My vanity keeps me from my boyfriend, and I don t know if I love him or not

First of all, you have to know that there are many things that you are too picky about, or if he can do it for you but won't do it for you!

Secondly, you have to make sure that you love him or not!! This problem must be solved!

Sometimes vanity can also make oneself misunderstand love!

Third, there are many times when appearance cannot replace character, and you should choose character first when choosing a partner.

Fourth, no matter whether your boyfriend is good or not, if someone knows that you broke up, they will definitely tell you how to break up! He's fine!

Finally, to give you a sentence that you must remember, a man who has a hundred dollars just gives you a dollar, you are only one percent of him, if a man has a dime but gives you a dime, then you are all he has!

And what my friends are saying is just advice, and they're looking at appearances.

I haven't been with him You're the one you've really been with him know him know him and know him If you don't think it's appropriate for two people to be together, then let it go You said it all.

Looks can't be eaten as a meal.

Then your vanity can't be eaten for food, and you don't care what it does.

Your own happiness is real, so don't worry too much.

Thinking about your own happiness is what you should really think about.

Choosing a boyfriend is like buying shoes, do you buy good-looking ones or do you buy well-fitting ones? The best answer: 1. It should be good-looking, and 2. It should fit well.

。In fact, the boy who loves vanity is not very reliable, he may have a girlfriend who he thinks can give him more face than you in order to compare, I advise him to break up!

== Your man has a problem in his heart, of course I'm talking more or less, do you feel that he is mature? Is it reliable? Everyone has their own way of life, you have two possibilities, one is to give up, one is to support, choose to see, you still love him very much, I hope you can be happy together.

Such a good woman hurriedly kicked that kid, you have class contradictions, you will not be happy! He doesn't deserve you.

It turned out to be the next-door neighbor.,My college lover is in the same school as you.,It's been many years since I graduated from the School of Information and Telecommunications.。。。

In my personal experience, it is best to find a partner for marriage, and the geography should not be too far behind. It will bring a lot of trouble later.

Secondly, human vanity is terrible, anyway, I don't like my girlfriend's vanity, if that's the case, sooner or later we will have to separate.

This vanity of his was brought upon him by his previous inferiority.

Third: Although people's academic qualifications and knowledge are important, I think the most important thing is that both parties should be fellow travelers in terms of values and worldview, otherwise it will be difficult to be together again in the future, even if they are together, there will always be disagreements and quarrels, and finally there will be a day when they part ways.

That man is really good to you, but the angle of good is not right!

He loves you and hopes you can move him with your actions.

You are right, ordinary is happiness!

I don't know what you are like, but I think your boyfriend is very good, so that there will be motivation, the motivation to keep moving forward, now in this society you stop there, less than a day, you will find a lot of people running ahead of you, like my husband, when we first got married, we were both full of good, just a little complacent, not enterprising, only a few years old, his classmates, the employed, the buy a house and a car, we are very embarrassed to meet, there will be people laughing behind your back, look at who you married, How about now, it's not as good as me, you know what it feels like, my husband has the spirit of your boyfriend, I really think it's very precious!!

Oh, don't stick to him too much, give him a feeling of imminent detachment, let him be unpredictable, the more he will want to be elusive, but it's not to let you blindly be cold, to give a little tenderness at the right time, to give a little sweetness, and to be spoiled at the right time. . .

From the beginning it was decided to the present.

Good luck. Don't force it.

Don't lower your charisma and self-confidence.

Be a good woman.

It's best to make yourself a little charming.

Man. Love face.

For example, learn to dress yourself.

Learn to block half the sky. There is always a capable woman behind success!

FreshnessMaybe he's trying so hard to please you, hehe, don't let yourself be too tired.

I think it's all about keeping your own charm. Be excellent, don't be too rude.

If you're confident and independent enough, you won't worry about that.

Keep the place he appreciates

considerate, gentle, sincere, loving him; Strength, charisma, means, skill.

Wireless coquettishness, wireless tossing him, just don't bother him.

Learn how to cook well and grab his stomach.

Give him more tolerance and understanding in spirit, communicate more, reduce suspicion, and use good attitudes and skills to manage love, so that love can go for a long time. I will tell you a good way to strengthen your determination to love and stabilize your mind, and I suggest that you go to the "Tower of Hearts" to participate in their "Love Test", because in the process of participating in this seemingly game-like "Love Test", it can not only help you witness how deep your love for him is, but also record how far your love path can go, and permanently record your love file for you. It can also help you understand how to manage your love and maintain your relationship.

After participating in the test, you can also water and care for the seven-colored flowers that symbolize your love in your own space, compile your own love history, pour out your emotions, and communicate and work together with many hard-working comrades-in-arms on the road of love, so as to become the home of your soul. You can find it by searching for "Tower of Hearts".

What is there for him to love you very much, and what is worth lingering for him?

You'll know how to do it when you know it.

