Women are too tolerant of men, are they the only ones who are hurting?

In fact, there are many things that will always be understood after experiencing it, how to protect yourself after the emotional pain, how to persist and give up in a timely manner after being stupid, and we slowly understand ourselves in the gain and loss, and there are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. In fact, life does not need such indifferent attachments, there is nothing that cannot be abandoned. Learn to give up, and life will be easier; Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up and bury yesterday in your heart; Make good memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable, it is not easy to come over the deep and shallow love, gently pull out your hand to say goodbye, you don't have to let yourself be hurt more deeply, every gratitude is very beautiful, every companionship is very intoxicating.

Is it a pity that you can't have it, whether it is missing makes us feel more nostalgic, feelings are not the answer to the questionnaire, the hard pursuit can not make life more complete, maybe a little confused, a trace of sadness, will make this answer sheet longer, put away the mood and go, miss the flower you will harvest the rain, who said that if you like a thing, you must have, sometimes, some people in order to get what he wants, go to the extreme, maybe he got it, but in the process of chasing, What is lost is also incalculable, and the price paid is irreparable, perhaps those costs are heavy. --

Tolerance is right, but don't be too tolerant, it depends on the degree, small shortcomings can be tolerated, and big shortcomings should be corrected!

Tolerance, if you tolerate him [her] but others don't know how to tolerate. It's not very tiring like that. A relationship needs to be mutually inclusive, not to be alone. Play the so-called tolerance, if you blindly tolerate others, this will make you lose yourself.

No, if you keep tolerating and changing in marriage, it will not make the other party feel satisfied, but will make the relationship become more and more unequal, and you will be hurt in the relationship. In marriage, although you don't need to argue with reason, you should also love yourself well and don't swallow your anger with others. You should express your concept very clearly, you can back down, but you can't always endure it and live a life of obedience.

In that way, I will also fall into an inferiority complex, this relationship, because of the concession of one party, patience will become more and more unequal, even if the relationship is long-lasting, it has no meaning, let alone happiness.

1. Blind forbearance will make the other party gain an inch.

Although there should be mutual humility and tolerance in marriage, this is mutual, not always only one party is humble and tolerant, but both parties can understand how to manage in marriage, if only one party blindly tolerates and changes themselves, the other party will never be indifferent, and the party who thinks that it is forbearance will do so as a matter of course, and the other party will not be able to stabilize the relationship for a long time.

2. Blind forbearance will make you feel aggrieved.

In marriage, the most important thing is to obtain happiness and the value of life, if we blindly tolerate change, swallow anger to each other, and accept it, we will feel that we have lost the value of life and the meaning of life.

Because we can't get happiness from this marriage, we will make this marriage become chicken ribs, and if we keep tolerating it, we will feel very aggrieved, which is quite detrimental to physical and mental health, and it is impossible to make the relationship last for a long time.

3. Tolerance can't change anything.

Many people have the traditional idea that patience is needed in marriage, but for any modern person, patience has a limit. Blindly forbearance will suppress one's body and mind, which is not good for one's physical and mental health, and it is not good for this marriage. Forbearance is useful if one's own forbearance can be exchanged for the understanding of the other party.

If the other party doesn't understand, they will think that the tolerant party is easy to bully, and the relationship will never last long.