My mind is very messy right now, why do I think too much and my mind is messed up

You're just a child, at least a psychological child, and you say that if you ask this question, it's boring, and I'm bored, you're bored, and if you have culture, you have to make money, and if you don't have culture, you have to make money, and when you make money, you will make more money, and then you'll have no more thoughts. Now there are a group of people who always emphasize the soul or something, in fact, they are still thinking about money than you, anyway, in a word, you have made money (don't touch the law, don't violate morality) Your so-called troubles have become fun, and I remind you, you are not called mature, you just always take your fantasies as reality, and always dream there I guess you're a lazy person, your brain is lazy, your body is even lazier, I don't know how to comfort you, because you don't need to be comforted at all, you know better than anyone where you are, what you should do, but you don't do it, you better solve this problem yourself, no one can help you, the person who can help you, it's you.

Then tell yourself to be steady, think about what to do first, and what to do second.

We must not lose ourselves because we love others, we must be self-reliant, people who can survive on our own.

Do anything, weigh it and then talk about it, don't be impulsive.

No one is perfect in the world, if you love more, go on. If there are more disappointments, plan ahead. Once forgiven, don't talk about the old things again, because you are responsible for the choices you made back then, and believe that you can handle this kind of thing.

Child, you are deceiving yourself when you say that "I matured earlier than others because of my family"!

Look at what you said yourself, and think about your girlfriend, you're a kid!

Be confident! Look up to yourself and respect others first!

There is no way to make you become what you want overnight, only self-discipline and self-love!

Let's start with your relationship with your family!

Since you don't have any friends, then treat your father, brother, and mother as your first choice of friends.

Use what you want your friends to do with you to deal with them.

Treat your girlfriend the way you want your Chinese and German girlfriend to treat you.

The most important thing is that when you encounter something, no matter whose responsibility it is, screw yourself first and calm down!

Persistence, hard work!

I believe you are a person who really wants to change!

What has already happened cannot be repeated, let the past pass, and do not always immerse yourself in the memory of painful history.

Analyze your own strengths and weaknesses, fully develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses, get out of the psychological shadow, and do something down-to-earth, only in your work can you truly realize your self-worth.

At the age of 14, you live alone outside the home. It's very powerful, then you should be a very strong person, right, but listening to what you said, this is not the case. Your heart is very lonely and helpless, but I think you just came home, although it is home, but you have been away for 8 years, and the people at home are also estranged.

Now, of course, it's becoming very unfamiliar, and you're a little uncomfortable for a while. It's inevitable to change places, don't worry, I'm sure it will be fine after a while.

Of course, you have to look for a job. You said that you also want to be pragmatic, so try to do it, the girl you are pursuing is also right, love is not a game, of course, you have to think about it, you have to think about many things in the future, which can also be used as a driving force for you to improve. She would be very touched and happy if she knew that you were starting to work hard and starting to work hard.

It's only temporary, but if you think about what to do, you have to stick to it, and you can't forget it the next day as you said, and then you will never be able to achieve anything. Find yourself a starting point, then go, give yourself confidence, and say hello.

You went out at 14, what are you doing? What is your education? What do you do?

Are you looking for a job? Go to the "Zhilian" network, where you should be able to find the job you need, it really doesn't lie to you. You don't have friends, and you can now treat your family as your friends.

And you're psychologically immature, similar to a 15-year-old! Always thinking about the Arabian Nights. I think you don't think about your girlfriend now, you should first find a job to stabilize your life, then think about your girlfriend, and then build a family, anyway, "there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower" and then find a girlfriend, you have to find a job now and work hard to make a lot of money, don't think about the nonsense of getting rich one day, try to face the reality, work hard, work hard, and work hard, don't do something that violates the law and violates your conscience.

Remember that there is no end to the world. The key is in yourself. It's gold that shines eventually.

Although I know that persuading you is also in vain, I still hope that if you really want to make your life develop in a better direction, don't be in or try to be as little "" as possible, even if you let others think that you are a person who doesn't like to talk, it doesn't matter, in a few years, you will understand my intentions.

It's you who don't look down on yourself first, otherwise no one will look down on you!!

The reality is so cruel, and in order to survive in this cruel society, you must constantly strengthen your ability to survive.

In fact, there are many ways to relax, as long as you can relax yourself properly! Don't stress and inhibit yourself too much!

That way you won't get tired! And as long as you treat everything with a normal heart, there is nothing that you can't get over!

Believe that you are the best!

But the most important thing is to realize the value of personal survival, to prove that your existence has brought something useful to the world in which you live. Life is like a dream but not a dream, although sometimes people can't figure it out, but we still have to face our own every day seriously.

Man lives for the unknown; For love, for oneself, for one's family, for society, for one's country, people live to seek unknown answers and create unknown answers. When your actions are praised in small ways, you will understand the purpose of life; When your actions make a brilliant page for the unknown, you will find the meaning of life; When your actions achieve others and yourself, you will realize the value of life!

Maybe you have frustration; Maybe in the face of setbacks, you want to choose to fall; Maybe the long-term struggle for the unknown without reward has made you lose the fun, confidence and courage Maybe you should think like this: Only today's present is the most real and truly belongs to us, so cherish the bits and pieces of the present.

You can't control others, but you can control yourself;

You can't control the weather, but you can change the mood;

You can't choose the look, but you can choose the heart!

There is no depth of the blue sky, you can choose the elegance of white clouds;

Without the vastness of the sea, you can choose the elegance of the stream;

Without the vigor of an eagle, you can choose the carefree of a bird;

There is no fragrance of the wilderness, you can choose the emerald green of the grass!

Everyone is a perfect apple before birth, and God can't help but take a bite of each apple, so people have shortcomings, and more importantly, God gives people the motivation to fight for the unknown glory in life. As long as you have a sound body, you have the possibility of creating success; Just stand up bravely on your flaws and fight bravely!

Couldn't agree more with him:

It's better to give yourself a few minutes to relax, listen to the good **, I recommend you to listen to the light **** of "Banderley" is to relieve a person's mental tension, try to relax yourself, although the exam is very important for a student, but rest is very important, especially the rest of the heart, excessive tension will make mistakes appear frequently, forming an unnecessary self-confidence blow, the consequences are serious, you have to give yourself a belief, a successful belief, the subconscious plays a great role.

Go and relax, Zhang Chi has a reason, I think you understand, believe in yourself, then you will not be far from success.