Talk about how to tell if a guy treats you as a friend or a lover?

If you are a lover, the guy will usually be very proactive, and after a date, he will be in full swing to prepare for the next one, and you can judge from his words that he will be very kind to you. And if the other person only sees you as a friend, he will keep a certain distance and behave very passively.

Actually, I think it's quite easy, for example, he always wants to be with you, always cares about your life, always wants to see how you are doing, I think it may be that he wants to be a lover with you.

I often find him peeking at me, and when I look over, I find that he pretends to be calm but his face is red, and the first thing that comes to mind is always me, and this is the liking for me, and he treats me as a lover.

I personally experienced a guy who started out as friends with me, and then I found that we were slowly close and eventually developed into lovers.

When I was in high school, I thought that boys would come and ask me how to do this question, and then I became friends, and slowly found out that he had a crush on me and helped me with everything.

I used to not eat breakfast in the morning, but every time he appeared, he would buy me breakfast and say that skipping breakfast was not good for my health, and I found out that he liked me.

When he sees me playing with other boys, he will be jealous on the side, remember my birthday and what I like, and always ask me out to play alone, yes.

He often asks me to go to the movies, just the two of us, and gives me a big bouquet of roses on my birthday, and I think he likes me, and as I expected, he confessed to me a few days later.

As soon as I get home, I get a lot of messages from him, and I can feel that he is anxious and waiting for me to reply, and he is happy when I am happy.

often hooks up on my shoulders, calls me brother at every turn, and often says that he wants me to introduce him to a girlfriend, and there is nothing wrong with it, which is to treat me as a friend.

At every turn, he will invite me to dinner, and send me home, and he will say goodnight to me every night, and others can see that he likes me.

I had a cold and fever once, as long as he was by my side and quickly sent me to the hospital, and when I got home, he called ** and asked me if I was better.

It's not that just because a guy is nice to you doesn't necessarily like you, sometimes he just treats you as a friend. Therefore, girls still have to know how to distinguish the difference between boys who treat you as a friend and who like you. If he likes you, then your relationship may be able to develop further, if he just treats you as a friend, then the girl should stop being stupid and expect this relationship to be silly, let alone be sentimental, thinking that he really likes you, friends and lovers are different, and women must learn to distinguish between these two relationships.

Is he polite to you

The most obvious manifestation of a boy treating a girl as a friend is that he has a good attitude towards the girl, but he is also very polite and has a good sense of distance. Although many boys are very gentlemanly to girls, not all boys are ** air conditioners; Warm men, they are measured in their kindness to girls. Therefore, if a girl wants to judge whether a boy likes you, it depends on his attitude towards you, whether it is polite between friends, or sometimes he deliberately bullies you and teases you, but it depends on the kind of unhappiness and cowardice, if it is the latter, it means that the boy likes you.

Will he talk to you about the topic between men and women?

When getting along with simple friends, the chat topics between the two rarely involve the direction of the relationship. And if a guy likes you, then he may sometimes talk to you about some emotional topics between men and women, sometimes he will confide in you about his heart, and sometimes he will care about what type of boy you like. Girls really don't know if a guy sees him as a friend or really likes himself, it depends on whether he cares about what type of guy you like.

If he's ever asked you a similar question, he's probably interested in you.

Whether he will have intimate physical contact with you

When a guy gets along with you, whether he will respect you in body language is also a criterion for judging whether he likes you. The boy who treats you as a friend will never have too close physical contact with you, and he will maintain an absolute gentlemanly demeanor in many physical contacts, and will do it to the point. And the boy who likes you will have the desire to be intimate with you and will want to be close to you physically.

The difference between a guy who treats you as a friend and likes you is whether he is willing to let you get in touch with his social circle, is willing to spend time and money on you, is willing to share his life with you, is willing to let you integrate into his world, and is willing to show his true self in front of you! If all of the above is the case, then he probably likes you, and vice versa, he treats you as a friend! Of course, this is not absolute, because it depends on whether he has the courage to confess or whether he is the type you like, if you are not the type he likes, then you can only be friends!

Everything is not absolute, the key lies in what you think of him in your heart, if you think he is the type you like, then take the initiative, don't miss someone who loves you, maybe your true destiny is among your friends! Good luck! Hope it helps!

How to judge "whether others like themselves" is a very important thing for people, which is related to the future relationship mode and identity relationship between two people, and also related to whether they are self-inflicted or happy.

However, there is no clear definition of "liking someone", and we can only prove whether we like it or not through some phenomena when two people get along.

