Children who always say I can t do it , what is wrong with family education?

If parents can improve their children's self-confidence in the process of education, children will be more proactive in challenging new things.

It is the parents who give their children too much negation, or give too little praise. If the child is always living in an environment of denial, he will gradually start to deny himself constantly.

Always say no, first of all, see if parents often say this, at the same time, the child's confidence cultivation should be strengthened, you can start with his strengths, find self-confidence is easy to do.

If the child does not listen to his parents, there is a problem in family education. In the process of educating children, you must not spoil the child very much, nor can you agree to the child's request casually, and you must not suddenly forgive him unreasonably when educating the child, which will make the child show special rebellion, and even will not listen to the words of the parents.

I think that if children do not listen to their parents, it is likely that there is a certain problem in family education, we should find out the cause in time, so that they can better contact us, parents must check whether there is something wrong in their words and deeds, and timely review whether there is something wrong with their education.

There must be something wrong with family education, otherwise it is impossible for children not to listen to anything their parents say, at this time we should give children a good education and let them correct it.

I think children don't listen to their parents, of course, there is a problem with family education, usually they are too indulgent, and they are too used to them, and suddenly you go against them, and this will happen.

When parents are educating their children, they find that their children don't like to shout and listen to anyone, which has a lot to do with family education. Especially when living with grandparents at home, when grandparents see that their mother wants to beat the child, they will run directly to the children to protect the child. For this kind of education, you should be aware that sooner or later there will be problems, and people in the family should be aware of educating children.

When the mother is educating the child, the rest of the people must not protect the child, and protecting the child will make the child feel very favored.

At the same time, when the child knows that his grandparents will always come forward to protect him in time, he slowly does not listen to his parents at all. Even because the grandparents love the child too much, the child will not listen to the words of the grandparents, mainly because the child is not afraid of the grandparents at all. Even if the grandparents are out of the good of the child, the child just listens to the wind.

When the child's parents come forward to educate the child, they will find that the child does not even listen to the parents.

Whether it is the elderly or the young, they realize that when educating their children, no one must step forward to intervene, and once a scumbag intervenes to let the children know that when they are beaten and bullied, there will always be someone who will come forward to solve the problem for themselves. I will not be moved by my parents' words from the bottom of my heart, and I will not be afraid of anyone in the family. In the face of such a problem, the family should be aware in time that no matter who educates the child, they cannot take action to protect the child, because the protection will only make the child more arrogant.

When educating children, it should also be realized that there are some children who are in a rebellious period and do not have a full understanding of what their parents say. No matter what the parents say, the child will come in the opposite direction, and the parents will be opposed, and the parents do not want to stand on the opposite side of the child, because considering that the child's education is a very important thing, they all hope that the child can be educated and successful. But when the child is in the period of rebellion, parents should not say too much big truth, saying too much big reason, it will only make the child feel very disgusted.

Parents do not have full respect for the child's dust acorn, in the parents' psychology, the child Zen Brother Mountain is their own appendage, no matter what they do, they should listen to themselves, so when facing the child's mistakes, they will be very angry.

Children don't listen to anyone, which is closely related to family education, and it may be too doting on children to develop such a habit.

Children don't listen to anyone, and they have a relationship with their elders and parents in family education. Usually caused by excessive spoiling by elders and parents.

Children don't listen to anyone's words, which has a certain relationship with the education of the family's lack of rocks, and parents should find their own lack of stupidity and find some corrections, so as to teach better children and pretend to be obedient children.

It is directly related to the incorrect family education methods, parents spoil their children excessively, adopt unscientific education methods, do not communicate with their children's friends in a timely manner, and do not teach their children the correct way to evacuate their emotions, resulting in children not listening to anyone's words.

It has a lot to do with family education, because family education is too doting, it is also possible that Tuanzhou is caused by Huai or Li's parents not accompanying their children, or it may be caused by the lack of love of children, and it may be caused by parents not talking to their children.

It must have something to do with family education, maybe when the child is young, the parents are too accustomed to the child's height, so they will lose the ruler and cause the child to not listen to anyone.

It has something to do with family education, and there is a problem in the parent's education, which affects the child's personality and affects the child's future, and the child is very irritable.

What does it have to do with the child's disobedience to the family's education? In this case, it usually means that the child is more rebellious, and it may be because parents and children usually spend less time together, so they communicate more with their children.

This situation is called a rebellious teenager, and it is inseparable from the strong education of parents for a long time.

1.Easier said than done.

Some parents do learn a lot about parenting through various channels, and they are also very good at it. But it's another thing to know the theoretical knowledge and whether it has been put into practice.

Therefore, it is commendable that parents can take the initiative to learn parenting knowledge. But if you can put it into action, you may have the results you want.

2.Copy the educational method.

Some parents, especially novice parents, have no experience and raise their children exactly according to the book. When the child was young, the book said that "a 3-month-old child should eat breast milk 8-10 times a day". Then the mother feeds the child according to the time all day long, and gives the child food when the time is up, ignoring whether the child is hungry or not, whether he is sleeping.

