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If the husband does not take the money to spend on his wife, it will definitely lead to a lot of problems. In this regard, women should argue on the basis of reason, and it is actually natural to ask for living expenses from their husbands, and we should not be deterred by other factors.
1. Argue with reason.
The husband does not give his wife money to spend.
is a very serious thing, and it can lead to some crisis of trust in the family.
Generally, husbands earn money to support the family, and if the wife is not given a certain amount of financial expenses, the family will definitely become fragmented. In fact, it is a normal thing to give money to the wife, so that the relationship between the husband and wife can be maintained. Not giving money to his wife shows that the man has some personality or psychological problems, and the girl needs to pay more attention.
2. Ask for help.
If the husband does not take money to subsidize his wife, then the wife can ask for help from the outside world. For example, you can reflect this problem to your parents-in-law and ask them to educate their children, or you can cry to your relatives, which can form a lot of pressure on men. With these methods, men should be compromised.
In fact, women are married in life.
If you are bullied, you should rise up and find a solution.
3. Independence.
Girls should still be more independent in modern society, and it is important to learn to earn their own money, so that they will not be financially dependent on boys and will not be looked down upon by their husbands. Independence allows women to establish their own family and social status, so that men do not look down on women.
In married life, women should actually have their own careers, so that women will have weight when they speak, so that they don't have to ask men for money often. A career is very important for women, which is a great guarantee for women's dignity, personality and social value.
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Such a man is an extremely selfish person. He values money more than his life. You don't have a good way, just leave all the consumption in life to him. You're in peace.
We see that there are such people in our lives. even took his wife's salary card into his own hands. Every penny spent at home should be clear. His wife didn't have any money in her hands.
What's more, some implement the AA system in the family. When you meet such a person, ask for more blessings.
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You should first introduce your husband's personal situation, how much he earns each month, and it is not too late for you to ask questions.
First of all, you are not wrong Suppose your husband doesn't have any points, how do you ask him to give it to you? Your husband really can't earn money, how can you ask him to give it to you? There is no husband who has money and does not give it to his wife, only if his pocket is empty, he will not give it if he can't take it.
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In these years, the man is reliable, and the sow will go up the tree. The mountains will fall, everyone will run, or rely on yourself to be more down-to-earth. When a man doesn't want to give you money to spend, then go out and work, and pin your life on a man, it's too risky.
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The direct way is to mess with him. Of course, if you want to solve the problem, you have to do it yourself, have enough food and clothing, and go to work!
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As long as you are married, it is the joint property of the husband and wife, and he has no right not to give it to you, there is this law.
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To be honest, it doesn't feel good to reach out and ask for money, and the wife should have her own job and career so that she won't be looked down upon by her husband.
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Go out and work on your own, earn your own money and spend it. Whoever loves to do things at home does.
Don't give money to spend, no matter what home.
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1. Be sure to find out why your husband doesn't give money.
If you marry your husband from the beginning, he will not give you money and is not willing to pay for you; So what is the use of you guarding such a husband; If at the beginning, he was very good to you, but slowly he changed his mind; Then you must find the reason, you and him have come to this point, it is impossible that nothing has happened; You must find out the reason why he doesn't give you money, and you will naturally understand what the problem is; You must believe that there must be something wrong with you; Of course, there must be something wrong with him; Otherwise, it would be impossible for you to come to such an unfamiliar step.
2. Get rid of your bad habits and bad habits.
In marriage, no one dares to guarantee that they will do well everywhere; So you want your husband, give you money; Then you must get rid of those bad habits, those bad problems in your marriage; For example, do you often quarrel with your husband, quarrel with your husband; Are you in conflict with your husband because of a trivial matter? Are you a willful person, are you an unreasonable person, are you a kind person; You have changed yourself into a perfect woman, your husband, he will definitely love you, spoil you, and protect you; Good woman, there is no man who does not hurt, and there is no man who does not love.
3. If you want to get your husband's money, you will accept his heart first.
If you want to get your husband's heart, you must first get your husband's stomach, which is something that every woman knows and understands; So you want your husband to love you and willingly give you money; Then you must make him more delicious things and make some things he likes in life; And you have to make some tonic soup to nourish his body; You only have to keep giving, and you have been giving without regrets; One day, he will be willing to give you the money; The more cruel and cruel you are to him, the less he will pay attention to you; Most people, who are flesh and blood, know how to be grateful, and will not take revenge.
Fourth, be a little woman and be a coquettish woman.
