How do I end up with my very vain girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    A word of advice.

    It's still divided.

    Maybe she's just taking advantage of you.

    Otherwise, why doesn't his family still know about your existence? Prove that she doesn't care about you.

    If you can't put it down, try to put it down, otherwise you won't end up, even if it's for yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love can't be worth bread Really, husbands and wives quarrel over money in the end Rich couples are prosperous Rich couples mourn for everything If you think you have the determination and perseverance to make money to support your girlfriend before marrying her She has a lot of vanity If you can't afford it, don't think about it If you get married, you will also have a miserable life Find someone who really loves you and your family is about the same as you to marry This old saying has been circulated by more than 2,000 people in China Do you say that this can't be a wise saying.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Brother, you're still very young, just have fun, don't take it seriously, she wants you to buy a villa, and you buy it too?? She broke up after playing! Find a beautiful girl who is not greedy and good to you, and her off!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's the same thing, brother...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Work hard, how can you feed the princess if you don't work hard. She has a good family condition, why does she need your things? You have to think about it Maybe you don't care enough about it, so she asks for it herself Although sometimes a little thing can't represent anything, but girls will be very happy, like this kind of daughter is better to say that you can't go east if you go west, accommodating women, isn't this the virtue of men?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Having a girlfriend with a strong sense of vanity will indeed make getting along with each other feel very tired in life.

    Therefore, in the choice of partners, we must learn to communicate with each other, if both parties are more consistent in knowledge and concepts, then we can get along with each other more harmoniously, and we will learn to respect each other.

    Therefore, it is essential to master the way of getting along with others and communicating with others, and we must work hard to learn and practice it seriously.

    1.Learn to empathize.

    When we all know how to empathize, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and the chat will become more pleasant and efficient.

    2.Talk about topics that interest the other person.

    When you communicate with others, you have to talk about topics that the other person is interested in, which is also the common language we often say, chatting with common topics is usually more pleasant, and the resulting sympathy will make people expect more communication from us.

    3.Learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart.

    Wise people must learn to praise others from the bottom of their hearts, and it can only be unwise to oppose others, even if you do not agree with other people's views, but it is best not to say it in public immediately, if it is not a very important thing, you can also not say it, learn to praise others from the heart, and the communication will be smoother and happier.

    4.Learn to listen to others.

    Everyone has the idea of expression, when you meet others who need to express the content, you can learn to listen, remember that when you learn to listen, you will become more and more wise, and will be liked by more and more people, pay attention to what others say, listen to others' words attentively, communication will become smoother, and we will know how to respect others.

    5.In the conversation, approve before making suggestions.

    When we have good suggestions, we must first recognize the other party's point of view before putting forward any reasonable suggestions, and use euphemistic suggestions to achieve better communication results, and communication will be smoother and more efficient.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A girlfriend with a strong sense of vanity, if you can't satisfy her vanity, then she will leave you sooner or later, so if your ability is difficult to meet his requirements, it is better to separate as soon as possible.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think if my girlfriend is very attractive, then we should choose to give up, he should not be with such a person, because this will infect him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your girlfriend is a woman with a lot of vanity, so you can go and communicate with your girlfriend and point out what her problems are.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You need to ask your girlfriend this question explicitly, tell her that you don't like her vanity, and then listen to her thoughts and see if she improves later. If the values of the two are really different, then it is better to break up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    chose to break up, because it is not easy to change such a person, and it is better to separate.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think since you already feel very distressed, it's better to break up with this kind of person as soon as possible, otherwise there will be more trouble in the future, which will definitely make you more upset, and some feelings should be broken.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Girlfriends should be made aware of the disadvantages of vanity. And tell your girlfriend to be real. That's how you can change your girlfriend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think you can use bitter tricks, when your girlfriend makes demands on you because of vanity, you can aggrieved and tell her that you don't have the ability at the moment, but you will work hard, and in the long run, your girlfriend will also appreciate your hard work, and she won't be so vain.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it will be more useful to explain it to her, because when you grow so big, you can't solve the problem from the root.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Tell her that this is not good, that everyone is the same, that there is nothing to compare. It's very tiring to compare yourself to others.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Vanity is something that everyone actually has, it's just whether this vanity is big or small. And many people's vanity is buried in the bottom of their hearts, and it is rarely seen in daily interactions. But some people's vanity can be said to be relatively large, even if she already has a lot of things, many people are already envious of her, and praise her a lot, she still has no way to be satisfied, and she feels that there are not enough people to envy her, compared with some people, she is still a lot worse, in this continuous comparison process, their vanity will naturally continue to expand.

    So, if you find out that your girlfriend has vanity, how do you satisfy her?

    In fact, girls' vanity is still relatively easy to satisfy to a certain extent compared to boys' vanity, and most of girls' vanity is still compared in today's society. If you feel that what you have is to compare with others, and that your own things are more than others and better than others, you feel very satisfied and happy. For example, what kind of lipstick, bags and so onIf these things lose the meaning of comparison, they will turn to some comparisons such as love life and family.

    To a certain extent, it's also a good thing that your girlfriend has vanityBecause a certain amount of vanity can also motivate a person to progress, because she has to make a certain effort to satisfy her vanity in order to realize her wishes and requirements.

    This kind of vanity is often worth having, if your girlfriend has such vanity, in fact, you may as well try to encourage her and let your girlfriend satisfy herself through her own efforts, if she wants to rely on youYou can also look at the situation yourself to help her, as long as it's not too much, it's still feasible, after all, it's a girlfriend, right, you still have to coax her, don't perfunctory her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you can meet it, it's best to do your best. If you can't satisfy your vanity, it's best to communicate this problem with your girlfriend.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Vanity is a psychological state of human beings, whether ancient or modern, Chinese and foreign, whether men, women or children, rich and poor, rich and low, all have self-esteem, if self-esteem is distorted, it is vanity. Vanity is a distorted self-esteem, it is an excessive manifestation of self-esteem, it is a character defect that pursues hypocrisy, it is an abnormal social-emotional and psychological state that people exhibit in order to achieve honor and attract universal attention. Vanity is manifested in behavior, mainly blind comparison, good joy, too much attention to other people's evaluation, too strong desire for self-expression, strong jealousy, etc., she can buy whatever she wants, what can be done.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Women are actually quite pragmatic, as long as a man truly loves her and gives her the happiness she wants, her vanity will be easily satisfied, and a woman is nothing more than someone who truly loves her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it is a girlfriend, you should also take care of her mood and properly satisfy her vanity, but you should also let him know that some things can only be obtained by yourself, and the other half will only give you a short period of help in life, and you will still rely on yourself to go on the road in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should communicate with her well and tell her that it is not good to be too vain and try to change it.

    In fact, everyone has vanity, and proper vanity will give us motivation to develop in a good direction, for example, if you want to have something better, then you will work hard for it. If her vanity is too strong, and she wants to have a better person than others without looking at her own abilities, this will never work.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    As her boyfriend, she should work hard to make money and have a decent job, so that her girlfriend can show off in front of her good friends that her boyfriend is very profitable and good to herself, this is the biggest vanity of a girl.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Try to meet her demands as much as she can, but also tell her that it is better for her to satisfy her own vanity herself, so that she will be more dignified.

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