil, and what is favored is fearless".

When you meet someone you like to take the initiative, it is a good thing, but you have to take the initiative in your own hands, rather than leaving it to others to make decisions, once you don't grasp this scale, it will make men feel very "cheap" Of course, girls take the initiative not to be upside down, they need to have their own skills. For example, take the initiative to release a new number of love to a man, intentionally or unintentionally mentioning that you are now single, hoping to find a boy like him; Or if you can have him as a boyfriend on time, you will be so happy that you can wake up laughing when you fall asleep. In short, don't be too obvious, give him a signal to experience it for himself.

Let him realize that you are interesting to him, but not because he has to. If he takes the initiative to pursue you, there will be a story between you. But if he doesn't take the initiative, I'm sorry, then he'll miss out on a great girlfriend like you!

Learn to be comfortable in your relationships, these behaviors will make you look cheap, stop doing it.

1. Take the initiative to beg a man to love himself and not leave.

Love is never begging, which will only make your beloved him more disgusted. Even if you can move him one day, being together is not what you want, the so-called love!

2. Take the initiative to invite men to travel (and the like) in order to get along.

Being alone is a good time to let the relationship warm up and develop, but if you go out for a long trip before you have established a relationship, then it is easy for men to think that you are frivolous, and don't let men think that you are a very casual person.

3. Circling around him twenty-four hours a day, listening to his arrangement.

Don't go around a man every day, he will be annoyed with you, and he will feel that your time is worthless, that you have lost heart to him, and that he will feel bored with you. Don't listen to his arrangement in everything, have your own thoughts, learn to refuse, and have your own principles.

If you want to not be cheap in the relationship, you have to give him a little response in a timely manner, but you must have your own principles, your own independent space to do something to improve yourself, only excellent women are more attractive to men, because they know how to be self-disciplined.

Learn to improve yourself, make yourself radiant, and don't be a yellow-faced resentful woman who is grinded by life. You must learn to invest in yourself and improve your inner self, only in this way will men cherish it more, get along with you every time, increase the degree of love for you, and love can be stronger.

If it is a consensual relationship, the girl's pay, he will not feel cheap at all, but if the boy is attracted to you, he will cherish your pay.

One. Consensual feelings are the emotions of both parties running together, this love doesn't matter, active or passive, like to care more and cherish. Therefore, no matter how hard two people try, they will pay together, and both people will cherish it twice as much, and they will take everything to heart about each other, so this payment is not cheap.

Two. However, if a relationship is a one-sided effort, and the other party does not have any good feelings for you, then your liking will become a burden for others. Even if you take the initiative?

The other party will not cherish it, then he is cheap, because he didn't let you pay, you didn't impress him.

Three. So in the relationship, no matter who pays, he is not cheap, as long as two people are wishful thinking to go here, he will make his own actions to impress each other, because love will go to each other, because love will go to each other, because love will be. I try my best to become what the other person likes.

Because I like it, I care, and because I care, I will cherish it doubly. It's the same idea as me

You can take the initiative to approach and take the first step.

There is always a regret in life, that is, in the past years, when I liked someone very much, I obviously wanted to get closer, but in the end, because I thought too much, because I was not brave enough, I never did anything in the end.

When you lose someone like that, you think you don't care, but in fact, in your heart, there will always be an unfinished plot, and such emotions will torment you for many days.

You will always imagine that if you had been braver, everything would have been different now.

People are always like this, for the end of the relationship, will feel that there is nothing, has not begun, but the memory is still fresh.

And I don't want to put myself in that situation, when you like someone, you really don't have to feel like you're a woman, and then you don't want to take the initiative at all, love is such a thing, you really don't have to be gendered.

Men have the right to fight for love, and as a woman, you also have it, and you should fight for it well.

It doesn't matter if you want to have it, or if you want to know an answer.

Don't take the initiative to confess, look at what the other party means.

After you take the initiative, you may say that you and the other person will have a relationship, chat together, eat together, participate in some activities together, etc.

In this process, since you like the other person, then of course your performance will only be obvious, whether it is your eyes, the words you speak to him, or the care you often care about him, it will make him clearly feel your sincerity.

When you get to this point, it's enough, and you don't have to do it when you confess to him.

You know, when a man feels your liking, but as long as he likes you and wants to be with you, he will not be indifferent, he will only be more attentive than you and be very good to you.

Then when the time comes, naturally, he will carefully prepare and tell you that he likes you and let you be with him.

The person who likes you, he won't let you wait too long, you have taken the initiative for him, and he will cherish it even more, as for the other person, if you haven't felt the other party's liking and initiative, then you don't have to lie to yourself, obviously, he doesn't mean anything to you.