How do wise people deal with the hardships of life?

A smart person will be optimistic to face the hardships in life, a smart person has a very good mentality, he believes that failure is the mother of success, and he will cheer up and face life again.

Smart people will definitely have a positive and optimistic attitude in the face of all kinds of hardships in life, because smart people understand that difficulties are temporary and can definitely be overcome.

Smart people face all kinds of hardships in life with an optimistic and positive attitude, because even if they give up on themselves, it is a lifetime, and it is a lifetime to live every day positively, so it is better to work hard to live a good life, and regard suffering as an accumulation of experience.

Smart people always face all kinds of hardships in life with a very peaceful attitude, with a good attitude, is a necessary factor to get out of the suffering, suffering is only temporary, through their own efforts will definitely get out of the suffering.

Yes, smart people can see through a lot of unusual dark sides, but they can't say anything, they can't do anything, so it's painful.

On the other hand, the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility, and the greater the pressure it brings, so it is particularly painful. And which stupid second goods are living happily in a daze.

You don't see, in fact, mentally ill people are the happiest, followed by those who are sold and help count the money, and they are not left behind at all.

Smart people will weigh many pros and cons before making a choice, such as buying a mobile phone and buying a computer. Computer enthusiasts who can book for a year can check the Pacific Ocean and other information networks to make a decision after in-depth comparison.

However, some second-hand goods are just shopping around and picking a good-looking one, although it is often not the best plan, but it really avoids the pressure and pain of decision-making.

The truth is that highly intelligent people suffer great, deep suffering.

People with high IQs tend to be more focused and more likely to reach the top in the professional field, but it is precisely because of this near-obsessive focus and continuous progress in the professional field that these people actually have few interests and hobbies, and they are not as concerned about life as ordinary people.

In other words, if life knowledge and wisdom are a system, ordinary people (with average IQ) will have a certain understanding of the knowledge in this system, plus their own career direction. However, people with high IQ first understand and study in depth in some aspects, but turn a blind eye to other life knowledge, so they lack common topics with ordinary people in many aspects, and slowly fall out of place.

After a long time, if you don't stand in the perspective of ordinary people and learn all aspects of life knowledge like them, it is very easy to live in your own world, and you will find that you are lonely, no one understands, and you are obviously excellent, but you don't understand (often don't think about it) People who are prone to depression.

It will be more painful, and the smart person will live more clearly and understandably, and the more he knows this, the more he will understand the cruelty of society, and the more painful he will live, but the dull person, that is, the simple-minded person, cannot see the cruelty of society, and he will keep that simple heart and live happily.

No, smart people know how to make themselves happy, smart people don't get imprisoned by some things, they know how to let go, they think they are smart people will suffer, they want to prove that they are smart too much, so they don't know how to let go, and people who can't let go are the most painful.

There are some smart people, if they can adjust their mentality reasonably, then they may live a happier life than ordinary people. But if he can't reasonably adjust his mentality and look at some things more thoroughly, then he may live a more miserable life.

Some smart people will live a more miserable life, because they think too much, and it is easier to torture themselves mentally, and some will not, they are smart, and they will use their intelligence to solve their troubles.

No, people who are overthinking may be miserable. As a simple example, Sheldon in Life is a genius, but he lives happily, because although he is smart, he is simple-minded.

It's hard to say, maybe he can live a more wonderful life with his own intelligence, but he may also be mistaken by his intelligence because of his cleverness, which makes his life difficult.

No, being smart is a very good thing, ** it will be uncomfortable, it should be happy, because you can always do your best when you do problems with others.

Yes. A wise person sees everything clearly and clearly. In this way, there will be a lot of things on the heart and the mood will not be so happy.

Smart people may have seen through many things in the world, so they will live a happier life than ordinary people. Because they have so many things to think of.

Smart people like to guess their hearts, one thing has not been thought about, and another thing has begun to think again, but smart also has the benefits of being smart, isn't it, there is always a way to deal with things well, I personally think that people who are not smart have a lot of troubles and a lot of happiness, but the attitude is different.

Let's hope there aren't so many tragedies ...

Life is both poetic and frustrated, and the most beautiful poems often have the flawed beauty of regret, and it is this frustration that makes life complete and real.

It is said that in a relationship, it is always easy to fall in love at first sight, but the difficult thing is to never get tired of it for a long time. Love is always easy, and if you fall in love with each other, you think you can live a lifetime.

The difficult thing is marriage, after the emotional retreat for a long time, for women, only thorns and risks remain.

During the recent two sessions, some deputies proposed to lower the age of marriage to 18 years old, and not long ago, the "New Marriage Law" announced that "the third child is open and the age ......of marriage is lowered".The whole world is urging women to marry and have children, but they are not given enough protection.

The new Marriage Law stipulates that whoever buys the house is considered to be the personal property, even if the woman's name is written on the title deed, and it will not be divided in the event of divorce.

For a woman, marriage has completely become a risky investment.

I still remember that Professor Xue Zhaofeng used logic to interpret marriage in an issue of "Wonderful Sayings" and talked about "the economic significance of marriage".

"Getting married is like running a business and signing a contract," he said. Both parties need to come up with their own resources, but the resources given by both men and women are different.