Find a boyfriend who loves you very much and can't do without you.

It's a good teaching material for watching Korean dramas.

In fact, you want a man who feels inseparable from you.

Make sure you don't make him too proud.

If a man feels completely to a woman and immediately loses interest in her.

Or feel that a woman is too difficult to entangle, and will quickly lose interest, or promise to let him have something that he can't get, and keep his desires.

Either keep giving him a sense of freshness, so that he doesn't get tired of the familiar feeling every day, and, be appropriately kind to him.

Make him feel that other women are inferior to you.

In a word.

To make him feel fresh and interesting, not completely conquered, and you still love him, add: when there is a difference of opinion, be assertive.

When appropriate, you can help him with something.

At the right time, motherly love is overflowing, but not too much.

Upstairs is right, next time there will be a point reward.

Asking questions and giving points is a good woman.

It seems that you really love him, but first you have to ask yourself whether you are worthy of it, if you really want to love him, then you should move him with facts, don't pay attention to him when he is outside, when you are frustrated outside one day, you will find that you are the best, bless you.

It's best to follow fate, why force it, be happy together when you're together, and don't think too much when you're separated. It's best to live your life now. Hehe.

Remember, next time there will be a bounty However, this time I, a little girl, will make an exception to help you First of all, please think about it, are you too dependent on others, you can't occupy others, such people will only make people more annoying.

Ever heard of "Semi-Saccharism"? In addition, you can't always pester him, it will make him think you are annoying, of course, don't always help him, and don't always give him gifts, which will also make people feel overprotected and cared for, and there is no freedom in life

However, if you are too far away from the person you like, it will also make him slowly ignore you.

So, always pay attention to your attitude

But don't keep acting, it's going to be bad after such a disguise is debunked Please seize the moment, don't be too hasty, and don't be too slow.

I can't say anything more, because it's not me who walks this path, it's you ......

Feelings can't be forced, you just have to do what you should do, if he has a conscience, he will be moved, he should know that everything you do is because of him, if he doesn't accept your affection, you don't need to be sad for him at all

Love is not selfishness, if he is like that, why would you fall in love with him, a person who only cares about what he once had, and does not care about how long it lasts, is not worthy of you like this.

How can you teach people like this upstairs? Not every man is as as you.

Anyway, I think it's important to keep it fresh and make him feel like you need him when necessary, but you can't be too annoying and clingy to him. It's best that you and him have their own space, and men are most afraid of women being annoyed.

Be nice to him once in a while, and be cold to him once in a while, so that he will always think that you are a mystery, and don't let him guess you.

You have to be the first to arrive when he is in trouble and make him feel that you can get through it with him. Care more about him and make him feel that you are a good one.

Girlfriend.

If he really loves you, he can't do without you.

The best thing to do with this kind of guy is to make him think you're different!

Love is like flying a kite, you want to release it and reap it back!

If you really love him, you will leave for a while to make him feel that his life without you is boring, and let him have a lasting affection for you.

Find his weakness, cover for him, and when he loses you, the weakness will be exposed and he will panic.

The tighter you grasp love, the farther your heart will be.

Just talk to him honestly and honestly.

What is his, yours is not, because you have not given him love.

I want to get away with it. Don't be too clingy.

Try to give him a feeling that no one else can give!

Make him feel like you're the most unique!

The most important thing is to improve himself, make him feel that his choice is right, and I wish you happiness!

You learn to love yourself more first, and you can live well without him, which will help you more.

Many people in love have this problem.

I'm tired of watching.

Then you will become a part of his life, so that you will not be able to do without you.

This question is very profound, and it is a problem for the ages!! The question is really level

I don't know, he loves you, and if he doesn't love you, I don't know if it will, I don't understand, after all, men and women have different hearts.

Gentle women are the cutest, let's experience it for yourself.

Know what to do.

What not to do.

Don't make it like you can't live without him.

Don't make it too obvious.

Otherwise men will be very proud.

Won't care about you.

It's been a long time. Your worst fears will happen.

Go with the flow.

Maybe it would be better.

If he really loves you, you don't have to do anything, he will love you and never leave you, believe in a word, the lover who can go away is not a real lover.

He made you have such a problem, if you are not too suspicious, most likely you are not loving enough. Girls always subconsciously make excuses for each other when they are in love, I have always felt that one person loves another person, this is something that cannot be concealed, as a party, in fact, it is better than anyone else, but sometimes it will deceive itself. Whether he loves you or not can be clearly reflected from the minutiae of life.

If you doubt him, you don't love him in the first place ... Understand each other more, and make it clear if you really don't love each other.

Then let time tell.

From the small details of life, you can find that people who really like you will think about you no matter what they do.

Whether he loves you or not, how to love you, only you can know, you are saying here, no one has gone through the bits and pieces of the two of you, you want to yourself,

If you don't love you, you won't be able to stir up the crowd, but you can also see if your love for him can last, this will take time to verify.