Men are not more vulnerable than women

God makes people! He created man and woman when he created man, and it is not so much that men are more fragile than women, but that they are both equally fragile, and they can only be perfect when they are perfectly combined and complementary! It cannot simply be said that men are more fragile than women or women are more fragile than men, generally speaking, men are stronger than women on the outside, and they may be more fragile on the inside, and vice versa.

So I guess this issue is not a one-sided issue, but a two-sided one!

Women are strong on the outside and fragile on the inside, while men are strong on the outside and stronger on the inside.

In fact, women look strong, but they are actually very vulnerable.

The process of love is hurt, the end of love is not love, and starting again is equivalent to failing again. Why is it that both loving and being loved in love are hurt.

I don't want to do that, but in love, you can't let it go.

Unless you don't love.

This is true on the inside, despite being strong on the outside. From the moment men are born, they are labeled as strong and responsible, which makes it difficult for them to grow up or live in the future, but because they are men, they have to disguise their strength, but in fact, their hearts are very fragile, and long-term depression makes men very painful, so it is said that men's hearts are tempered glass, and once broken, they are broken!

Oh, okay, I admit that men are vulnerable.

Fragility does not distinguish between men and women, everyone has a vulnerable side, no matter how strong a person is, deep in his heart, he needs to rely on, care and love.

Fragility is the truest soul of man, and the fragile side is also the beautiful side of man. A "Tangshan Da**".

It makes people cry: people are so fragile, so weak that they can't even control their own fate. Man is an infinitely complex animal, and he is strong only when he is vulnerable.

It is when everyone is vulnerable, men and women, if you insist on comparing who is more vulnerable, it can only be said that men are sometimes more fragile than women. A woman's fragility is on the surface, a man's fragility is on the inside!

It is often said that "weak women" and "iron-clad men" may be a rough summary of women and men. Or in terms of the appearance of women and men! In fact, psychologically, many men are far less strong and psychologically endurable than women.

It's also far inferior to women! This society has carried too much on men, but men have no choice but to be vulnerable.

After being fragile, I realized that fragility is not weakness.

It was only in order not to be weak and fragile that I found that it turned out that tears were also a kind of life.

Women are weak, but mothers are strong. A woman may not be able to unscrew the cap in front of her loved ones, but when her children or parents or lovers are injured, she is a person who crosses the bridge and has weak legs, and she can climb Huashan with her bare hands when she encounters the conditions needed to protect her beloved.

If a woman is strong emotionally. That is the despair of feelings, and only when you close your heart will you be strong.

And fragility does not distinguish between men and women, only simple people will be fragile in their hearts.

People must be strong, women should not learn to be strong, they must be strong. You can be petite, but you have to be strong inside, you can be unhappy for a while, but you have to learn to wipe away your tears and make yourself strong. You can do without pretty.

Regardless of gender, when a person expresses a vulnerable side to you, he has already recognized you as someone close to him. Unless he is not deeply involved in the world, or he is a fool ......Like.

Yes, it's the same every year, because of personality, so girls can be very strong, no worse than anyone else.

Because of the education of the idea of male superiority and inferiority, men are always praised and rarely criticized, so men's ability to bear is worse than that of women.

Hello, not all men are strong, some men are really not as fragile as girls, it depends on something.

Everybody's vulnerable, just to see if it shows it, and you can't generalize that everybody can be vulnerable.

Men are under too much pressure and too much pressure! The heart is fragile.

Why do men look more vulnerable than women? The reason behind it is very clear from netizens:

Mom is a person who has come over and understands that marrying is a woman's must go through the group preparation stage, so it seems that she has a stronger ability to bear than her father.

Speaking of the topic of the father crying more at the daughter's wedding, a netizen said: That's because the mother has experienced the parting with her mother's family, while the father has never experienced it. It wasn't until my daughter was in her twenties that she had such an experience for the first time, and it was psychologically more difficult to accept than her mother.

This explanation is quite reasonable: because in the era when women married men, when the mother got married, she already felt the feeling of parting with her relatives, and since she got married, she has more deeply experienced the feeling of "being a guest in her mother's house and an outsider in her mother-in-law's house". And since she gave birth to her daughter, she will also understand psychologically that she must also go through the mental journey she has experienced before, so it will be easier to accept it when facing her daughter's wedding.

The father, before and after marriage, did not experience the feelings of parting with relatives, until his daughter got married, he realized for the first time what it was like to part with his relatives, and his daughter, who had been raised for more than 20 years, went to live in someone else's house, so it was psychologically difficult to accept.

For this reason, at the daughter's wedding, the father often does not appear as calm as the mother.

Men know men better and are reluctant to let their baby daughters suffer.

Dad is more nervous about his daughter, on the one hand, because dad knows men better and knows what men think, so he is afraid that his daughter will suffer, especially when his daughter is in love, he always wants to check for his daughter more. And when his daughter gets married, if the father is lazy at home and a little machismo, he will think that his son-in-law will not be like him and let his daughter work hard with him.

The daughter grew up by herself, and she was afraid of melting in her hand, of course, she couldn't bear to let her daughter go to a strange place and live with a man she didn't know too well. With such thoughts, the father's mood will be quite complicated, so there will be more reluctance and helplessness for his daughter. I hope that my daughter will stay by my side forever, but I don't want to delay my daughter to find her own happiness, this kind of entanglement will also make men cry.

Our parents raised us, and although the way they express their feelings is different, the love for their daughter is definitely about the same. However, the father who seems to be tall and big, when facing his daughter, lives in his heart a weak villain. The more I love my daughter, the more I can't stand parting!

In our eyes, men are a symbol of strength. But you know what?

Men are actually very fragile before liquid. They are also under a lot of pressure. So what are the main pressures on men in this day and age? Let's take a look at the main contents.

1. Men will definitely bear the pressure from their families.

They are the breadwinners of the family, and all the economy is mainly male. Especially in middle age, when faced with the situation of being old and young, the pressure on the family will show.

When there is huge family pressure, we must learn to adapt to life and environment, communicate more with family members, maintain family harmony, give a certain amount of understanding and support, and not blindly complain, and help enlighten their emotions.

2. The second pressure comes from physical health.

Generally in middle age, all organs in the body begin to decline, coupled with the fact that the career is in a stable state, and you have to deal with a variety of entertainment, long-term sedentary lifestyle, a lot of smoking and drinking, eating big fish and meat, etc., which is prone to three highs and increases the risk of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases.

In middle age, it is a turning point in life, when resistance and immunity decrease, and with it comes various diseases, and what men are most afraid of at this stage is prostatitis. It is necessary to go to the hospital regularly every year for physical examination, and once any abnormality is found, it should be solved in time.

3. Men are also under emotional pressure.

When your career is not going well, you may have quarrels with your family. In middle age, because they are busy with their careers, they ignore their attention to their families, and they do not get the support and understanding of their families, which leads to misunderstandings, which affects the relationship between husband and wife. In order to maintain a harmonious family environment and relieve emotional stress, couples should communicate more.

4. Men are also under pressure from their careers.

Career is a man's lifelong pursuit, and the bigger the career, the stronger the man's self-confidence. However, studies have found that successful men generally need to be enlightened by a psychiatrist, they will face the ups and downs of their careers, and as a family member, they should be enlightened more to encourage them to have a positive attitude and face pressure correctly.

In general, men are very fragile and under pressure from all four sides. As a family member, you need to be more considerate of men and care more about men.