There is a body, fertility, a face, family ties, and the potential for future growth.

However, it is usually women who pay earlier, giving birth, raising and taking care of the family, etc.; The role of men is relatively late, and the role of the adult is not until the age of adulthood.

This means that one side sows and fertilizes, and the other side reaps, which is not equal. ”

Professor Xue explained the stakes of marriage between the sexes.

That is to say, after a woman gets married, she is often the first to pay, and the role of men is relatively late.

At this time, one party is giving, and the other party's pleasure is not equal, and no one can guarantee whether your contribution is making a wedding dress for others.

Women have to take greater risks in order to maintain the most basic balance of marriage.

In the face of love and marriage, no matter how smart people are, they will be at a loss, undecided, there is no smart person to say, they may be more rational than us, the principle is most suitable for themselves, and then the speed of getting out of the pain will be faster.

In love, smart people will choose an object that is interesting, willing to pay for themselves, and can tolerate themselves. In marriage, you have to choose the outcome so that your family and children will be hurt the least, even if you are wronged. Of course, people have to have a bottom line.

Everything is two-sided, and you have to be proactive in solving problems.

Whether it is love or marriage, the most important choice is to have love, you are sure that you love him, you can choose marriage, marriage without love is a failure and pathetic. The current society also has to make us material, so we must also have good economic conditions, so that there will not be too much pressure in life after marriage. Don't think that we women are material, how much happiness we have in exchange for weal and woe, and there are too many who abandon their wives and children when the conditions are good, so we choose the same conditions at the beginning, so that love and marriage are guaranteed.

Love and marriage are inside the time when the choice is painful. Smart people will settle for the next best. They will take care of each other's feelings. I won't just be for myself.

Love will be transformed into family affection, the person you love the most is not necessarily the person who accompanies you all your life, this is often in life, we have to pursue love, otherwise people live a lifetime depending on nothing real to speak of, may you have a heart, a wish.

Smart people will choose to leave without hesitation.

When faced with the pain of choice in love and marriage, smart people will choose marriage. Marriage is about taking responsibility and maturing.

Choose love, because love is only a memory of time, marriage is a responsibility, and the pain of giving up is the pain of the heart.

Wise people follow their hearts.

Smart people will calm down for a while before thinking.

In love and marriage, smart people will choose to love and tolerate them

Smart people will choose to change these pains.

They will compare their own conditions to choose.

Love, you have marriage but no love.

Yes, from a scientific point of view, it is like this: the signal of pain is emitted by the brain, and all human consciousness is finally collected in the brain, and smart people tend to put an overweight load on the brain, and the consumption rate of brain cells is very large!

It's very simple, if other people treat you badly, they will not feel it if they are stupid, and they will feel it at the first time, and if they are smart, they will feel it for the first time. Take China's current society as an example, many people will not and do not believe that China will be the poorest country in the world in a few decades, and I firmly believe that I don't wonder if Chinese society is already terrible, do you feel it? Kiss.

It's not unpleasant to find your own kind ...

But in general, smart people are lonely.

yes, it's painful to know.

When I was a child, I didn't think about anything, and now I have to worry about everything when I grow up.

Because many things must be experienced, smart people can reflect the distress of adults today.

Maybe a clever mind is not used in the right place.

It's not that I'm bragging, sometimes it's really like this, people who think a lot are very painful, he thinks of all the possible consequences of a thing, but stupid people don't have so many concerns, but I think it's a smart person who knows what to pick up, put it down, don't keep it in mind, and don't make trouble for himself.

Because smart people want to do everything completely, which is very caring.

Because smart people have too good a memory, they can't forget the troubles of forgetting and can't let go of some things, while stupid people should eat and drink, and they won't remember those troublesome things.

Smart people think too much, so it's painful.

Stupid to think simple, so happy.

So the pain is that you know too much.

Smart people think about a lot of trivial things every day, while stupid people live simple and happy lives every day. I don't think about it.

Ah! Am I not doing this well, am I overtalking?"。Or people often say that wisdom is foolishness.

This shows that it is not smart enough. People with high IQ make themselves happy, and people with high EQ make others happy. If it's low, you're not happy, and others aren't happy. It's sauce purple.

It is only natural that people who have a lot of troubles will suffer.

Smart people think more complicated things, and stupid people basically don't think about anything, so they live happier.

Sometimes being smart isn't necessarily smarter than being stupid.

You were ignorant when you were a child, but you were happy every day.

It hurts a lot, it hurts a lot, and it hurts to stand tall and fall.

Because the egg hurts! Think about everything clearly, ask clearly, fear of wolves and tigers in the future...

If you are wise and foolish, proof is not enough.

Yes, but the wiser ones know how to deal with such pain.

Smart people are enjoying pain.

Smart people will deflect pain. It is the righteous who suffer. Because the more he knows.

The less you say.

It is the righteous who suffer. Because the more he knows, the more intelligent people will transfer the pain.

The less you say.

It's very painful, and sometimes it's hard to get confused.

You're right! This is the truth that there are gains and losses!

Smart people are too sober to learn to release stress.

Be calm and calm.