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1. Breaking up is also a new beginning.
Every relationship is a new beginning. Instead of dwelling on the past, look forward to the surprises and excitement that the future will bring. Let go completely, and you will have a new life.
2. Take the time to heal.
It's wiser to take the time to stabilize your emotions than to start your next relationship hastily and use it to heal. Take it as a gift from fate, and life must be wonderful if you have experienced everything.
3. Forget about the person who hurt you.
Forgiveness has great power, and when we can't forget the person who hurt you in our past relationship, it's also a captivity for our own hearts. Forgiveness means that you are free to move forward.
4. Find a completely different type of person.
5. Remember: everyone gets hurt.
Don't worry about the emotional hurt you have in your relationship, most people experience this kind of hurt. Try to shift your focus away from this matter.
6. Make yourself strong.
Don't let fear hold you back, learn to face the ups and downs of your relationship with a strong heart.
7. You should realize that every man is different.
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A person's emotional intelligence is very difficult, because emotional intelligence is a girl's love from love to hate, it is very sad, and it takes a long time to **. Well, yes. Well, how to enlighten a girl can find something to do for her, or re-accept a new relationship, or take him to some comedy.
Well, you can go out with him to buy some good things and create some little romance. Slowly let him go through the sad time. Or maybe I think it's great to go out and relax, this sad city.
It's also a good choice to go back to tomorrow.
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1. Cry if you want to, don't suppress yourself.
2. Spend more time with friends.
3. Don't deny yourself, breaking up is not the same as being abandoned by Yun.
4. Enrich yourself and keep yourself busy.
5. Take the time to ** yourself, and the time will slowly fade.
6. Don't start a new relationship in order to forget or get revenge on your ex.
7. Remember: everyone who is messy will be hurt, not just without you experiencing loss.
8. Review and analyze the relationship.
9. Breaking up is also a new beginning.
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1.Suggestion 1: Please take out a blank piece of paper and a pen and write down your confusion, be sure to be detailed.
Why exactly can't you get out and why? It may be that you feel that you have lost and that you have not been duly rewarded for your efforts. It could be that you still love that person.
It could also be that you feel uncomfortable when you see someone else have a new love. In conclusion, the reasons can be varied. You have to figure out what your problem is, so that you can get the right medicine.
2.Tip 2: Whatever the reason for getting you into it, find a way to get out.
Try to discover a new hobby, such as photography, such as doing crafts. When you have more things to do, you will be distracted, and after a long time, no matter how deep your emotions will fade. When your brain is idle and your body is fully exercised, there are not so many worries to think about.
3.Tip 3: Positive autosuggestion.
This is a kind of ** that is very advocated in psychology, and of course it has a good effect. You can suggest to yourself that you will be better and better, and the future will be better. The person you have met has only accompanied you for a short part of your life, you have a broader world, and you will meet better people.
4.Tip 4: Read more books.
Good books can make people suddenly enlightened, and they are chicken soup for the soul. If you really feel like you just can't figure it out, go to the library and borrow a few books. Recommend Liu Tong's "Your Loneliness, Although You Are Defeated", Lu Yao's "Ordinary World", and Hardy's "Tess of the D'Urbervilles".
5.Tip 5: Go on a trip.
People, either the heart is on the road, or the body is on the road so that there will be no sense of emptiness. It's better to give yourself a vacation, take a trip that you can go, and it is also a good choice to go to a city that you have never been to and feel the outside world.
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Divert your attention, don't spend time and energy, and think about this aspect, sports, game halls, travel, do things that have nothing to do with this aspect, you will definitely be able to get out.
Believe in yourself.
It's been half a year since I asked the question, and yesterday I accidentally learned that the other party had found a new girlfriend, and my mood was affected again, and my sleep has been bad, and my emotions have not been adjusted.
Answer pro, love is something you want to do, what you have to know is that you have your own life, others affect you, you don't have to pay attention, because you have a good future, your own future is decided, everyone has this kind of experience, if you have been affected, then it is you who suffer.
Dear, you can become better, you have to believe in yourself, your excellence will meet that excellent ta, don't have to dwell on the emotional cause and effect of the previous paragraph, meaningless, now with a full mind, happy life, this is what you should do now, there is no hurdle that people can't get over in their lives.
Flowers] [flowers] [flowers] [flowers].
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Don't push yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself, people should always look forward, the road walked, the people who have loved, will not come back in the past, and coming back is not the original scenery of the original mood, love is a sad fairy tale, anyone who has read it, have more or less left regrets, when we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.
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First, don't intensify emotional injuries and cause secondary damage. Second, I want to open a point. Exams may not be guaranteed to pass, business is not guaranteed not to lose money, buying lottery tickets is not guaranteed to win, not to mention feelings. A good life depends on character. Character depends on doing good deeds and accumulating virtue.
If you are willing to give, maybe the process is very difficult, and you feel that he will fall in love with you one day if you work hard, then you can continue to accompany him as if nothing happened. If you have a pimple in your heart and feel that you can't accept it, even if you really like you in the future, you will mind his motives at the beginning, then let's be honest and leave, the relationship is originally meant to be selfish, and he chose you in order to forget his ex, which is actually quite scum.
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