Your ex wants to get back together, what do you do at this time?

I believe many people have heard such a sentence about love: love at first sight is the end of love, two love is the beginning of love, comparing the heart to the heart is the journey of love, heart to heart is the sublimation of love, eternity is the promise of love, and growing old together is the end of love. Our lives are all about love, so we have to learn to love someone and also learn to accept the love of others.

In life, some people will encounter such a problem, and the ex wants to get back together, what will you do at this time? I think the most important thing at this time is to follow your inner feelings, if you still love each other, choose to get back together, if you don't love, slowly let go of this relationship, and don't enter the whirlpool of love again. <>

One. Love or not love should follow the feelings of the heart.

In our daily life, we all know that relationships will encounter all kinds of difficulties, some people will break up for various reasons, and after the breakup, they will find that they are still in love with each other, and at this time many people will ask to get back together with their ex. If you don't have any illusions about each other in your heart, and you don't have any hope for this relationship, then there is no need to continue this relationship, if you choose to start again, maybe it's just a repeat of the past, it's better to be ruthless, start a new life and forget the past you don't want to recall. <>

Two. If you don't love, you choose to let go, and sometimes letting go is also a kind of love.

Some people are very nostalgic for their previous feelings, and finally find that this nostalgia is used to being with each other, not love, then don't choose to start at this time, because such a start will only make two people fall into a relationship crisis again. In love, sometimes we have to make our own decisions, don't hesitate, this will only make two people fall into the whirlpool of love, and finally can't extricate themselves, not only one person is hurt, sometimes letting go is also a way of love, it is better to let go of each other's hands and let each other start a new life. <>

The above is just a personal opinion, so what do you think you will do in the face of reunion?

In life, many people don't know what to do when they face their ex and find themselves to get back together. When the predecessor gets back together with you, the initiative is in your own hands. However, I think this situation needs to be carefully considered.

Don't be impulsive and just say that you are getting back together or not getting back together.

1. Do you still like each other?

When the ex-boss is looking for me to get back together, I think the most important thing is whether I still like the other person. If you still like each other, to a large extent, you will definitely consider getting back together. If you don't like it, don't hesitate.

The best thing to do is to decisively refuse to get back together with you. Only in this way will the other party not be harmed. <>

Second, will you face the problem of breaking up again after getting back together?

When two people break up, it may mean that it is not suitable. Therefore, when the predecessor comes to find himself to get back together, don't agree to the other party too easily. You should carefully consider whether you will repeat the mistakes of the past after getting back together, and whether it will be the same as before.

If you think that you will not be happy when you get back together, you will repeat the mistakes of the past. I think it's good for both parties to say no directly. It's best to follow your heart's mind and don't push yourself to do things you don't want to do.

3. If the other party is the right person, don't miss it

There are many examples of this in life. A couple will be separated for months for some reason, and then, after a few months, they will suddenly want to get back together. In the past few months, the two of them have missed each other and can't let go of each other.

And, in your eyes, if the other party is the right person. Well, I think I have to say yes to him. After all, it is the right person, and if you miss it, you miss it.

I regret it later, and there is no room for recovery. Feelings are really not clear, if you choose to get back together so that you no longer regret it, then you must be brave enough to take your own steps and choose to return to love with your ex. You last time was my personal opinion.

It's true that the ex wants to get back together is a problem that many people will encounter in their lives, but my answer is no. Now that you have chosen to separate, you should forget about the good times and grievances. This is also to prevent the past conflicts from occurring with each other.

The predecessor itself should be a thing of the past and should not be mentioned again. A qualified ex should also choose to leave the other person's world in time. <>

Since they have decided to break up, it actually means that there are contradictions and rifts in the relationship or other aspects of the two. So the idea that your ex wants to get back together is not good for you in itself. After getting back together, you may face similar conflicts, or you may continue to argue.

So getting back together is an endless internal friction for your emotions and life, and I don't think there's any need to get back together for the sake of so-called regrets. It's not a great thing to get back together, and it's likely to be painful.

