A mother who pays attention to her image will not raise a child who is not too bad, you know?

Many mothers gain weight after giving birth, and they don't pay attention to maintenance, and they get worse. They are busy taking care of their children every day and gradually turn into yellow-faced women. If you ask her, but why is it slowly neglecting to manage yourself?

For various reasons, they will always reply to you: "It's not that I'm lazy, but I don't have time to take care of the children, and I really don't have time to do it myself!" "Is it really good that a child raised by an image-conscious mother is not too bad?

Naturally not good! As the children's favorite and closest person, the children look forward to their mother's beauty and happiness every day. You live a refined life, be happy for yourself, be happy for your children, and set an example for your children's lives.

1- The mother has a good temperament and raises more confident children.

If you think that children don't understand anything, you're wrong! Children also have a little vanity.

Privately, there are comparisons between children. They will be earlier than their parents and more handsome than their parents. If the person who comes to pick him up is more temperamental and beautiful, the child will be more confident to tell the child, this is my mother!

A smile can be delivered. Everyone loves someone who smiles every day. On the contrary, worrying is unpleasant.

Mothers smile often, which can spread positive energy to the child. This positive impact is beneficial in a child's life. Therefore, as a mother, you should smile with your child often.

3- Mothers like to dress up and raise more independent children.

Parents are the first mirror of their children. The appearance of parents will be imprinted on the hearts of children. Mothers who like to be well-groomed, children usually like to be well-groomed. In kindergarten, children can always get more attention.

Mom, don't use the excuse of "busy taking care of the children" not to dress up, and don't pay much attention to external beauty, but at least don't, neat, elegant, and well-matched.

Yes, if the mother pays special attention to the image, the raised child will also pay great attention to the image, and the child's emotional intelligence will be higher.

Every child wants their mother to be beautiful and better looking than other people's mothers, and a mother who pays attention to her image will make her very confident and more daring to express herself in the face of problems.

Mothers should not only pay attention to their own image, but also develop good educational habits for their children when educating them, so as to help their children grow up healthily.

This kind of thing must be known to the mother, when the child is very young, it is necessary to cultivate the child's good aesthetic ability, and then to do a good job in the management of their own image, so as to be of great help to the child's growth.

In many people's cognition, women are around their husbands and children, after marriage, for me, many women will continue to dress themselves carefully, but once they are pregnant, give birth to a child, it seems that their hearts are gone, many mothers feel that their husbands have children, and they don't care about their own image, rather than consuming time to clean up their own image, it is better to spend time taking care of children and doing housework, and mothers may be really wrong when they think so.

Manman's child is 3 years old, and now he is starting to go to kindergarten, Manman is a full-time mother, specializing in taking care of children at home, and in the near future, he is preparing for a second child in advance, although Manman has no job and has enough time to stay at home, but she has not dressed herself well, because he feels that the home is not a workplace, and there is no need to dress up at all. However, one day, when Man Man went to the kindergarten to pick up the child after school, the child said, "Why are other mothers so good-looking, but my mother is not so good-looking", Man Man listened, he was dumbfounded on the spot, I didn't think that the child would say such a thing, Man Man gradually reflected on himself, whether he also needed to dress himself up, although the child is simple-minded, not a straight man, but a mother with a better image and temperament will make the child more like.

How important is the image of a mother to a child?

First, it will make children more confident.

Mother is the child in this world more intimate people, are the child's classmates and teachers are easier to see relatives, although the child does not love vanity, but if there is a better image and temperament of the mother, will make classmates and teachers praise, at this time invisibly enhance the child's confidence, the child will also be proud of the mother.

Second, it will make children learn image management methods.

Parents are the first teachers of their children, and their mothers are also children's role models, many of the children's habits are formed when they imitate their mothers, especially when they have daughters, how to manage their image and temperament are all learned from their mothers, and their mothers usually manage their own images very well, and daughters will also learn, and daughters have a good image and give a good first impression.

