What kind of child is the smartest? What a smart kid

In late autumn, at noon, the warm and soft sunlight passed through the red and thick creepers in the balcony, shining on me, who was lying motionless and lazy on the sofa on the first floor, and I couldn't help but have the interest of reading, and then said to my four-year-old niece who was playing beside me: "Go, go to the pillow in my bedroom on the second floor, and take down the book "How Steel is Made". ”

The child didn't say a word, but turned around and walked a few steps and went upstairs.

The mother next to her complained and said, "You are really, so that people don't look at the object, how old is she, there are more than a dozen books on your pillow, can she bring them to you?" ”

I thought about it and smiled embarrassedly.

Soon, the child came running and handed me a thick book. That's right, it's "How Steel is Made".

I asked curiously, "How did you find so many books?" ”

The child said proudly: "I know the words (is) and (of), the book you said is eight words, first look for the book of eight words, and then as long as the third word is (yes) and the last word is (of), it must be that book." ”

I laughed again, such a clever boy!

There are three characteristics of a real child's intelligence: smart eyes, strong hands-on ability, and fast reaction ability.

1. Look into the child's eyes

People say that "eyes are the windows of the soul", a pair of good-looking eyes can not only enhance the overall appearance of the Mianzhou Laxun Department, but also play a role in the effect of eyebrows and empathy. And from a person's eyes, you can see what he thinks and his living habits, and the first facial features that some people who can look at are the eyes.

Children's eyes, on the other hand, convey more information, and before they have a mature language system, their eyes can express their emotions and thoughts even better than their words. The eyes of smart children are firm and smart, their eyes are full of curiosity about the world, and they can always see a lot of good things in their eyes.

2. Look at the child's hands-on ability

If the eye is the window to the soul, then the hand is the tissue closest to the heart. A person's way of thinking can be judged by the dexterity of his fingers, and children who like to use their hands and have strong hands-on ability will also have a relatively more flexible mind.

They are more practical than the average child, and are keen to solve their own unknowns about the world through their own efforts, and children with strong hands-on ability have a bad characteristic: before they realize the correct way to do it, their destructive power is unimaginable.

Some children are very active when they are young, and the destructive power is very strong, if their children are like this, parents should not be in a hurry, to guide the child's hands-on ability in the right direction.

3. Carefully observe your child's responsiveness

The coordination between the child's brain and hands can be seen from the child's reaction ability, and the brain's dominance of the five senses can also be seen. Children's reflexes are the sum of all abilities, and children with strong reflexes are relatively outstanding in their way of thinking and various abilities.

This is why many parents choose to focus on cultivating their children's reaction skills, only by cultivating children's good reaction skills, their concentration and language skills will be improved accordingly.

Smart children are quietly cultivated:

1. Don't suppress their intelligence traits

First of all, parents must not suppress some manifestations of intelligence, although sometimes, they will bring endless trouble and distress to parents. For example, your child often talks after you and asks you all kinds of questions, and if you really don't have time, tell him to talk later, instead of viciously annoying him.

In front of the child, the parent has natural authority, and once the parent suppresses his intelligent trait, the child will converge this trait and gradually bury it.

2. Teach students according to their aptitude

There are many dimensions to the difference between different smart traits and cultivating intelligence, some children may be very quick to react, some are very deep in thinking about problems, and some are strong in spatial conception.

Different intelligent traits are cultivated in different directions and methods. Only by teaching children according to their aptitude can we better tap the potential of children and truly let their intelligence reveal their "true colors".