Patient companionship when you are sad, thoughtful care when you are sick, and timely help when you encounter difficulties, can all be a manifestation of your liking. Nowadays, many people use whether to "reply" the message in seconds to judge another person's affection.

However, does the person who "removes the rebellious" from you really like you?

Although you are the only one, you are not the only one

It's a lot easier to communicate with your phone online, but at the same time, it has the downside that you're not sure if you're the "one" or "one" of the other person.

In reality, there is no shortage of people who chat with several people of the opposite sex at the same time, each of whom is slightly ambiguous. By quickly replying to messages, he gave the opposite sex the illusion that "I am very special in the other party's heart", thinking that the other party is in love like himself.

However, the other person may be complacent about his charisma.

Therefore, in judging whether another person likes it, the first thing you have to do is to understand his (her) love life, see how his (her) character is, and in the case of not knowing anything, it is a very irrational behavior to rashly pay feelings because the other party "takes it back in seconds".

Maybe it's a pastime when you're bored.

When people are bored, they always try to find some fun for themselves. If, at this moment, there is someone who can talk to you, obviously, this is a very good option.

He or she may even ask you out to hang out, but he or she doesn't want to have a relationship with you, and he or she likes you, but sorry, it's not your boyfriend's friend's liking, it's just that he or she treats you as a playmate.

It's just that it's easy for another person to be mistaken. Therefore, on the premise of thinking that the other party's character is not bad, the next thing to do is to see if the other party has a plan to start a relationship, if not, often reply to your messages in seconds, either simply treat you as a friend, or a spare tire.

So, when you don't reply to messages in a timely manner, you just don't like you?

The answer, of course, is no. There is also a degree of liking. Why is there such a remark that the person who is the first to be tempted loses in a relationship? Because the first person pays more, the degree of liking is deeper. And those who pay less are, of course, a little shallower.

The depth of liking affects all aspects, and the same is true for replying to messages. In addition, not everyone is idly clinging to their phones and waiting for a message to be alerted.

As an adult, there are so many things that need to be done, such as work. Don't ask "am I important or is my work important", because at most the work is important because the other person is working hard for a better future for the two of them?

So, not having a "second back" message may be really busy, if just because of this performance makes you forget about other things he or she has done for you.

Summary. Favorability means liking, if there are 10 points for liking, 6 points for favorability.

Mainly judging from the usual two people getting along and chatting, if the boy regards you as a friend, he will not have some intimate actions or chat about some emotional topics with you, if he likes you, then he will take the initiative to chat with you, and he will be jealous of other boys around you.

So if you like a person to judge from the chat, what are the performances?

It depends on how the boy talks and what he will say, everyone is different, and it should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Then if it is a menstrual period, a boy always asks himself to go to sleep, and the ** boy who sends a hanging bottle asks the situation, is this a concern between friends?

These two should be seen according to the situation, in the case of menstrual period, the boy asks the girl to sleep, which means that he is worried about whether you will be uncomfortable, which is a manifestation of concern, but a very ordinary friend will not have this kind of intimate care, more of an ambiguous relationship. And the ** of the hanging bottle, ordinary friends can care, and close friends can also care.

So what is a good feeling?

Favorability means liking, if there are 10 points for liking, 6 points for favorability.

The difference between a guy who treats you as a friend and who likes you is as follows:

1. The most obvious manifestation of boys treating girls as friends is that they have a wrong attitude towards girls, but they are also very polite and have a good sense of distance.

2. Like a person, sometimes he will deliberately bully you and tease you, but you can see that you are unhappy and cowardly.

3. Simple friends get along, and the chat topics between the two rarely involve feelings. And if a guy likes you, then he will sometimes talk to you about some emotional topics.

4. I won't have too close physical contact with you. He will maintain a gentlemanly demeanor in a lot of physical contact, and will do it to the point.

Guys like the details of a person's performance:

1. When a guy secretly likes a girl, he will secretly pay attention to you and look at you secretly. Even if it's a very wooden engineering man, he can't help but look at the girl he likes, and the kind of eyes that like people won't deceive people.

2. When you often have eye contact with him, it means that he often observes you, and when he hurriedly averts his eyes to avoid eye contact with you, it means that he still dare not show himself in front of you.

3. If you are a more cheerful and generous boy, he will not just look at you with his eyes, he will tease you like a child, because in his eyes your smile is the most beautiful.

4. It is possible that when you speak, he is the one who listens the most, and he will ask questions very seriously to show that he is listening very carefully, maybe he is attracting your attention.