How to deal with a sloppy and tasteless boyfriend with no temperament and no quality

Since the relationship has become a kind of trouble, girl, then be braver, and don't have to feel guilty, this is also a kind of respect, when you are together, you always feel that it is not good to mention the other party's wrong, and try to calm yourself and understand each other, but the other party has not changed, it will only make you more troubled and tired, then it is categorical, this is a relief for both parties. Everyone's three views are different, and even very different, some words, it may be better to tell him directly, because if you don't say it, he won't understand, maybe after saying it, he will try to get rid of the bad problem, then, this man is worthy of dependence, as long as you still love each other, then you should "help him"! In addition, there must be many aspects that you can't compare, savor them!

In a different place, every time I come to his place to find him, I always have to help him clean up. The day before yesterday was on vacation, I came to him to look for him, and as soon as I entered the door, I couldn't stand it, and I kept putting up with the ninja. If you say that he doesn't do hygiene, he will be annoyed by you, to be honest, very aggrieved, very sad.

Yesterday, he went to work to help him with his hygiene and found himself on the verge of a breakdown. The clothes are all worn and littered, in the drawers where the miscellaneous items are placed, on the table, in the corners, the clothes range from winter to summer, and there is no limit to the types of clothes that talk to him about this matter, and he still annoys me, saying that I have to bother him with such a trivial matter. Today, helping him clean the kitchen, maybe he really can't stand it.

There were dishes in the kitchen that I ate a few months ago but didn't wash, moldy and smelly. Of course, there are all kinds of garbage, insects, and as for the induction cooker, it has been surrounded by thick oil smoke, and I haven't washed it for half an hour. Just now, I went on strike, I really can't stand it, I can't stand him so sloppy, I can't stand him who has been told so many times and still hasn't changed, I can't stand crossing a long distance to come to him and always have to help him with hygiene, and I am still annoyed and incomprehensible.

Now I'm sitting, waiting for him to get off work, and make it clear to him. If he really doesn't want to change, if he still thinks it's a trivial matter, I think maybe it's almost time to go home. Never think you can change someone.

If you can't change someone, don't doubt yourself, just change someone.

I don't have a sloppy boyfriend, but I have a sloppy brother. My brother used to have a female ticket, and then it was divided, and I can't say what the reason is, but sloppy should be one of them. When he goes home from winter vacation, he likes to sit in front of the computer while playing and eating, all the food residues during the winter vacation are thrown under the computer desk, and he usually never cleans up, and after he goes to school, my mother cleans up the room and drags out several plastic bags of garbage, from the head of the bed to the bottom of the bed to the bottom of the table, what chicken bones, fish bones, melon seed shells, if it weren't for the winter, I suspect that it will stink, and the entire computer keyboard and screen are sticky.

Usually squeeze the toothpaste and never put the toothpaste back in its place, and never put the toothpaste on the lid, just throw it directly on the sink, after a long time, there are mold spots on the lid of his toothpaste. I could wipe my face with the towel that my dad used to wash his feet, and I finally knew why his girlfriend broke up with him.

I think there is probably no way, he doesn't even shave his beard when he goes out every day, his clothes are matched casually, and his pants are not changed until he pills, I said I want him to shave, and he will break up. This kind of thing can't be changed, it can only depend on his own consciousness. Anyway, if you don't listen to it, you just don't feel uncomfortable.

The male ticket lives with his parents, the family is also very solid, the parents are now free and rich, yesterday passed by his house, went to the bathroom, and saw the spicy side, the home is messy like a dog kennel, so dirty and messy, how can there be such a sloppy home?!! I seem to see my future self--- I can't stand being so dirty, I've been cleaning, and I've turned yellow at a young age, wow, ah, ah, I really can't accept it! Then yesterday I said that I couldn't accept it, I couldn't convince myself, and finally we broke up, so now we haven't been in touch.

It's not been long since we've been together, and I don't know if it's a sloppy ......He was dressed neatly, and once he accidentally saw a dry earwax ...... in his earI was a bit devastated, and I didn't know how to bring it up to him......I kind of want to break up, but we have been together for less than two months ......Girls' likes, it's really too fragile!

