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Guiguzi Strategy" Don't be afraid when you meet a villain.
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If you want to talk about people with great wisdom during the Warring States Period, it must be Guiguzi.
None other than that. He was a very famous thinker during the Warring States period. At that time, people described him as penetrating the heavens and the earth, and his wisdom was beyond the reach of others.
Describe it like this. This shows how powerful this old man is. Some of his great wisdom is very useful even today.
Many people will encounter the existence of some villains in their lives, who harm others and themselves, not only hindering their own fortunes, but also hindering our fortunes, resulting in certain ups and downs in our careers and moods. So how do you deal with the villain? Look at Guiguzi's moves, no matter how insidious the villain, you can deal with the past.
The first move: counterattack at the right time.
People are good at being bullied, and persimmons should be pinched softly. There is some truth in this sentence, it is your generosity to tolerate once or twice in the face of the villain, but if you keep tolerating it, it will only make the villain feel that you are better bullied. So when encountered.
When we are an unrepentant villain, we must learn to fight back, we must observe him, observe his way of dealing with people, and easily take him down in one fell swoop when we know what plan he is going to do next time, so that his villain can pass **.
The second trick is to keep your distance.
When you find that a person's character is problematic, or the colleagues around you are unwilling to deal with him, then you must keep your distance from him, because he is 100% willing.
It's a villain. The villain's heart and eyes are very small, and if you don't have a good grasp of his attitude, he will keep it in his heart, hide in the dark, and pounce out to "bite" you fiercely when you are unprepared, and Donnie will be caught off guard. Be nice to him, he will take it for granted, and kick his nose in the face with impunity.
So the best way to face this kind of villain is to keep your distance.
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If anyone sows discord behind my back, I will use my own body to govern others and sow discord, and I will never sow discord.
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Guiguzi Strategy" Don't be afraid when you meet a villain.
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For those who love to be greedy and cheap, you can deal with it like this:
1.Be cautious. People who love to buy small things tend to be more savvy, so you need to be extra cautious when dealing with them and avoid losses. In particular, it is necessary to act cautiously when it comes to matters involving economic interests.
2.Do not arbitrarily agree to requests. This type of person often makes a lot of seemingly reasonable demands, but in fact they want to take advantage of them. Don't just agree to their requests, weigh the pros and cons.
3.Clearly express Sakura's own bottom line. When necessary, you need to firmly express your requirements that you will not accept, and clarify your bottom line and principles, so that the other party can be clear about your position.
4.Don't struggle with small things. For small interests, learn not to get entangled with them. In some small things, you will not be rewarded for your efforts, which will make you appear stingy.
5.Less interaction with them. If the other person's attribute makes you feel unbearable, you can appropriately reduce the number and depth of interaction with the other person. However, if it is necessary for work or life, it is necessary to be cautious.
6.Look at the early branches. The behavior of those who love the small and cheap is not entirely wrong.
In a way, everyone likes to get more than they put in. Learn to look at people and things from a broader perspective, and don't pay too much attention to sub-sections. Transform your mindset into tolerance and ease.
The key to dealing with people who love to be greedy and cheap, is to maintain a sober judgment, express a clear bottom line of principles, avoid them appropriately in life, and at the same time learn to understand others and treat them freely. The heart of defense is indispensable, and tolerance is even more important.
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I think stupid Lu shouldn't always think about dealing with villains.
And tomorrow, after that, I will meet more people, and I can't take care of it, just like seeing a doctor, you still have to adjust and take medicine yourself, instead of the doctor leading you to find someone else's commentary, practice well, read the books of ancient sages, and read the Dharma.
Practice yourself well, meet a better self, get in touch with positive energy, try not to dwell too much on bad things, it's not interesting.
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We often say that we can't compete with villains, but if we meet some particularly difficult villains and insist on such ideas, we will inevitably be a little wronged. Then why should we not change the understanding and treat this kind of "special" villain with the villain's method to deal with them. I Ching, Caigen Tan, villain, history, ancients.
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