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No, it's because there are many children who don't even know that they are being trafficked, but there are many abducted children who have memories of this, so they have been studying hard and waiting until they grow up to find their biological parents.
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Yes. This is because these children have adapted to living with their adoptive parents and have adapted to such lifestyles and habits, so most of them are reluctant to go home with their biological parents.
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Yes. Because these children have grown up and are used to their own days in life. In fact, the contact with the adoptive parents is also very harmonious, just like biological parents.
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After their biological parents successfully find their biological parents, many of the abducted children are reluctant to go home with their biological parents, because they are full of fear of going to a new environment, and they are also full of uncertainty about their abducted identity, because they have lived with their adoptive parents for many years, and they have always thought that they are part of the family and have a certain emotional foundation, so they don't know how to choose when their biological parents find them. will be reluctant to return to his original home immediately with his biological parents. <>
Generally, the abducted children have no memory when they are very young, or when they have a little memory, the slightly older children who are abducted will generally not be trafficked, so they basically have no intention of the original family, and when they grow up, they suddenly appear, and their biological parents say that they want to follow them back to their original home, and it is difficult to accept it, so they are unwilling to follow back. <>
Some people looking for relatives are looking for children is more than ten or 20 years, when they grow up, the child is already an adult, and even has a family and children, for this situation, if you still want to let the child follow him back to the original home, it is not very realistic, can only be a family member from time to time, after all, decades have passed, the parents' concern for the child may have been there, but the child has no impression of his biological parents, this kind of family affection still needs to be slowly cultivated, Only then can children feel the care of their biological parents. <>
If they suddenly want to follow their biological parents back to a strange home, or even across several cities, they need to be completely isolated from the current living environment, and they must completely cut off contact with their familiar classmates and friends, and they will definitely resist this unknown environment, so they are unwilling to follow their biological parents back home.
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Because these children leave their parents at a very young age and live with their adoptive parents, they have a good emotional foundation. Therefore, even if he found it, he was reluctant to return to his original family.
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Because these children leave their parents and live with their adoptive parents when they are very young, they have a good emotional foundation. So even if they are found, they don't want to go back to their original family.
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Because these children are used to living in the homes of their adoptive parents and have little affection for their biological parents, they are reluctant to go back.
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Because these children have already had sex with their adoptive parents and have no emotions for their biological parents, they are reluctant to go back.
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Because these children have lived with their adoptive parents for a longer period of time, they have long regarded their adoptive parents as their biological parents.
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After the Sichuan man found his abducted son, he returned to his adoptive father's house, but the child was reluctant to live with his biological parents because he had developed a deep affection for his adoptive father for a long time and was relatively unfamiliar with his biological parents.
Everyone understands a truth, the kindness of having a child is indeed great, but it is not as great as the kindness of raising a child, and this kindness cannot be changed by biological parents. For children, from the beginning of their own memory, their adoptive parents accompany them, and they have selfless love for themselves, so that children will not be able to forget this kindness.
For the abducted children, they have grown up in the parents of adoptive parents since they were children, and they have regarded them as their biological parents, even if it is not a parent-child relationship, but this family relationship cannot be changed. In the face of the familiar environment around him, the child is more adaptable, making him more down-to-earth and reluctant to leave the place where he has lived for many years. The child is already very sensitive, and facing such an outcome will make him lose his sense of security and make him even more afraid, after all, within his tolerance, only being with his adoptive father at this time will make him feel at ease.
For this boy, his biological parents are very strange to him, even if he is his biological parents, but he has no impression of them. Instead of being with strange parents, it is better to return to the original living environment, at least you can enjoy life leisurely and contentedly, without thinking about the thoughts of your biological parents.
Children are already very sensitive, so it takes a lot of courage for him to face the problems of his parents, for his biological parents are relatively unfamiliar, only adoptive parents will bring a sense of security to themselves. The child has his own ideas, and the adoptive father can feel that he is good to him, so it doesn't matter to him who the biological parents are, as long as he is happy.
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The people that parents hate the most must be human traffickers, because these traffickers have separated them and broken up their families. Even if the child is found back later, the child has lived with his adoptive parents for more than ten or twenty years, and has a very deep relationship with his adoptive parents, and only has a blood relationship with his biological parents, and has no feelings. If you let your child return to life with her biological parents, it will only hurt your child psychologically.
After a man in Sichuan retrieved his abducted child, he had no choice but to send the child back to his adoptive parents' home, so why did the child know that he was abducted and trafficked, and would rather continue to live with his adoptive parents than with his biological parents?
What happened
Gui Hong is a native of Sichuan, his child was abducted in Wusheng County, Sichuan, and after more than ten years of searching, he finally got his child back. This was originally a very happy thing, but I didn't expect that after the child returned to his biological parents' house, he was unwilling to communicate with his biological parents, usually stayed in the room to play games, and did not speak, and later he was even unwilling to eat, and even blacked out his parents. Seeing this scene, Gui Hongzheng finally had to endure the pain and send the child back to his adoptive parents.
Why is a child reluctant to live with his biological parents?
The child itself is still young, and suddenly a biological parent pops up, I believe that many people can't accept it, and even resist the biological parents. Moreover, once the child leaves, the familiar environment and familiar people, to face completely unfamiliar things, itself will have a certain impact on the child's psychology, so that the child feels very insecure, even if the child knows that this is his biological parents, and will not hurt him, but, after all, he has been away for more than ten years, there is no common life between the two parties, and the child has no feelings for the biological parents, so the child's biological parents have no sense of dependence and no sense of security, so they are unwilling to live with their biological parents.