First, it will make children more confident. Mother is the closest person to the child in the world, but also the child's teacher and classmates are the easiest to see the family, although the child has no vanity, but if there is a good image and temperament of the mother, will let the teacher and classmates praise, which will invisibly increase the child's self-confidence, the child will be proud of the mother in his heart.

Second, it will let children learn image management. Parents are the first teachers of children, mothers are children's role models, many habits of children are formed when imitating mothers, especially when there are daughters at home, how daughters manage their image and temperament are all learned from their mothers, mothers usually manage their own image very well, daughters will also learn, daughters have a good image, will also leave a good first impression.

The image of the child's mother is very important to the child because the parents are the first teachers of the child. Voice, appearance, etc. If the mother's voice is good, the child will feel very gentle, the mother's appearance is good-looking, and the child will like the mother very much.

The image of the mother has a great impact on the child, establish a good image of the mother: the child is like a blank piece of paper, everything around him must be learned by the child to see, if the mother is a beautiful and excellent appearance in daily life, then the child will also learn from the mother to become more exquisite, more hard. Because children always like to learn things with people who are quieter around them.

If mothers and fathers make a mess of their lives and ignore their children's feelings, it will only teach them this bad phenomenon.

If the mother has always been a more outstanding and motivated person, then the child will also become an excellent and motivated person, because the child will learn from the mother to learn and train, and then learn more excellent images in the mother's body, and then internalize this excellent development concept in the heart, so that they can also become a successful person, and then the mother will become a role model for the child, and then the child will become more and more excellent, and will move to learn and train from other successful people in daily life. If you want to be an excellent mother, then the mother must have the ability to self-discipline, because everyone has a lazy side and an embarrassing side in daily life, but these bad images are best not presented in front of the child.

Even if there is a problem of their own shortcomings, they should try their best to correct and make themselves better, the child often sees that the mother is a casual and lazy appearance, then the child will not become very good, and will follow the mother to learn and train this bad side. Nowadays, the baby and the mother spend a lot of time together, and we all know that if the mother despises the child too much, it will make the child very uncomfortable, so that the child will not feel the mother's love for herself.

We all know that in the case of accompanying children, mothers must play with their children, not mobile phones, which will make children very uncomfortable, make children feel that their mothers do not like to accompany them, and make children's emotions depressed. Therefore, when playing with children, mothers must play with their children and actively participate in children's games, so that children can feel the care and love of their parents. That makes the child happier, and it can also make the parent-child communication very harmonious, so that the child wants to talk to his mother.

And the mother should also respect and understand her son's advice and let the child's advice, so the main performance is not to force the child to do things he doesn't like.

The image of the mother can be said to be the most powerful for the child, because the child is closest to the mother, the mother's words and deeds will let the child learn, in some behaviors the mother must set her own example, can not go back on her word, and there is to correct their own attitude, they can not be too indulgent with the child.

How much does the image of a mother affect a child? How to build a good image of a mother? The image of the mother will play a very important role in the process of the child's growth, as the child's closest, the initial role model, the mother's words and deeds will also have an important role in the child's flaunting.

It may not be pretty, but it must be clean and tidy.

The impact is indeed very large, if a mother is in shape every day and full of positive energy, then it will also have an impact on the child's mental health, as well as his attitude towards things.

The mother's school has a great impact on the child, so in a family, the mother must set a good example for the child and let the child have a good enlightenment teacher.

Children spend the longest time with their mothers, so the image of the mother will directly affect the child's life. Because the mother's words and deeds will subtly change the child, some experts say that many behaviors in the life of parents, especially the emotional image, will affect the child's physical and mental development. So parents are the benchmarks for their children in the family.

Be sure to be yourself and set an example to be a good role model in the eyes of your children, so that your children can develop better.

Usually parents are particularly humble and strong in the family, and the children's mental health will also be developed, and they will be very polite in whatever they do. Become a person with high emotional intelligence, and go to the ** is very likable. However, many parents are often not in a particularly good mood at home, either arguing or fighting, so that the child will live in a fearful and stressful environment, which is also very unfavorable for the child's psychological development.

