What is the psychology of my ex boyfriend who will take the initiative to contact me but will not ac

He just wants to pass away his emptiness, loneliness and coldness, and before he finds his next girlfriend, he will tease you when he is free. I hate this kind of thing the most, just break up, neatly and simply, since it can be because it is not a force majeure related to life and death, it is easy to say that it is inappropriate, bad character, or for some other reasons, parents' opinions and so on. In fact, to put it bluntly, it's all an excuse, in a word, I don't love you enough.

So stop fantasizing that he still loves you, stop indulging in his occasional care, and suddenly remember after being tired of playing, wake up.

Some people have loved it, but they can't put it down, and they can't take it. He may still have feelings for you, but many factors of reality may make him a little timid, such as family, material, the three views of the two people, some characteristics of you, and so on. When he is unable to face these problems himself, it is easier not to commit to the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend.

After the breakup, the boy will contact his ex-girlfriend from time to time because he is unwilling in his heart. Some couples give a lot in love and give themselves unreservedly to their lovers, so after breaking up, they must be very unwilling! It's because I've been unwilling in my heart that I can't help but go to my ex to ask for an explanation...In fact, he himself knows in his heart that this relationship is over.

So he only contacted his ex-girlfriend from time to time, but never mentioned the issue of getting back together, because he understood that the two no longer loved. ‍‍

This is the confusion and unwillingness in the labor pains! Although boys often contact girls, boys no longer love girls in their hearts. After the breakup, the boy will contact his ex-girlfriend from time to time because he is confused.

After a breakup, both couples will go through a period of pain, and in the process, the deeper the person who once loved will become, the more confused they will be! Because no matter whether the previous relationship was bitter or sweet, after all, I am used to that kind of life; But now that I have broken up, I suddenly feel that my life is so lonely and cold, and the whole person is confused, and I don't know how to face the future...Therefore, in this kind of confusion, the boy can't help but go to chat with his ex-girlfriend, this is to find some comfort for the confused soul. ‍‍

Reach out to you, but don't mention compounding. It shows that you have now passed the period of disgust, and you may even have successfully attracted each other again, but as for whether to get back together, he himself is not sure in his heart, and wants to observe again to see if you have really changed.

I don't dare to get back together with you. After he got back together with you, you refused, and he didn't even have to be a friend, he could only watch you cautiously, hoping that one day her subtleties could move you, find a time, and get back together with you.

Many immature people, when they break up with a person, it is difficult to accept that the breakup partner is with someone else, so they keep in touch, keep this person, and occupy you as if you are his belongings.

Some boys, if they know that their ex-girlfriends are more fragile and their own hearts are soft-hearted, will also choose to keep in touch with their girlfriends in order to prevent them from doing things that hurt them or others.

I guess you think too much, and taking the initiative to contact you doesn't necessarily mean that I want to get back together with you and be a loving friend.

If you reach out and don't accept reunion, I think you might just want to.

This shows that the boy did not think about the problem of getting back together, and at the same time, he was very worried that the two would repeat the same mistakes.

After two people break up, if two people have been disconnected, this situation will seriously affect the normal life of two people. Because many people rely too much on each other in emotional matters, even if two people have broken up, two people may take the initiative to contact each other and seek emotional comfort in this way. In a way, if the two of you can continue to be together, we need to solve the problem of the two of you being together as soon as possible.

If the two of you have broken up completely, you need to contact each other as little as possible.

1. Some boys are very afraid of repeating the mistakes of the past. Second, some boys have also adapted to the atmosphere of getting along with each other.

3. Some boys may also be riding donkeys looking for horses.

I think it's because he hasn't found his next girlfriend yet, and I don't want to have no one to accompany him, so I take the initiative to contact you, but I don't want to get back together with you, because he still wants to find another girl.

shows that he still has feelings for girls, but he feels that the estrangement between the two people has not been completely lifted, and it will cause conflicts together.

It may be that he can't let go of his face and comes to you to get back together, so he can only chat with you first.