Gui Hongzheng from Sichuan Province is not the only example, we can also see many examples, after the trafficked children are recovered, the vast majority of them return to live with their adoptive parents, and some children even block their biological parents and do not want to continue contact. Even if the child is recovered, the missing ten years cannot be made up.
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In this case, the child grew up with his adoptive parents since he was a child, so it was difficult for the child to adapt after returning to his own family. So for the sake of the child's development, the parents sent the child back to the previous environment.
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Because he is not used to living with his biological parents in life, he will feel particularly uncomfortable, and finally return to his adoptive parents, this child must be a person who values love and righteousness in life.
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Because the child is unable to integrate into the family of the biological parents for a while, the child is unwilling to live with the biological parents.
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Summary. Joy, anger and sorrow are basic emotions, not only for people, but also for many animals. From an evolutionary point of view, these emotions play a very important role in our evolutionary process, such as joy, which can express our positive feelings and promote communication in social activities.
Why are most of the abducted children reluctant to go home with their biological parents?
Joy, anger and sorrow are basic emotions, not only for people, but also for many animals. From an evolutionary point of view, these basic emotions play a very important role in the evolutionary process, such as joy and other positive emotions that can express our positive feelings and promote communication in social speculation activities.
Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?
Most of the abducted children are reluctant to go home with their biological parents, because these abducted children have feelings for their adoptive parents, and it is difficult for them to give up and abandon their adoptive parents who already have feelings and return to their strange biological parents, and secondly, they cannot pretend to accept the truth that they have been trafficked.
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Because the child was lost when he was less than 5 years old, the appearance at that time was very different from the appearance after adulthood, so he did not recognize it.
Children who have been trafficked for 18 years are less than 20 kilometres away from their biological parents, and even if they reach a distance, they do not have a chance to recognize each other. On the one hand, it was because the abduction had been going on for a long time, and on the other hand, because when it was just trafficked, the other party was relatively strict with the protection of the child, so there was no chance to meet.
The most important thing is that the physical characteristics have changed very much after 18 years, and the child has changed the most between the ages of 5 and 20. <>
For the biological parents of this child, they have not given up looking for their children, even after losing them for 18 years, they are still looking for them, because parents believe that as long as they rely on their own persistence and efforts, they can find their children, which also shows the importance of biological flesh and blood to parents to a certain extent. <>
Human traffickers are a very hateful existence, because it is because of their existence that many families have lost their children, and life has become hopeless. Our country already has a lot of surveillance, and the Internet is very developed, and those traffickers must be severely punished in order to make this society more peaceful. <>
To a certain extent, this reminds parents that they must take care of their children in their daily lives and provide a safer environment for their children before the age of 5. Traffickers generally target children under the age of 5 for trafficking, as this group is the most likely to succeed.
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First, there has been a great change in appearance, even if his parents meet him, he will not recognize Tan Gai at a glance, and second, his abduction place is in Kunming, which is far away from Shanxi, and his parents did not expect to be abducted so far, and the three children do not know, and they will not find their biological parents by themselves like Fujian Tao.
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Because the information circulation at that time was not particularly convenient, the traffic was blocked, and the victim's family did not expect their children to be so close to them, so they found the children through face recognition and AI technology.
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Because the news at that time was relatively closed, there was no way to convey a lot of news in time, so there was no way to find his child.
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Because the child's family did not expect the child to be nearby, they thought that the child had been abducted far away.
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Hello, there are two main reasons:
1. Long-term separation from biological parents. Many children will still choose to be with their adoptive parents after being found and reunited with their biological parents, because long-term separation from their biological parents will affect the relationship between the two parties.
2. Have a deep relationship with your adoptive parents. Many children are in the adoptive parents' family, and the adoptive parents are usually better to the children, although they are abducted and trafficked, but the adoptive parents are also devoted to their efforts, and they can be regarded as nurturing, after all, they are by their side all day long, and they still have feelings.
3. Trafficking should be strictly prevented. Now, with the joint efforts of departments at all levels, many children are reunited with their biological parents, making up for the regrets of many parents.
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The reason why the child has no way to integrate into the family of his biological parents is because the child and his biological parents have been separated for many years, and when the child was very young, the two parties have been separated, so for this child, his biological parents are very strange to himself. <>
The child was not yet three years old when he was abducted, and for the child, his memory of his youth was very vague, and he couldn't remember his biological parents at all. After a long ten years of searching for his son, the father found his son again and took his son home. In the days that followed, the father tried to reintegrate the child into his family life, but after only two months, they sent the child back to the adoptive parents' home.
The reason why the biological parents did this was actually forced to do so, because during these two months, the child could not integrate into their own family at all. Although the biological parents have been trying to communicate with their children, and then they communicate, they hide in the room alone every day and play on their mobile phones and do not eat much, and even lose their temper at their biological father. The two sides don't seem to have any common language with Ants, and the father doesn't know his biological son very well either, and he doesn't want to admit them.
In the end, in order not to affect the child's growth and study, the child's biological parents had no choice but to send the child back to the family of the adoptive parents. <>
This result will make us feel particularly helpless, after ten years of hard work to find the child, but at the moment of sending the child away, it all seems to have returned to the past. But when they find their biological son, the parents want to get close to the child, but they are afraid of bringing more harm to the child, as a biological parent, this is an unimaginable pain.
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