If you get back together, it means that you are likely to still face the same situation you encountered before, such as a mismatch between the family conditions of the two parties, or some flaws in the other person's personality, which may be unbearable for you. Even if you get back together again, there are actually some problems between you that are difficult to solve easily. If you still choose to continue to be in a relationship with this person, you are likely to be plagued by these conflicts and problems again, and your life will become unhappy and unhappy.

So the disadvantages of compounding are also great.

Unless it's really because both parties still have love for each other, then it is possible to consider getting back together, otherwise there is no need to think about it at all. After all, if the two of them are indeed still in love before, then they should definitely be reunited. After all, it is definitely not easy to find someone who likes each other in life.

So I think that since I broke up, I should not disturb my ex's life, and at the same time, I should not get back together. Because after saying goodbye to a wrong relationship, we should actually learn from the experience and lessons to find the next relationship.

I will choose to contact the other party first, and then invite the other party to watch a movie, and at the same time, I should also explain that I want to get back together, or I still love the other person, so that I can get back together better, and if the other party does not agree, I will pursue the other person.

Judge according to your own love, because you have broken up, if there is still love that can give you a chance, and you have lost love, just refuse.

At this time, I will directly tell the other party that this is impossible, because the two people have already left each other, and there is no second chance.

At this time, I will definitely ask the other party to borrow money, and I want to see if he is sincere in this way.

It's up to you.

Summary. Good evening, dear, it's an honor to answer for you. What if you still want to get back together with your ex, then you can take the initiative yourself, if the other party who takes the initiative is still unwilling to get back together with you, or if there is still no result, then you will not leave any regrets, in fact, the relationship needs to be managed, not that the breakup is destined to be impossible between you, but it does not mean that if you get back together, you will definitely be able to go on, or you must continue to see the existing problems and solve them.

If you have any doubts, please ask, I wish you a happy life.

Good evening, dear, I'm honored to answer for you. What should I do if I still want to get back together with my ex, then you can take the initiative yourself, if the other party who takes the initiative is still unwilling to get back together with you, or if there is still no result, then you will not leave any regrets, in fact, the relationship needs to go through the reform camp, not that the breakup is destined to be impossible between you, but it does not mean that if you get back together, you will definitely be able to go on, or you still have to continue to see the existing problems and solve them. If you have any doubts, please ask, I wish you a happy life.

I'm in touch with my ex today. Tell him I miss him so much. I dreamed of him, and he said that he was the same, and that he would still care about me and tell me not to catch a cold.

Take care of yourself, I found him in other ways, and he told me that he knew 99% that it was me who was looking for him, and he didn't like me to belittle himself, but he didn't know if there was a chance to get back together.

Kiss, there is still a chance that the silver book will be met, hail Bo Song because he has already told you not to belittle yourself, which means that you dare to know the root of the problem, that is, you may not be confident enough in the relationship between Yuan Zheng.

He's still with his girlfriend. I asked him when he and his girlfriend were going to get married, and he said he hadn't.

It shows that he still can't forget you, or cares about you, and it's still possible.

Summary. Hello, if you still want to get back together with your ex, then you have to see what the other party means, if the other party is also reluctant to this relationship, then you can just say it, what if you still want to get back together with your ex.

Hello, if you still want to get back together with your ex, then you have to see what the other party means, if the other party is also reluctant to feel this feeling, then you can say that you can be envious, if the other party doesn't want to get back together with you, then calm down with each other for a while, and then go and say, I contact my ex today. Tell him that I'm good too, and I miss him. In my dream, I dreamed of him, and he shouted that he was the same, and he would still care about me and tell me not to catch a cold.

Take care of yourself, I found him in other ways and he told me that he knew it was me 99 percent.

I don't know if there's a chance to get back together.

Girl, of course there is a chance, you care about him, and in turn, he cares about you very much, so you can say that you are back together, what are you worried about, I feel that I am cheap, because he has a girlfriend <> now

She has a girlfriend now, in this case, you really don't want to say, but you can feel that he still cares about you, you can only wait for him to break up and open the group, and then say the call.