Summary. Hello, the ex expressed the attitude of wanting to get back together, but he didn't take the initiative, that is, after the other party told you what he thought, the other party wanted you to take the initiative, so that the other party would have a dominant position, and the routine of lust and indulgence was just, what does it mean that the ex wants to get back together but he doesn't take the initiative.

Hello, the ex expressed the attitude of wanting to get back together, but he didn't take the initiative, and the caution is that after the other party tells you what he thinks, the other party wants you to take the initiative, so that the other party will have a dominant position, and you want to envy the filial piety and the old love of the old man The routine brother is promoted, you can tell me in detail what the situation is, I will help you analyze it specifically, we broke up two! But we broke up with these two, and he also went after other women. It was as if the woman didn't like him.

Because I don't like to come back again to show that I am back together,? And then he is not so active towards you, so he proves that he doesn't love you so much at all, but he needs Duan to shout someone now, this person can be you or someone else, you have to be careful, otherwise it must be a girl who will be hurt in the end.

That's what it looks like. I ignored him. And last night in the middle of the night called me ** to tell him that he was drunk. 

You think, he broke up with you and went to find another girl, because others refused, he came back to you, does he like you, he is just a little lonely, then I think too much about it. I thought he wanted to get back together! Will he still call me in this case?

Of course, he will continue to hit you, because he is not pursuing a new girl now, if there is a new girl, it won't, so I will ignore him.

But you have to be resolute and let him know that you won't be with him anymore when you laugh at all, otherwise he will always pester you, which will make him feel that no matter what, as long as he comes back to you, you will forgive him and cause you to be wrong.

Okay, the next time he comes to me, I say I have a boyfriend now, don't bother my life.

He will definitely not believe it, and Qi Zhen will still pester you, if you don't want to be emotionally hurt in the future, the stove boy has been decisively decided to tell him for so long, be ruthless, then I still have a little bit of thinking about him and him together. But I know that he kissed another woman.

Then you know, do you still want to be with him, if you still want to be with him, you just need to take the initiative to talk to him about the banquet, and he should agree to ruin the celebration

Summary. Hello, very happy, can your problem, ex-boyfriend took the initiative to get back together with you, but still cold, if you say so, there are two possibilities, one is a man, his own personality is such a kind of other, just to satisfy the emptiness of the moment.

Hello, I'm very happy, you can have your problem, your ex-boyfriend took the initiative to get back together with you, but he was still cold, if you say so, there are two possibilities for Jane Zai, one kind of man, his own personality is like this and the other, that is, he only stops Xun to satisfy the emptiness of the moment.

It doesn't matter if the boss can't yet, but as long as you feel that he loves you, she loves you.

But I can't feel that he loves me anymore.

Is it possible that you still talk every day?

In fact, if you get back together after separation, it will feel very easy, will it give him a feeling that it is easy to get, do you feel it? It's easy to get it, and I don't know how to cherish it.

Chat occasionally. It's hard to talk once in a while, are you going out to play? Go out and play together.

Watching a movie or something.

No. I'm sick right now and can't blow the wind.

Oooh. All right.

That doesn't feel good.

Did he make an appointment with you?

No. Forget it, whatever he wants, it's definitely his loss to miss me.

Haha, did he have the same personality when you were together before?

I absolutely believe you when you say this, and you can see that your family conditions should be good. And the character is also very good.

It is estimated that the ex-boyfriend is not used to a life completely detached from you, and he prefers an ambiguous way. I feel that once I become a boyfriend and girlfriend, I will cause a lot of financial pressure on myself.

It shows that your boyfriend just wants to hang you, doesn't want to get back together with you, and doesn't want to fall in love with you, just wants to find the next one, and then leave you, all purposefully.

I think he may just want to use you as a spare tire, so you must stay away from this kind of person in time, otherwise once you fall into this kind of feeling, you will not be able to extricate yourself.

I think he wants to be friends with you, he doesn't want to be a couple with you, and he thinks it's more suitable for the two of you to be friends, and he can talk about it in particular.

It's because your ex-boyfriend is now in a window period, and he keeps in touch with you just because he is lonely, and treats you as a temporary pastime.

Maybe he just wants to be friends with you, thinks you're not fit to be lovers, and thinks you're a very good person to talk to.