Why can t some people forget? Always reminiscing and hurting myself

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The cup is lonely, someone pours boiling water, the feeling of being hot, the cup thinks this is the feeling of being in love; The water is warm, the cup is comfortable, and I think this is what life feels like; The water is getting colder, the cup is scared, maybe that's what it feels like to lose; The water became completely cold, the cup was very uncomfortable, and I wanted to pour the water out, The water was finally poured out, the cup was very comfortable, but the cup also fell to the ground and fell into pieces, The cup found that there were traces of water on each piece, it knew that it still loved the water in its heart, It was impossible for it to love the water again completely, is it only when it is lost that it knows how to cherish, Only when everything is in the past can it know happiness? Cherish what you have now!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The saddest thing is not separation, but that you can't forget each other after separation. Whether you like someone or love someone, there's no way to forget it anytime soon! After all, people are flesh and blood!

    No one can be truly ruthless! He knows he won't turn back on what he's doing, but he'll do it anyway! I remember a line from a TV show that said, "Sometimes there are things that we will do even though we know they won't work out, and I just want you to remember all the good things you did to him, even if it's just a little bit."

    It's hard to give up, but you have to do your best to forget! Even if you really can't forget him, I will sincerely wish him happiness from the bottom of my heart! If you like or love someone, you don't have to be with him, as long as he is happy, you will feel content!

    Time can dilute everything! I've always believed in this saying! I believe that one day, you will meet someone who can make your heart more attractive than him!

    Slowly it will fade away. I wish you to come out of the shadows as soon as possible and find your true happiness as soon as possible!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe time is the only way to save you, but if you like someone, why should you choose to forget her, if you like someone, you have to let him know, maybe you don't even have friends after confessing, but if you don't say it, you will sink into depression for the rest of your life, and there is a 50 chance that you will be happy, if you don't say it, you will definitely not be happy. I used to like a guy too, but I haven't told him how I feel, maybe I haven't figured out whether I like or love him. So in the long thinking, the feelings for him seem to have slowly faded, although sometimes I still have some worries about him, but I still choose to go with the flow, everything depends on the will of God!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    For you care too much about Him and all that is about Him ... Maybe it's because you've had so many great memories that you can't forget! You don't know what to do, just like you love something, always so much that you can't change it...

    Deep down in your heart, you have been "poisoned" by him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    To completely forget the past is to deceive yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be linked to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret it, you say yes?

    Isn't there a saying that says? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in 1 day, but forget someone in a lifetime, this is love!

    Forget? That's impossible, it's unrealistic, and instead of trying to forget, Shadow suggests that it's better to do something practical at that time when you want to forget!

    The shadow wants to say to you: don't forget what the hell you see, and don't regret it since you love it. The fate of people is predestined, although you are not together, but there are this good memories, I think it is worth it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you really loved.

    How can it be easily forgotten.

    Don't forget.

    Because when you want to forget.

    It's when you think about it a lot.

    So when you remember.

    Don't be in a hurry to forget.

    It's about telling yourself not to think about it anymore.

    It's been a long time. I forgot about it.

    It doesn't hurt that much.

    Gradually, you will find out.

    It turns out that you don't care that much.

    It turned out that everything was a thing of the past.

    For those of us who want to forget.

    Perhaps time is the most effective way to hurt the disease.

    Alas.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, no matter which spine to remember whether it is beautiful or painful, it has happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Li Da doesn't care about the road under his feet, the scenery in front is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the past, Short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let Ye Li deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are some things that we can't forget, and some things that we can't forget. Forget? In fact, it's just autosuggestion, it's escapism!

    Why forget? There is no point in escaping, it is better to face it, stool pat Wang rationally, and face it emotionally. Those who say that time forgets everything, do they really forget?

    No, I'm just comforting myself by saying this, but really, I can only keep it in my heart, and then slowly grow old. Memories may be beautiful, or they may be painful. But when people are no longer young, the most beautiful thing left is memories, a memory that was once the most beautiful and moving, a memory that once made you heartbroken!

    Don't deliberately put pressure on yourself, if you force yourself to forget, it will be futile anyway, and it will make you even more unable to forget. When people are in pain, they should be happy in Zaozai, learn to be grateful, learn to be grateful, thank every passer-by in life, and thank them for giving you a chance to grow! Instead of trying to escape this fact again, escaping from the world, and escaping from oneself.

    Face it calmly and let go of your body and mind. There is still a long way to go, we need to face it bravely, accept it bravely, continue to accept it, and continue to be happy!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How long does it take to forget the omen of a loved one? Many people say that time dilutes everything, but this sentence is actually wrong. To forget someone, the premise is that you really want to forget. It's easy to forget, but it's hard to make up your mind.

    Although it hurts to forget a person, it is difficult, but also to learn to face life with a smile, rather than spending a lifetime to miss the irretrievable past, it is better to use a moment to grasp belonging. Your own true future. People can't live in memories all their lives, and there are still many beautiful scenery in life, waiting for us to discover!

    He only used ten minutes on the love of Jianyan, but it took him a lifetime to forget him, and the result is still unforgettable.

    Some people say that a man's heart follows his feet, and wherever his feet go, his heart follows there, while a woman's feet follow his heart, and his heart follows wherever his feet go, and this sentence is very reasonable.

    Human life is very short, no matter what we encounter, it is worth remembering, whether it is sad or painful, these are written on the road of our growth.

    Some things, some people, if you deliberately choose to forget, then it means that you don't want to forget at all, and in the final analysis, feelings are really your own business.

    There are too many touching love stories in the world, maybe you are experiencing an enviable love now, but you also have to learn to cherish it. The greatest happiness in life is to be able to get a heart that loves you and cares for you all the time. Don't forget that love is like sand in your hand, and the tighter you hold it, the more you will lose.

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