When you don t take the initiative to contact a man, can you know how important you are in his heart

People always say that the luckiest thing for a person is that the person you like happens to like you, but there has never been a majority of lucky people in this world, and more of them are the ordinary people who hesitate in their feelings.

Many times, things don't happen just right, and maybe the person you like will never take the initiative to contact you, let alone show any trace of their heart to you.

And the feelings you can have are just pieced together by such scattered speculations in daily life, so the other party is very likely to like you and not like you.

The skewness of the scholar can still be taken off; The woman is shy, and she can't take it off. In a relationship, women who are mainly sensual tend to fall in love earlier than men, and then begin to suffer from various types of gains and losses.

And this kind of behavior is the stage that is most likely to lead to misjudgment, because it is difficult for a person to maintain reason to think about problems when they are emotionally out of control.

Therefore, when men do not take the initiative to contact themselves, smart women do not rush and deal with it like this-

When many people mention that men do not take the initiative to contact a woman, they will be affected by the "stereotype effect" in their minds, so as to preconceive some bad impressions of different ideas and add to a man who does not take the initiative to contact them.

In fact, the development of all things in the world is never single, although seeing different ideas is the reason why a man does not take the initiative, but it is not the only one, many times, men's not taking the initiative, in fact, is also related to women.

Once upon a time a soldier fell in love with a princess, but the princess asked him to guard under a tower for ninety-nine days, during which time he could not leave, and if he did, he would become his lover.

So the soldier readily agreed, and began to hold out for ninety-nine days, during which time he endured countless ridicules and incomprehensions, during which the princess never looked at him.

Finally, on the night of the ninety-eighth day, all those who had laughed at the soldier were cheering for him at the moment, but this night, the soldier did not choose to continue to persevere, he chose to leave.

People sighed, but the soldier said that although he loved the princess, he needed to love himself more, and he spent ninety-eight days to prove how much he loved the princess, but the princess never gave a little response, so he chose dignity on this last day.

In fact, you also feel that the other party doesn't care about you as much as you do, so why bother yourself, people who like you won't snub you.

When you don't take the initiative to contact him, you can know how important you are in his heart, you see if you don't contact him, can he take the initiative to contact you, if you can take the initiative to contact you, it means that you are very important in his mind.

If a man doesn't take the initiative to contact you, what kind of psychology is he? The emotional world is very complicated, some people like it but are afraid to say it, and some people will pretend to like it even if they don't like it. But it really depends on what you think.

And most men are mostly simple about feelings, they are not good at hiding themselves, and they don't like to hide them. But when many women fall in love, they are always blind, even if the man they like always does excessive things. They also always want to help men find various reasons in their hearts, and then comfort themselves.

Women love others, the first thing to do is to love themselves, those men who never take the initiative to contact you, in fact, most of them are because of these psychology, you must recognize the heart of men.

Men's minds don't need to be guessed, they are not as good at hiding their emotions as women, when men like someone, they will want to give their whole world to each other, want to know each other's every move, want to know that the other party is thinking about themselves. When a man never wants to take the initiative to contact you, there may be only one simple reason, that is, the man does not love you as much as he thinks. Such a performance is very easy to see, but some women take the initiative to explain for men in their hearts.

In fact, only when you love yourself more, others will love you more.

Many men are ambitious in their own lives, but more often than not, they don't want to explain it to the people around them, but when they meet people who share their interests, they may be able to talk about it again. When a man doesn't take the initiative to contact you, you have to think about it, maybe it's just that the three views of the two of you are not the same, which makes the man resist when chatting with you. I don't really like the feeling when I'm chatting with you, but if you really like him, you can try to find something that the two of you have in common.

When women like someone, they will also want to give everything they have to love each other, but because they love too much, they lose the man's love for themselves, which creates the idea that the man will not leave even if he does not give the woman. When a man has such an idea, he may slowly become unwilling to take the initiative to contact you, because in his opinion, it doesn't matter if he doesn't take the initiative. Therefore, when you love someone, you must keep your bottom line and take good care of your self-esteem.

You don't have a place in his heart, he doesn't like you, he doesn't care about you, he doesn't care about you at all, he's fighting with you, or he already has a new love.

It may be that he has no feelings for you, or it may be that he wants to get away with you; Generally, boys don't take the initiative to contact girls they don't like.

This shows that you are not important to him, men will have more important things to do, and you are not in the first place.

1.Whether he will pay attention to your life.

When a woman is with a man, she slacks off with a man, does not contact with a man, does not talk about men's affairs, men do not care, still live well, rarely actively pay attention to women's lives, rarely actively contact women, and men put on this mentality, obviously do not pay attention to women. If a woman does not contact a man for a long time, the man does not contact the woman, but meets some other friends of the opposite sex, chats with other friends of the opposite sex, and never thinks of a woman, the man will be willing to be a cold woman for a long time, and does not take the initiative to contact the woman, which means that the man does not care about the woman.

On the other hand, men pay sincere attention to women, pay attention to women from the bottom of their hearts, see women do not contact themselves, often haunt women, think about it day and night, men will pay attention to women's lives, flip through women's dynamics, women's "indoor space", "WeChat circle of friends" often appear Men "have been" marks, men release this kind of data Zen signal, showing that he does attach great importance to women.

2.Will he surprise you.

Friends of the opposite sex coexist, women and men have contradictions, will no longer actively contact men, men don't care at all, long-term "cold violence" with women, no matter what things about women, never coax women to rent people, and have never had an unexpected surprise in women's lives, men release this kind of data signal, obviously don't care about this woman.

On the contrary, if a man is very sincere to a woman, he often wants to live happily with a woman, he does not want to have conflicts with women, he does not want women to be cold to themselves for a long time, if a woman ignores him for a long time, men often feel very difficult. At this time, men often let go of their personal dignity and face, reduce posture, actively contact with women, actively do some things to make women happy, and will produce some unexpected surprises in women's lives.

3.Whether he will ask you out, worry.

Friends of the opposite sex coexist, the two have conflicts, women do not contact men, do not care about men, at this time, men do not actively contact women, do not express to women, do not pay attention to women at all; Or, when a woman encounters something, she doesn't contact the man, the man has not actively contacted the woman, and he doesn't care about the woman's affairs at all, and the man has this kind of external performance, which means that he doesn't care about the woman.

On the other hand, if a man is very sincere to a woman and pays attention to her deep heart, he sees that the woman is becoming more and more indifferent to his mentality and does not contact himself, the man will often worry about the woman, afraid that the woman will encounter some accidents, he will often can't help but actively contact the woman, express concern to the woman, and at the same time, he will understand the reason why the woman does not contact himself. In other words, the more highly a man looks at a woman, the more he will put the woman in his heart, and the more he will actively do something to enhance the relationship between the two people when the woman is cold to them.

Of course yes, if a man doesn't take the initiative to contact, it means that the other party doesn't care about you at all, doesn't like you at all, and you don't need to think too much.

Yes, if you want to know how much a man values you, don't take the initiative to contact him when arguing with him, and watch his performance, so that you can know your position in his mind.

Indeed, if a man takes the initiative to contact the laughing lead waiter to quarrel with you, at least it means that the other party cares about you, if you don't take the initiative to contact you, it means that the other party does not take you to heart.