Should I be with her? Why am I not suitable to be with her?

My husband is also fat and someone has said the same thing about me.

But I'm still with him.

It's been two and a half years, I'm younger than you, but I've made all my choices, and you should know your choice.

If you love, you will work hard.

Appearance is actually a kind of impression of the head, but if you want to use the scale of love to measure her appearance, then it is not worth it for her to love you, you have money, maybe one day she finds more money than you, but you have lost the money that loves you and the person you love. It's not easy to love another person, from the moment you like it, have you ever thought that she is not a very beautiful girl, if you mind other people's opinions, then you find a vase as your girlfriend, and then your family is really old-fashioned, why do you care so much about people's appearance, I think it's because your family wants to find a rich object. Okay, it's redundant to say too much, you are a modern person, you have a modern mind, for what is precious, I think you should understand, your family I think it shouldn't be a problem, the key is you.

Is that right. Hehe.

If your happiness can be seen, you will not publish it here, it must be too much pressure from all sides, so that you can't let go of loving him. The main thing is to see how he treats you, if you are ugly, you can be ugly, and if you have a good relationship, you can do it. If the pressure is greater than the feelings, you will not get much happiness either.

If you're 18 years old, it's too early to think about it.

You don't deserve to say love, climb!

If you truly love him, don't give up!

You're hesitant right now because you don't love her enough, and if you're still conflicted, you're going to break up because you don't love him very much.

If you are sincere, I wish you all the best of luck.

Landlord. Do you really love her?

Do you need to care about other people's opinions to love her?

To put it mildly, do you marry her or someone else's opinion? Or are you just trying to satisfy your vanity?

Men are responsible for the choices they make, and they can't think she's bad because of other people's opinions, to be honest, everyone doesn't even have a leaf to cover their shame when they come to this world, what is it.

If you love, don't give up easily, grasp your own happiness, and don't let yourself regret because of others.

The landlord should have his own opinions, what others say you will waver, what if you encounter other problems in the future? Always listen to someone else? If you love her, be with her. So swaying, I don't love her very much, do I?

It's you who love her.

You are the one who wants to marry her.

Don't let other people's boring words disturb your thoughts.

Love her and be with her.

Someone else's words are just someone else's opinion.

Do what you should do.

There is no need to look at others.

If you love her, why care what others say. It was you who took her, not someone else.

Loving someone is not a matter of face, and it is not your father who married her, and it is you who will spend your life with her, and if you are divided because of other people's opinions, then you have to consider whether you are a man, and men should be independent and have their own opinions.

First of all, I want to scold you viciously.

Do you love him or not?

If you love her, how can you care if she's ugly.

If you love her, how can you distort your own opinion because of other people's thoughts.

If you love you, you love her well, don't worry about anything else.

Are you worthy of her in such hesitation now? Is it worthy of her persistence, is it worthy of your relationship??

The scolding is over. Don't overthink it.

Love her well. Bless you all ...

Why do you like to listen to so many other people?

It's obvious that you like it, but others and you are not the same whole.

As long as you truly love her, you can do it.

If you love someone, you should do your best.

Until the end, you should not give it to others.

It's so easy to give up.

You can't always have to eat, drink, and have fun rolling the sheets in a relationship, and when you see those flaws, you think to yourself, "We are not suitable", why is it not suitable, can you tell you a specific thing or two? Have you tried to use communication to run in and work on this relationship? If you haven't tried to run in, how can you use the absurdity of "inappropriate" as a reason to break up in a determined tone?

What is the premise of using "inappropriate" as a reason to break up? The premise is that you are both willing to solve it, and you have worked hard to communicate about it, and then you find that these problems have not been erased, and they are not suitable and cannot be reconciled.

If not, don't use the excuse that you're not in the relationship, and lose interest in continuing the relationship. To put it bluntly, you're just using "inappropriate" as an excuse to escape.

It is true that inappropriate will slowly consume likes, but you can't say that it is inappropriate because you don't like it.

Besides, what should you do if you have already run in, but still can't put together the puzzle pieces of the two?

Then it is normal and correct to break up at this time, and indecision is fatal.

Some things can be mended, some can't, and after two days of hard sewing, they are still pulled apart, and you can't sew them countless times for a lifetime.

At that time, it's time to stop the relationship.

At that time, whether she loves you or not should no longer be used as a cage to lock the relationship, because even if you continue to be with her because she loves you, it will only make the relationship more and more devastated, and everything is no longer mutual, but unbalanced. When two people are running in parallel, one person is walking faster and one person is slower, or one person is running and one person is walking, which is not appropriate. Because of the habit of walking from childhood to adulthood, it is difficult for a strong person to completely change.

And the only thing you can do is to match the speed and rhythm of the other person on the premise that you will not be uncomfortable.

The reason why it is not suitable. It must be because of your different personalities, maybe your views and perceptions are very different.

Then you have to analyze your three views, personality, living habits, values, and love outlook.