Why do some mothers become very sloppy after giving birth?

After giving birth, there are too many nutrients supplemented during the confinement period, resulting in a disfigured figure, and some women who have given birth to a child know that they have a child, and they will be with him for the rest of their lives, so they have no heart to dress up themselves. After giving birth, some women have to take care of their children by themselves, and children always love to cry and make trouble, which leads to a happy mood for mothers, and they always have to worry about their children and have no time to dress up....In fact, as long as anyone who has taken care of a child knows that when she is taking care of a child, she will not care if she is clean or not, what she cares about is whether the child is good or not, this is the greatness of the mother!

It's not that women don't want to dress up, but because they really don't have the time and energy! After all, a person's energy is limited after all, and he is busy from the moment he wakes up, and the child is enough to be busy on his own, and he has no other energy to dress up.

Many girls exist in such a heart, that is, after giving birth to a child, they have no value, and they have to get by.

Full-time mothers sleep only six or seven hours a day, even if they take the time to do a**because of long-term lack of sleep, **is not better**, if you take the child at home, it is impossible to put on makeup, the child sticks to the body all day long, and the smell of cosmetics is not conducive to health, and the mothers can only say that it is very good to keep it clean as much as possible.

The main thing is that the children don't have time to take care of themselves, and the whole person is occupied by the children.

Since the beginning of the opening of the eyes, it has been busy, the baby's eating, drinking, pulling, spreading, but also to buy vegetables, cooking, laundry, housework, if we can not be casual at home, is it too strong? As the saying goes, standing and talking doesn't hurt your back, while complaining about our sloppiness, do you want to experience this kind of life too? It's not that we don't want to clean up, when we encounter a child who is emotional or sick, we can't wait to have a doppelganger, how can we have the time to care about our own image!

Because she gave birth to a child, she spent all her time taking care of the child, and she didn't have time to dress herself, and the baby or child peed and pulled at every turn, and she would be pulled by the urine if she was not careful, she didn't care, because she didn't think it was dirty, and besides, taking care of the child must be inseparable from people, and if a person took care of it, it would definitely be in a hurry, so she didn't have time to wash it, so it caused the sloppiness in your mouth.

Because the focus of daily life has become children. The child's eating, drinking, sleeping, food, clothing, housing and transportation are all taken care of by the mother. Every day, the mind is no longer about cosmetics, new clothes, bags and high heels, but instead of children's diapers, toys and complementary food!

In one case, after becoming a mother, I basically can't even sleep a whole night, and my mental state and ** are definitely not as good as before. Wake up three or five times a night and have big dark circles the next day, and continue to take the child ** and think about dressing up!

When the child eats, he will get it all over the place, including on his mother's clothes. In addition to these stay-at-home mothers, they also have to buy groceries, cook, and do housework, and they really don't have time to care too much about their image.

First of all, it is not so easy for a woman to recover after giving birth, at least a year or two of long time plus diligent exercise to return to the previous state, most people are saying goodbye to the previous slender figure, just ask the gap is so big, who will have the same mood as before to clean up themselves every day? I'm afraid I'll be sad when I see myself in the mirror...Woooooooooo

One of the most important reasons, of course, is that after giving birth, the time is used to take care of the baby, do housework and other trivial chores, how can there be leisure to manage their own figure, even if there is time, it is to seize the time to make up for sleep, make up for sleep, make up for sleep...

Every day is busy in the dark, taking care of the baby is lacking, except for going out to buy groceries, generally will not go out of the house, because taking a baby out is really the same as moving, there are too many things to bring, diapers, milk powder, feeding bottles, cups, baby strollers, etc., can instantly extinguish your idea of going to the mall.

Since I don't go out much, of course, how comfortable I can wear at home, I don't wash my face if I can, I don't wash my face if I can, I don't wash my hair if I can, because it takes time to do this, it's better to save this time to take the baby to do housework and sleep or something.

Even if you wear exquisite makeup at home, make a beautiful hairstyle, and wear a set of exquisite clothes, but taking a baby is not like going to work, as long as you sit in the office, we are like a spinning top every day, either pouring water to feed or putting and urine, not cooking or mopping the floor and cleaning the window, can you still maintain a neat and delicate makeup for a day? What woman would wear her favorite dress to do housework? When you go to the supermarket, you can't wait to fly, how can you deliberately put on makeup and change clothes?

Therefore, there is no doubt that it is easy to become a sloppy woman after giving birth, unless she has to go to work or the child grows up, and she will clean herself up when she has time.

Last week I went shopping, and I happened to meet up with my college classmates in the same city. Although we live in the same city, we are both busy with each other, and we are usually busy with work, so we have not bothered to meet each other. We haven't seen each other for more than a year, and this meeting really surprised me, my classmate's whole person has become different from before, her body is loose, her face looks very haggard, and she doesn't pay attention to matching clothes, she looks a little too casual to dress, and it looks like she has nothing to do with her hot mom.

In the process of chatting, I learned that the first thing she thinks about when she opens her eyes every day is her child. said that after giving birth to a baby, I no longer need cosmetics, I don't buy clothes for myself much, and I no longer pay attention to cleaning up and dressing up when I go out. Sometimes I want to clean up myself, but I really don't have that energy.

In real life, not only classmates are like this, but most women seem to be in such a state after giving birth, and the whole person revolves around the child. After a woman gives birth to a child, she will uphold the concept of everything for the child, and everything will be given priority to the convenience of taking care of the child. Hair is cut in the best care and clothes are worn in the most comfortable and convenient way.

Therefore, most of the time, my husband can no longer see the beautiful wife before giving birth. Although the husband doesn't say anything and knows that everything is for the children, the man still pays more attention to the image of his wife, and the mother's cleaning up is still conducive to family harmony.

Mothers need to pay attention to the conditioning of postpartum complexion.

Giving birth to a child is a very huge project for the mother, and it is also a great loss for the mother's body. Therefore, many mothers will have a bad complexion after giving birth, their faces will be yellow, and they will become less firm. At this time, the mother can not let the development of the ** laissez-faire, to pay attention to the internal and external use, the internal complement deficiency, plus the nourishment with skin care products, slowly ** will get better, and the complexion will be greatly improved.

It is necessary to pay attention to postpartum body recovery.

After giving birth, it is inevitable to gain weight after giving birth, which is a very frustrating thing. Then about six weeks after giving birth, the mother can start to work**, but the specific situation should be based on their own physical condition, starting from many aspects, combining exercise and diet, which will be easier to see the effect.

Because I don't have time to clean up myself, I'm tired every day, my aunt said I'm dark, I said I don't have time for sunscreen now, and I want to sleep when I have time.