If he suddenly changes, he is well-dressed, sunny and handsome, clean and tidy, maybe you will not meet, let alone fall in love.

That's what he was when you loved him, if you notice that he's suddenly changed! It means that he doesn't love you anymore.

Because, it is not these things that you love him, it is his kindness to you, his love for you.

Perhaps, you will have a better life in the long future, but it will take time, come on, don't always dislike him, because he is used to you, and you have to slowly change him, because he loves you, you love her.

You can pull it... I'll give you an analogy.

I wear a T-shirt for more than 70 yuan, but I buy a 7000 watch for my wife, and I never spend much money on myself... I'm very willing to give my wife... Is this my bad taste?

I can also spend more on myself... The chic point of life·· What does this mean? ·· I don't have that habit... It's really good

I won't necessarily be looking for you.

Like someone, you will be very happy when you see her, you will think about what she is doing when you don't see her, it will be difficult to see her with others, and her heart will pound when she is with herself.

Of course, this is love, not love......

Now that people are married, your emotional awakening is a little late, and feelings sometimes depend on the right time and the right person, since you miss it, it is ...... past

Let the bud pass.

You like him so you still don't want to give up on him because of these, it's okay, try to help him make some changes, if he loves you, he is willing to change, the two of them will discuss, and it will get better slowly.

Because of habit, two people will get used to being together for a long time, and they don't want to change if they get used to it, so you either accept such a boyfriend, or you will leave one day.

If you don't want to give up on him, then you have to accept him, everyone has everyone's habits, if you can't accept it, even if you are together in the future, you will often quarrel because of these things, and if you quarrel more, the relationship will become weaker and weaker.

It means that he has entered your heart, but he is not so perfect, which also shows that although he is not so perfect, he also has a different kind of charm, doesn't it?

If you don't want to give up on him, accept him, but don't change him. It is your freedom to choose what to do, and if you choose, you have to accept it, including those so-called shortcomings that you don't like, don't try to change anything, and in the end you will find that all your efforts to transform are in vain, and if the method is not right, it may cause a lot of unnecessary contradictions and annoyance.

A hundred days of grace for a one-night couple, let alone a long-term husband and wife, should not forget the vow when they got married, no matter whether they are rich or poor, born or sick, they will never abandon each other, and they will depend on each other for life and death.

You are the fault for this.

Temperament, how to say it, let Lin Chiling stand in front of you with a village girl, and the effect will appear immediately, natural.

Deficiencies can be made up for by their own efforts, talking, dressing up can increase the good impression of people, of course, two people really love each other, what temperament do you want. The Miss World you married shows that he doesn't love you enough, so let's break it up.

There is no good-looking woman, only lazy women The general temperament is linked to intellectuality This thing is software Dress clothes to coordinate Read more books and listen to it slowly It is recommended that the landlord participate in a temperament training course on the current situation Such as flight attendant training Walking or something You can also go to yoga This is a quick course.

The so-called temperament: elegant, solemn, polite, reserved, contained. In a word, a woman should look like a woman.

Now that your boyfriend is idle with you, I don't think you'll be long after.

At the very least, don't let others feel like you're a child, whether it's in action or speech, be generous and natural

Prove that you are too sluggish. You should have the same temper and personality as a man.

Temperament is a confident attitude to life, which is mainly manifested in inner cultivation.

First of all, have self-confidence and be yourself! And then elevate and slowly become a temperament woman. There are many ways to improve online, find the right one for you.

Ha ha! You're out of play, temperament is innate.

Cultural literacy, manners, and especially self-confidence.

Temperament comes from within, first of all, you have to be confident in yourself, dress and dress maturely.

Be confident in yourself. Smile. Generous. Don't be afraid of anything. It can be seen that this stepmother is not very good to you.

Yes, the connotation also has your appearance as a whole.

That's because your boyfriend doesn't love you enough to say you don't have a temperament.

