My wife has been married four times, what should I do if I am looked down upon by relatives and frie

Updated on society 2024-07-27
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Hello, it is you who are married to your wife, as long as you and your wife live happily, work hard together for this family, and understand each other. And for relatives and friends, only if you live well, whether it is better than them in economic conditions or social status, you will not be looked down upon, if you care too much about what others think, the two of you may not be able to go together, try to manage yourself, don't care too much about other people's opinions.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    First of all, you marry your wife because you like her. If because others look down on your wife, then you will feel that she is not worthy, and it is your fault, because she is willing to marry you, which means that she wants to live a good life with you. The point is that you live with her, others don't live with you, don't care what others say, just live with her, in this way, you will get better and better.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, you should be firm in your inner thoughts, if you feel that this is the right person, then you should be firm in your heart, and don't be swayed by other people's eyes and ideas. If you truly love him, feel that he is your destination. Then you should marry her, although your wife has been married four times and has been married four times, but this is not important, the important thing is that he loves you and you love him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Life is your own, don't care too much about what other people say, just care about the feelings of the husband and wife and the life after marriage. What others think is someone else's business, don't let those meaningless things of people disturb your own heart and disturb your harmonious and happy life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think marriage is your own, don't care about other people's eyes, if it is not your wife's fault that you get married four times, then he is a good person, he just needs to live a good life with you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My wife has been married four times, and I am looked down upon by relatives and friends when I am with her, so you don't need to care about what others say, as long as you both live well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My wife has been married four times, and I am looked down upon by relatives and friends when I am with him, what should I do? Your daughter-in-law has been married four times, and if you are with him, there may be confusion in the outside world, but you don't listen to their discussions, and know that you really love her, and she really loves you, you can get married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you have the courage to be with him, then you should be prepared to face these gossips, that you can be with a woman who has been married four times, you definitely have this ideological awareness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as you don't dislike and love her, you should live your two lives with taste, be happy and make your relatives and friends envy you, and use facts to see who still looks down on you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you are looking for such a wife, don't be afraid of being looked down upon by others, indeed, he has been married four times, such a woman should be a watery flower, and she will not be looked down upon by relatives and friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think you need to care about the opinions of your relatives and friends, because when you marry her, the starting point is that you love her deeply, so why bother that she has been married four times?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your wife has been married four times, and there must have been his own personal reasons in between, and I think you should marry her. Believe him, if you knew from the beginning that you were afraid that your relatives and friends would look down on you, you wouldn't get married. Now that you are married, you have to be together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I've been married four times, what should I do if I am looked down upon by my friends and relatives when I am with him? If she lives with you sincerely, don't care about other people's eyes, as long as you two are good, anything will be fine.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now that you already know your wife, and you have been married many times, it means that you have thought through your needs, so don't look at what the people next to you say and think.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My wife has been married four times, and being with her is looked down upon by relatives and friends, but marriage is a matter for the two of you, and everyone else is secondary, so don't care about that.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Everyone's experience is different, no matter how many times she has been married, but she will have something in her that you appreciate, so you will choose to marry her, if you think that being with her is not favored by relatives and friends, you should prepare in advance.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The person who married her is you, not your relatives and friends, as long as you don't look down on her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you are marrying for yourself, not for your relatives and friends, you are afraid that they will look down on you, so don't go to them.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As the saying goes, go your own way and let others do it! You and your wife live a blind date, love each other, and be happy! It's also the best counterattack to those who gossip!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Although marriage is only, it is very oossing to be with you, others look down on it, it is their other people's business, as long as you feel happy and happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This situation is indeed very special, and her situation is not necessarily her responsibility, so she should not be treated like this, it is unfair.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because your wife has been married four times, you look down on her with her than your relatives and friends, but to live your own life, your own happiness is the most important thing.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should before you marry your wife.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    People don't live in the eyes of others, don't care too much about other people's opinions. The most important thing is your own choice, if you love your wife very much, you are reluctant to give up on her, and she is willing to change her ways. Then you take a step back.

    Keep going with the good life. Treat each other with sincerity, love each other sincerely, and live a good life, and others will not have anything to say after a long time. If you feel like you don't love each other anymore, or you really can't get over it.

    Then break up and divorce. Don't be too yourself. But it's better to think twice and act.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What you have to face is always to be faced! As long as your wife is willing to change! Just give him a chance!

    After all, there are children between you! It's not as good as this one to find another one! And then there is this kind of society!

    Actually, it's normal! He just didn't do it anymore.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Even if things go wrong to face. Don't be too spiritual. Too much pressure. Don't do this again after communicating with your wife. The old feelings are back. Will be happy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Although you don't want to do this, but things have happened, you can only face it bravely, treat it coldly for a while, calm your mind, and look at it from a different angle, how to live and how to live. (I'm leaving).

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If two people don't have the same views, and they don't know how to measure each other, it will be very torturous to be together, you know him and be with him, I think I also knew that he had been married four times, so this should not be the key to the problem.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You won't be able to stand it either, it's good to get divorced.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The eyes of the world are vulgar and realistic, but I am touched that you can still love your wife deeply! It also made me see the truth!

    Since you don't care about worldly eyes, what bothers you? But have you ever thought that rumors over time are bound to shake your heart and damage your self-esteem? And your wife will also be gossiped about by her neighbors, as well as by friends and family. In my opinion, the best thing to do is to leave with your wife and loved ones and live a new life in a new environment.