I asked him when he was going to get married, and he told me that he hadn't thought about getting married yet.

Well, because although he has a partner now, he is not sure who he is marrying yet, and that person may be you, and now he can't be sure, dreaming of him. It's going to be sad, so I can't help but look for him again<>

That's for sure, girl, I always dream of my ex, and I don't have the courage to say it to her like you. You are already very brave for love, we have children, he is just not separated from the current Sen Ran and this, he is still together, I just mustered up the courage to find him today. I don't deserve anything.

What bothered him with this trace, he said why did Duan Zhu say that. He also said that he didn't like me and belittled himself.

That is to prove that there is still you in your heart, and you are still maintaining your feelings, so in this current situation, you really don't have any good way, what is the current relationship of the people, if they regret their feelings now, then the chance is relatively small, if they feel that the relationship is not so good now, you can wait to grind the branches,

Sometimes the ex wants to get back together, probably because of his inner unwillingness, and he wants to find the feeling of being in love again, but even if the connection is broken, most of them don't have the feeling of being in love before. Instead of wasting time together, it is better to make it clear to the other party that if two people still feel inappropriate after many chats or getting along, they should try to separate as much as possible to prevent both people from being hurt, which is also not good.

Whenever you encounter something, you must take into account the feelings of the other party, and often prepare some surprises for the other party, and also often prepare some gifts for the other party, and often prepare some delicious meals for the other party, if you have free time, you can also take the other person out for a trip. I think that this will solve the problem.

Directly tell your ex that you already have a partner, you can't get back together with him, and you must reject this person.

If you want to recover, what can you do?

1.Seize the time to recover.

I saw a cartoon on the Internet that described the psychological state of a man and a woman breaking up. After a man falls out of love, he is happy at first, but slowly feels pain. As for women, it was painful at first, and then the state got better and better.

If we want to get back our ex-boyfriend, we can use the difference in relationship changes after the breakup to seize the repair period. According to some of my experience in recovery counseling, after a guy breaks up, he actually goes through 4 stages.

Feel free stage.

At this time, the boy mentions breaking up, unlike the girl, who says to break up and break up, and regrets it after the breakup. When a boy says that he broke up, it is generally not a temporary idea, but the result of careful consideration after a long time of brewing.

After the breakup, he may also have a feeling of escaping the cage. I feel liberated, free, and can't wait to go and celebrate. At this time, the girl saved him, most of which was ineffective.

Finding a new love fails in the stage.

When breaking up, the guy may say "I love enough, disappointed" and "I don't want to be in a relationship again", these are all nonsense. It's just an excuse he found for a smooth breakup. He broke up just to find someone better than his ex. But how can it be so easy to find a new love?

Empty and lonely stage.

After the carnival, everything that should be played was played, the excitement passed, and I didn't find a more suitable relationship. At this time, he will feel empty and lonely, and his mood will become low.

Nostalgia for the predecessor stage.

After experiencing the setbacks of the third stage, his mental activity has changed. At this time, he begins to miss your good life, and it is easier to redeem it.

In the second and third stages, we can brush our sense of existence.

2.Take advantage of the "loss aversion" effect.

"Loss aversion" refers to the feeling that people feel more strongly when they suffer a loss than when they receive the same gain. To put it simply, it is more painful to lose than to gain, and the intensity is about times greater.

For example, which is more intense, "You picked up $50" or "You lost $50"? I lost $50 of that. According to the "loss aversion" effect, the pain of losing $50 is far stronger than the joy of picking up $50.

It takes almost $100 to offset the pain of losing $50. To apply "loss aversion" to love is to stimulate his sense of loss.

When you broke up, he didn't experience a real sense of loss. In his subconscious, he may still feel that his ex-girlfriend is still his own. If we want to recover, we must stimulate his sense of loss, so that he really feels that he has lost you.

When his frustration and pain begin to magnify infinitely, he will want to take the initiative to redeem you.