Go to the etiquette school and come back for two months to see who dares to say that you are not qualified.

If you fight, you will have the spirit of the king.

You practice standing military posture at home, and you can improve very quickly.

Be confident, know how to think, and read a lot.

Fuck it, why don't you say you have no temperament when you chase you, let him die eight.

Self-confidence means that you have self-confidence.

Your temperament is your self-confidence.

Haha, I used to too, it's not sloppy, it's just no temperament, then you have to prepare the money, first go to make a hairstyle, then buy cosmetics, okay, suitable for your skin tone, and then dress up your face to buy clothes, try as much as possible that you don't dare to wear at all, fashionable, **, colorful, contrasting, complementary colors and the like, but the psychology must be open! Finally, be sure to buy a pair of heels that are taller than 7 cm! It doesn't have to be expensive, as long as you dare to try, the cosmetics must be better, because the bad ones will fall short!

Hope it does, sweet!

Actually. If you want to change, you have to be diligent. Are you ready.

First of all, you have to clean yourself up. Go find a hair stylist. Don't be afraid to spend money on mid-to-high-end ones.

How tall are you. If it is plump, it is necessary to strengthen the exercise appropriately. Like hot yoga or something.

Proper ** also cultivates temperament. Then find a friend among your friends who can dress up. Help you choose the clothes that suit you.

Remembering one's inner self-cultivation is the most important thing.

Is it because your boyfriend says you're sloppy and that you're inappropriately dressed, so you feel like you don't know how to dress up? Don't you feel indecent for the clothes you bought? Be confident, you don't have yourself anymore.

This should come little by little, read more fashion magazines, see how others match, start with learning, temperament is the external manifestation of internal quality, deliberately can't learn, so after doing what should be done, temperament will naturally have.

Hehe, there are no ugly women in this world. Only lazy women. But I'm not saying this to you.

Please don't get angry. You can go online and buy some clothes that suit you. Jewelry.

Dress up, women are all three-point looks. Seven points to dress up, if your boyfriend still dislikes it. Here's one more word.

Don't bet on your own happiness, a man can be poor but not poor, hehe estimates that you will raise him in the future.

Dear, don't just see his shortcomings, since you chose him, it means that he has something that attracts you, so think more about his advantages.

Break up, and you'll become a little like him when you're with him.

It's not that enemies don't get together, if you love someone, you have to tolerate his shortcomings!

A good man has to be, you have been bitter all your life.

yes, think more about his merits, you're not married anyway, are you?

This kind of person is really embarrassing, find a time to talk to him. After talking about it, it hasn't improved, I don't think you need to waste time on him, after all, you're a girl.

There is not much time for youth. You have the right to choose a boyfriend and happiness.

Girl! Good luck.

If you can't accept it, you will be replaced, provided that you can find a man who is a hundred times stronger than him, bless you

Nima, is he handsome? You look for him and find out his shortcomings, you are not a good bird, you are not a family, you don't enter a family! Nima has bucketed out all her shortcomings! No brains!

Fortunately, before I got married, if I had a child, this life would be over, I was, this life is really a day.

I found a very bad boyfriend, and you still scolded him for being bad, you can't blame others, you can only blame yourself for having a problem with your vision.

Dear, this is a sign that you don't love someone, I'm about the same as your boyfriend, but I have a sense of responsibility and self-motivation, and my girlfriend doesn't look at me like this and say I. Do it and cherish it.

It's the same as my ex-boyfriend.,So hurry up and break up.,At the beginning, I was too.,Reluctant.,After all, it's been more than a year of feelings.,You're okay.,My ex-boyfriend is not only the same as your boyfriend.,But also to his mother.,What the says is what?,It's estimated that you're about the same.,So,Don't be reluctant.,Otherwise, you'll only suffer if you drag it on.。。

The point is that do you love your boyfriend? If you don't love, then break up decisively, otherwise you will regret it, the reason is that he has too many shortcomings, and few advantages are pitiful If you love, then accept all his shortcomings, communicate with him and correct them together.