    Now that it is no longer ancient, it is time to abandon the idea of relocating to a new land and start anew. Maybe this is the best for your family, for the relationship between you!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Go your own way. Let him say whatever others say. Just don't waver.

    Stay away from this place if possible. No one said anything, and they slowly faded. Why bother with the future for the sake of the past?

    Wouldn't it be great if your wife was also very good to you? Think about who will hurt your wife and who will hurt you. As long as you ignore those rumors, slowly what they say will be boring.

    Tired.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Why do you need to look at other people's eyes in your own life, as long as the two of you have a good relationship, who dares to say that their wives have been on their own alone, but others don't know, don't care too much about other people's eyes, live your own life and go your own way...

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Be with you until the end of your life, who will care about you and care about you are not those who know the inside story! You know what to choose, right?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Love doesn't ask where you come from, you know.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Feelings are the most important thing, everyone has a past! I believe she had no choice but to do it at the beginning! Hope cherished!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you don't care, you don't need to pay attention to other people, you and your wife just live well.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Tragic emotional experience Landlord, the starting point of your marriage is wrong.

    Did you marry to pass on your family lineage and make money? Isn't that miserable?

    Especially "I work hard every day, get off work" My eyes are wet Although I have never encountered it, such a sensitive word is so tear-jerking!

    The more money you make, the more things you have to consider, and you are no longer alone in the struggle. Money, like desire, is never satisfied. It's enough, because many things make us happy and live happily, such as money.

    Mrs. Landlord: You make a lot of money, the first is not what you earn, and the second is that how much money you make is directly proportional to how much you pay, (for example, you have to pay for the time you spend together, the intimacy of your feelings, if you don't care, it can only be said that you are only together for the sake of inheritance.) The landlord's hard work, feelings, and calls for help are not proportional to the results you want, and no one knows the consequences of doing so, and those who know don't want to say).

    The landlord should communicate with her more, don't you say it yourself: "Go to work every day, go home after work, no social activities" After the end of the sentence, he did not explain that it was because he wanted to accompany his wife this and that, because it did not exist at all, so you said in the back: "Because my wife does not allow", this is a short time and people's feelings will not be cold, but after a long time, the habit of not communicating has been formed, and if you want to redeem it, you will only have results after the other party recognizes it.

    Don't give up your lover, mom and dad for the sake of life. Otherwise, what can you get if you live for a lifetime, and can the crystallization of the next generation live a happy and busy life.

    In fact, love is wonderful. One word of hers can make you happy, and one word can make you sad.

    The landlord, let yourself live this life happily, don't let the people around you worry about you, let them be happy, some things don't need money to pay will be very happy. There are a lot of practices, and it's not the same as what is said upstairs, after all, everyone is the same, and the landlord won't feel bored?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You have a junior to try... She panicked.

    You have to tell her that although you don't have any money, your life is average, but your life has been going on, and you are as good as ever to her, and this is your advantage...

    If he dislikes you, you have little money. It's been like this for a long time, and it's really not a good day. It's better to find a junior.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't you have self-esteem?

    A dignified man will not allow his wife to say this about himself.

    Since you can bear it ... Then keep putting up with it.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    My husband also said that I look down on him, although I sometimes say that the economic aspect is very aimed at him, but I don't look down on him in my heart, but I feel that he is not motivated enough, in the end, every wife hopes that his husband will have a future, I especially hope that he is a man who loves his family and belongs to the career, I am willing to take on all the housework to do the woman behind him to support him to start a business, because no matter how bitter my heart will feel sweet and full of hope, but my husband does not understand me, greedy for comfort, money can not be earned, housework is not done, The child doesn't care, although I still love him for so many years, I can't stand him living like this all the time, and talking when he's anxious will inevitably hurt him, in fact, this is also a balanced way.

    So don't think too much about it, usually care more about her, if she says you don't hear it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You often say in the future, I just earn less now, I will have more in the future, you have to be nice to me, you have to say that you are good every day, you will work hard, and my wife does not dare to be arrogant.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    In fact, most of this kind of family is because your wife is not satisfied, or you are really not motivated enough. But I think you should sit down and talk, because it's a family, after all!

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Marriages for money won't last long.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Both men and women mourn.

    Don't you think?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think you should bring it up directly with your wife, and make sure she knows that this practice hurts your heart.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you are particularly disgusted, when your wife is calling at you, you can sit still and do nothing, and she can't do anything about you.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    In such a situation, I think you should communicate well with your wife, and you should also say what is in your heart with the other party, so that the other party can make corresponding changes.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Then you should have a good talk with your wife, let her know how you feel when he calls you around, maybe your wife will reflect on herself.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    To have your own dignity as a man, you should have your own family status and force yourself to change.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    People like you, your ex-wife gives you a big mouth, and from the follow-up fear of marriage and don't want to get married, it shows that you have a drama, she doesn't want to get married has two meanings: first, she is afraid of marrying you and doesn't want to marry someone else, and second, she is afraid of meeting someone like you again. Let you be nice to your child and ask whose meaning is to propose remarriage, indicating that there is hope, but you need your practical actions to move her and how the two families get along, and you will naturally have results if you deal with it.

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