It is impossible for almost all strong women to live happily and satisfactorily in marriage; So a woman, you must be a little woman, a woman who depends on your husband; More importantly, learn to be a coquettish woman, and be a woman who makes your husband know how to feel sorry for you; In front of your husband, coquettish and cute, your husband, he will feel that you are like his daughter; At this time, if you ask him for money, he will give it to you; When you speak to a man, you must not force it; The more you force him, the more ruthless he becomes; A coquettish little woman, her life is quite good, and she can change herself.
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1. Explain carefully to your husband the reason for asking for money.
There are many times when men and women think very differently. My husband is reluctant to give you money to spend, maybe he thinks that you usually spend money too uncontrollably, and you don't know how to spend money in moderation at all. And I always buy some useless things, buy them back and put them at home and don't use them.
After a long time, he will think that you are a bit of a waste of money. So you have to tell him the reason why you want money, saying that you need money this time because you want to buy some household goods for your family, so he will give it.
2. There is also a kind of man who is not only stingy with other people's money, but also more stingy with himself, this kind of person is a stingy person, as long as it mentions money, it is relatively shrunk, no matter what he buys, who he buys, it is like this, this kind of person generally grows up not very well, and he has lived a hard life, so he can actually be forgiven.
3. There is also a kind of man who may not love you at all, and he doesn't want to waste any resources on you, in fact, the thing you want is within his affordability, and he won't buy it for you, and he feels that you want too much, sometimes it reflects not only that he doesn't want to spend money for you, even if you want to get some care and love, he won't give it to you.
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There is no need to maintain such a relationship, this is from the most basic situation, husband and wife are one and one are prosperous, and one is lost, so helping each other, caring for each other, and earning money for his wife to spend is what a normal husband should do.
But there are special cases for special things, if the wife spends lavishly, she will often overload and spend, that is, earn one point and spend two points. And if you don't spend money, it is understandable for your husband to restrict his wife from spending money, and even make demands on his wife, if it is not changed, it may lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
But if it's just a normal expense, maybe the wife doesn't make money, so she takes care of the children at home, but this is a more tiring thing, and the husband doesn't give his wife money to spend at this time, so there is no need for such a husband.
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If your husband doesn't give his wife money to spend, then divorce your husband, which means that your husband doesn't love you, doesn't like you, and doesn't take you to heart, and another thing is that you have to be self-reliant, don't always ask your husband for money, and your wife should be self-reliant.
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Nowadays, many women choose to be stay-at-home wives after they have been married. There's nothing wrong with that, as long as the man is capable enough to support the family. But if a man is only responsible for the daily expenses of the family, but is not willing to give a woman a little pocket money, this behavior is inappropriate.
As a wife, you can talk to your husband about this, and if her husband is not willing to change, the woman will come out of that family and go out to find a job to earn money by herself. Don't swallow your anger and condone your husband's behavior.
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What should I do if my husband doesn't give his wife money to spend? It should be mutual respect, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, and a certain amount of funds should be given to the wife.
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Why does the husband have to give his wife money to spend? Won't you make money yourself? Many husbands think like this, and all the money I earn is spent on you.
If you can't go out to work after giving birth, take the children to cook and wash clothes at home, and these husbands still don't give you money to spend, then you have to talk to him.
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Under normal circumstances, the husband wants to give his wife money to spend, but I don't know why your husband doesn't give his wife money to spend, but the wife should spend money reasonably, try not to do useless expenses, according to her own family conditions, the wife also has to do a little family obligations.
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Good afternoon. If you don't give it, you can go out and earn money by yourself, you can leave the child and go out to earn money by yourself.
There is no law that requires you to give your wife money to spend.
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The husband doesn't give his wife money to spend, the wife can go out and make money by herself, why should people rely on others.
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If your husband doesn't give his wife money to spend, then you ask him for it. Isn't it true that men earn money for women?
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Let my husband definitely have to pay a little living expenses for the family every month. If he doesn't give it, he will go to work by himself. The money you earn is spent by yourself
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The husband does not give his wife money to spend, which can only mean that the husband does not love his wife, if he really loves his wife, I believe he will not treat the other party like this.
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Maybe he was afraid that his wife would spend money indiscriminately, so he controlled the money more strictly, and his wife could discuss with him if she needed it, and the money needed in that place was needed.
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First, it's not enough to spend on your own.
Second, empty yourself.
Third, they just don't want to give it to you.
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I usually give all my net worth to my wife and have no money.
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