Why is the love that can stay together for a lifetime often not a vigorous love?

Vigorous love looks very beautiful, but it is very hard to maintain vigorous love, and vigorous love will also be affected by many problems after marriage, so plain love is the best.

Real love may actually be plain and bland, unlike the movie, which is so vigorous and vigorous, and you can stay together for a lifetime, it must be that both parties tolerate each other enough.

Hello, the lover of life, not a vigorous love, nor a promise and vow. But when everyone abandons you, only he is silently with you. When everyone is appreciating you, only he is holding your hand, and the corners of his mouth are raised, as if proudly saying, I already knew.

Don't be depressed by your lover's silence and incomprehension, because time will tell you - the more ordinary the companionship, the longer it will last.

However, the love that stays together for a lifetime is often not a vigorous love, because I think it is plain and simple, and it is the real life, so the seemingly ordinary love is actually the most stable.

Because the vigorous love looks beautiful on the surface, but it can't stand the test of love, often due to the momentary emotional impulse, the love that stays together for a lifetime is the kind of emotion that flows in love, and can stay together for a lifetime until old age.

Vigorous only ** in the first time when they got along, when the novelty passed, the relationship between the two people was bland, and the love that could stay together for a lifetime must be bland.

Because only the plain is true, and only the real things can be left in the heart so that they can not be disappointed by the years. Therefore, the love that can stay together for a lifetime is usually not so vigorous.

Because although the vigorous love is romantic, it cannot last, only the plain and insipid love can stay together for a lifetime.

In my opinion, all love may be vigorous at the beginning, but it is inevitable that one will end up walking one. Plain ending, plain is the nature of life.

I think that vigorous love can't stand the test, only ordinary love can stand the test and stay together for a lifetime.

Because love itself is plain, and vigorous love is also very rare, so plain love lasts longer.

Because plain and insipid is true, a lifetime of vigorous may be just a dull life once or twice, and they will be like each other.

Because this kind of love is unstable, sometimes the passion will slowly dissipate, which will eventually affect the future of the individual.

Anyone will yearn for the love of being with each other, and being with each other until old is when two people get married when they are young, and after a lifetime of ups and downs, in the end two people can still walk together until the cherry blossoms wither when their hair is gray. This is even if you are old together.

Many of my older generation, some grandparents in my village, they all got married when they were young, and now they are all seventy or eighty years old, and they will definitely talk about each other, but no one can do without anyone, and it can be regarded as a real companionship until old age.

It takes two people to truly love each other to be able to be together forever, because true love can wear out the temperament of two people. True love is to understand that the other partner is tolerant of the other, to support and take care of each other. The more a pair of lovers fall in love, the more comfortable they will be able to live their lives.

Because there is a self-respecting person who likes and likes yourself by your side in your life, eats with you every day, plays together, travels together, cries together, and laughs together.

He is able to help you out of difficult times when you are struggling, and he is able to guide you when you are feeling down and make your mood more and more pleasant and comfortable. When you are down, support you, help yourself and stay with you quietly.

For two people who originally loved each other in the face of such a thing, girlfriends are sometimes too emotional and don't listen to each other's explanations, so it is easy to break up because of this, which is also the reason why some people obviously love each other but can't stay together for a lifetime.

It is often because the personalities of two people in love cannot complement each other. And there is not much common view of life.

Because love also needs a material foundation, two people can't last long together just because they have simple love.

The main reason is that in the process of getting along, two people can't reach a consensus on some things, and conflicts will arise after a long time.

It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, everyone will show the best side to each other when they first come into contact, when the contact time is long, the shortcomings will be revealed, and some of the other party can't accept it, so they can't stay together for a lifetime.

There are actually many reasons why two people who are affectionate can't stay together in the end, two people have different views, and they can't stay together for a lifetime; The two families have different concepts, and they cannot stay together for a lifetime; Those who cannot stand the test in the face of poverty and wealth cannot stay together for a lifetime.

That's because these loves will become very weak with the passage of time, and there may be a lot of problems.

Although my ex-boyfriend and I had a very beautiful love, we couldn't stay together for the rest of our lives, because we were opposed by our parents, and we had no choice but to break up, and I am still very heartbroken.

Some love can't stay together for a lifetime, the main reason is that this kind of love is not sincere and beautiful enough, and there are a lot of ugly things in it.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

You promised each other that you would be together for the rest of your life, and that you will still be together after the test.

To put it simply, the test of love.

Because love does not last long, when two people get married, love is not as sweet as before, but firewood, rice, oil and salt.

That's because these loves can't just have love without material things, so they can't stay together for a lifetime, but they parted ways early.

Because love needs to be landed, love is beautiful, but the love that lands is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, this is reality.

There will be a lot of things that happen in love, and at the same time, there will be various factors that cause them to find differences, which will lead to changes in their feelings, so they will not stay together for a lifetime.