I always feel like I have nothing to say when chatting with girls, what should I do?

Teach you a few tricks to make your chat with girls no longer cold.

1. The attitude of "it doesn't matter, it's good to be happy".

Many times we pick up girls like a duel, if you show too strong a desire to win, then your words and deeds will become less rational, even if you say that you have a sincere heart to her.

Although we often say that the relationship itself is the truest expression of emotion, for the relationship between the sexes, too strong a sense of need will only make your posture unbalanced at the beginning.

2. Take the initiative to find common topics:

When chatting, you can find some common topics, for example, talk about your own interests, favorite sports, favorite movies, etc., and find a common topic, and the chat will not be cold. It's best not to ask the other person about their past relationship history when chatting, so as to avoid unpredictable results.

3. Don't say everything

When chatting, you should pay attention not to say everything, especially the evaluation of other people, and don't comment on the conversation between two people on a blind date, otherwise you have different views and different views, isn't it boring to talk about yourself, and it will make the other party feel that he is a person who talks about the rights and wrongs behind his back, and he will be cold.

4: Grasp the rhythm.

Learn to master the timing and degree of teasing, variety shows.

What are the features? First of all, it will have a theme, similar to the promotion of a movie, a personal interview, after the theme is set, around this theme, the host star, start to shake the baggage, say something humorous to support the recording time of an hour, empathy, it is the same when it comes to the brothers, we can't be humorous all the time when chatting with the target. In the process of summarizing the experience of the sister in the fifteen years of tutor Fanchen, in the early attraction stage, the most important thing is to chat with humor and release, and the release is to release your teasing atmosphere, so that the target feels that you are not a person who can only talk about the mountains, if the variety show comes up, it will start to say that it will be tiring for an hour, and the brothers should cooperate with your theme when chatting.

There is no topic to chat with girls, the main thing is a matter of mentality, that is, you care too much about the girl's thoughts, which causes you to be very nervous, the more nervous you are, the more worried you are about saying the wrong thing, you will want to find a topic, but you just can't find a topic, because your family, relatives and friends will not go out to chat. That's because you don't care what your friends and family think, so the chat will be casual. Just talk to girls with a nonchalant attitude.

I think you feel that you have nothing to say to chat with this girl, so you have to do your homework in advance, such as understanding her preferences, what she likes to eat, going to play, and what brand of cosmetics she likes.

Chatting with a girl always feels like there is nothing to say, then you should know more about this girl, see what she likes, her hobbies, favorite activities, specialties and the like, you can make up for it after you have an in-depth understanding of him, and then you will talk to her hotly.

You should choose to go shopping with girls, so that you can generate a lot of topics while shopping, and you can also shorten the distance.

First of all, it is necessary to understand which topics the girl is more interested in, and then discuss with them, so as to increase the sense of conversation between the two parties. Secondly, you can choose the hot topics of the moment for discussion.

2 situations, one is that you know her, but you haven't done your homework; One is that you don't know her or just met her, but you don't know what she's interested in.

I suggest that you do your homework and talk more about the topic, and if she is interested, talk a little deeper. If you're not interested, change the subject. It's the same with those who just met, if you really don't have a topic, you can find it yourself, and you can talk about what you're interested in.

It'll be ok when she's interested. There is also a situation where she feels uninterested in whatever you say, which means that she is not interested in you, so let's be interesting and leave.

Your understanding is quite correct.

If you don't think it's a topic to talk to a girl, it's better to tell the truth, because there's no need to disguise yourself.

If you don't have a topic to talk about, it may mean that the two of you are not suitable for making friends.

You can say anything, but pay attention to the occasion and proportion, and you can also find topics that interest you or girls. Such as movies, cosmetics, food, feelings, moods, opinions and opinions about something, etc. The most important thing is to see if you yourself want to get her attention and interest, then put a little more thought.

If you don't have a topic, find a topic to talk about, your interests and hobbies are the same, and if you have the same interests, you should have a topic.

If everyone is already familiar with it, then there should be something to say when chatting, don't think about it for a long time and then say a word, so that the other party will sometimes be disgusted, let alone say that you must bite the word to speak.

It's a matter of personality, some people belong to the kind of self-acquaintance, and they can talk to anyone very pleasantly, just like old friends who haven't seen each other for many years. Regardless of whether it is false or not, it must be a relatively high EQ. You should try to train yourself and try to find a topic that you are familiar with and interested in each other to start with, not to say too much at once, but also not to blindly follow your own train of thought.

Actually, don't be too embarrassed, you can get better slowly.