As young people, parents should control their emotions, whether they are sad, angry, happy, calm, they should express their emotions correctly.

You can adjust your emotions after making a judgment, especially don't lose your temper in front of your child, which will make your child nervous. Be sure to let the child have a warm atmosphere, many parents will yell at their children when they are in a bad mood, which will affect the physical and mental health of their children for a long time. It will make the child particularly afraid of inferiority, no matter what he does, he is afraid of it, and he has no opinion, which will ruin the child's life.

Bad emotions will not solve the problem at all, but will make the child's mood worse and worse, and the relationship of trust must be established between the child, so as to facilitate parent-child communication. If you want to lose your temper, you should calm down and suppress your anger first, so as to achieve effective communication and not affect the relationship between parents and children. Some experts believe that in the family, the actions of parents will directly make a child become what kind of life, for the sake of children, parents must first change themselves.

The impact on the child is very great, because the mother can have a subtle influence on the child, so the image of the mother will affect some of the child's thoughts and opinions.

The impact is particularly great, so parents must strengthen the image construction in the hearts of their children, and must set a particularly good example for their children.

The impact on a child will be very significant, because the influence of the mother will directly affect the child's future life, it will also affect the child's personality, and it will also affect the child's future.

The impact on a child is particularly great, if the mother has a particularly good imagination, the child will also learn some good things in life.

My friend Tingting called me **, and she was very angry and said that she went to the kindergarten to pick up her daughter from school, but she was disgusted by the child because of her casual clothes. In order to take care of her daughter, she gave up the time to dress up, and circled around the child all day long, her hair was not dyed for fear that her daughter would eat it in her mouth, and she did not dare to do nail art for fear of toxic substances seeping into the food. But the daughter thinks that she doesn't pay attention to dressing up, and she is not as beautiful as the mothers of other children.

Who doesn't want to sit there every day, not doing housework, not working? The more Tingting talked, the more emotional she became, and she even felt that she had raised a little white-eyed wolf.

Like Tingting, there are not a few mothers who become casual in dressing after giving birth, and I was also "sloppy" for a while. It is said that he has changed his style, prefers casual sports style, but in fact, he is how to wear it as comfortable and convenient, and his heart is all on the child and diapers, and he has no heart to think about those who have not. But I later found out that such self-righteous efforts are not for the good of the child, but paying attention to dressing up is really good for the child.

1. Maintain a good image in the hearts of children.

Maybe many mothers don't realize how important it is to maintain a good image in their children's hearts. But Bao Ma must know that human beings are born with the nature of pursuing beauty, and children are no exception. Like Tingting's daughter, who envy other people's mothers for being more beautiful, is actually completely the nature of human beings to pursue beautiful things.

A dirty bear doll and a delicate Barbie doll are Barbie dolls that are the choice of a child, even an adult, isn't it? It is very important for children to have a beautiful mother who can dress up, because the beauty of the mother is the child's confidence, which can make the child confident from the bottom of his heart, and he has the best and most beautiful mother in the world, and there is nothing else to make the child happier.

2. The mother is beautiful, and the child is also good-looking.

It is said that "three points depend on appearance, seven points depend on dressing," while the mother inherits the appearance to the child in terms of facial features, it also deeply affects the child's aesthetic orientation in dress. I don't know if the mothers have noticed that those children who comb delicate pigtails and wear a set of fashionable clothes often have a mother who loves to dress up, and they love to dress up while also like to study dressing and matching, and dress up their children beautifully. Under the mother's words and deeds, children will also form the consciousness that clothes should be matched in a complete set and then worn, and under the influence of ears and eyes, they have their own set of knowledge about dressing up, far more than those children who only awaken when they go to college and add all kinds of popular styles.

In this day and age, the inside is important, but the outside cannot be ignored either. While enriching their hearts and setting a good example for their children, mothers should also pay proper attention to their appearance, and take half an hour every day to put on makeup and dress up. In this way, we can cultivate children who are both internal and external, and have both talents and appearances.