When the child was older, I heard that the child was going to kindergarten at the age of 3. So, regardless of whether the child is already ready to go to kindergarten, the child is sent away. Parents should also know how to be flexible after mastering scientific parenting methods, do not blindly copy, and must teach according to their children's aptitude.

3.Play fast and loose.

This is also an important reason why many parents feel that they are not teaching their children well. Most parents know that they should communicate well with their children in case of trouble, and they should not lose their temper or beat and scold their children. If parents are constantly capricious like this, it can make children nervous, confused, and even insecure.

In the process of family education, we should start from the actual situation of our own children, and the characteristics of each child are different. This is how you can help your child grow.

Children are individuals, and they have their own thoughts, not clay figures that can be pinched around!

If a child has a problem, whether the problem comes from the family or from the child, it needs to be considered from many aspects. There is no doubt that home education is very important for a child, and a good family education can bring very good results to the child. For example, some intellectual families can find that their children will be as informed as their parents when raising their children, and this is the role of tutoring.

Of course, not all tutors are successful, and some families are very unsuccessful in their education. For example, if the child is either beaten or scolded, and the child has too high expectations, if the child cannot complete it, the parents will turn their anger on the child, and this kind of education method is definitely not right. Sometimes a child wants to study hard, but due to some factors, his grades have not been improved.

At this time, it is definitely not correct to blame only the child for the problem, and it should also be considered from the perspective of family education. <>

In modern education, the emphasis is on the combination of family education and school education, so that children have teachers to educate when they are in school, and parents to educate when they are at home. Of course, it needs to be established on the premise that the educational effect is relatively good, if the family education is not good, it will only make the child rebellious, and the family education is very dissatisfied, so as to work against the parents, such examples are countless. Therefore, tutoring is actually a very difficult thing, and parents want to educate their children well, but also learn some knowledge of tutoring.

Therefore, when a child has a problem, the problem should be separated to see whether it happens in family education or the child. You can't beat you to death with a stick and think that all the problems are on the child, nor can you attribute all the mistakes to family education, and the two should be looked at together. Contemporary parents should pay more attention to home education, which is very helpful for the cultivation of children.

And in the process of tutoring, it is even more so, a good tutor can help the child a lot, and a bad tutor will even leave a shadow for the child for a lifetime.

I think it mainly depends on the age of the child, if the child is still young, the child has a problem, it must be a problem of family education, after all, the child is a blank slate, and the rental and sale side needs to suffer to do better. If the acorn child is older, there are more reasons for the problem. It is necessary to find out the root cause of the distribution and dismantling in order to solve the problem.

I think this is a problem of family education, because children are young and ignorant, they don't know how to get along with the world, when there is a problem, the first reaction is to go to Gaowu to find their parents, the same if the child has a problem, other people's first reaction is the child's home education problem.

Problems with homeschooling. Sometimes parents will ignore their children's psychology and fail to give correct guidance, which will make their children grow crooked.

For parents, they all hope that their children will be able to succeed in the future, so it is not easy to accept their children's failures calmly. But most people grow up with setbacks and wrong things. Because when the child does not achieve the conclusion expected by the parents, parents will be angry and impetuous, and the parents' mentality is actually higher than the negative impact of failure on the child.

For a long time, children are not only worried about failure, but also worried about the blame of their parents after doing something wrong or failure, so many children are used to timidity. Gradually, the child will become less and less confident in himself, and even if he is able to handle things thoroughly, he may be nervous and afraid, or give up easily after a slight attempt. In addition, parents can make themselves have a face by blindly comparing their children, or use "other people's children" to compare their own children for a long time, and consider their own children one by one by borrowing the advantages of others.

If the child fails to outperform others in all respects, it seems that the father or mother will suffer a very severe blow.

Many parents will be more likely to label their children with signs such as "timid", "useless to do anything", "slow response, bad temper", etc., and will always mention it in front of their children when chatting with friends, which is undoubtedly an obvious psychological hint, constantly telling their children: then you are timid, short-tempered, and have a bad brain. The essence of the child's sister may not be like this, but if the parents keep saying this, the child will feel as if he is indeed like this.

However, if parents help their children to improve such situations, for example, for shy and timid children, the correct way is to help her save the scene moderately, and inform the child how to deal with the situation properly, rather than "crossing the river and tearing down the bridge".

Every child is different, and individual differences will make each child show different advantages, and no child is absolutely perfect, so parents can not only pay attention to their child's area that is not comparable to others, and ignore her advantages in many other aspects. Every child grows up in their own way, and if parents are good at observing and guiding their children to develop their personal strengths, then each child will become a person with unique skills in this diverse society.

When we educate our children, we can't say some things that are not okay and refuse to be particularly serious, which will lead to children being particularly timid, not having their own opinions on what to do, and there will always be some mistakes and timidity; We need to be bold enough to praise our children, and if we do the right thing, we can give encouragement or reward.