Why are boys reluctant to fall in love nowadays?

Updated on society 2024-03-13
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The truth is actually quite heart-wrenching, cherish those boys who are still willing to pay for you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't want to spend time, energy, money, and thanklessness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the past few days, I happened to watch a love story with a relatively large economic gap, the protagonist boy belongs to the kind of family conditions that are very average, and his girlfriend's family conditions are much better than him.

    According to the male protagonist's narrative, he and his girlfriend are both college students, and his own living expenses of 2,000 yuan each are neither too much nor too little among his classmates. However, since he was with his girlfriend, he felt a sense of frustration like never before.

    The girlfriend's family conditions are very good, so the consumption level of a meal may cost the male protagonist half a month's living expenses. Although his girlfriend Wu Jielun is more considerate of him, the two have always been aa, but even the aa male protagonist can't hold on.

    Half a month's living expenses for a meal are gone, and other expenses are not counted. My girlfriend has long been accustomed to high-end restaurants, **will, and all kinds of private villas, and the two money of the male protagonist are enough to see, and he can't afford AA.

    Then someone suggested that the male owner should simply be a little white face.,Eat your girlfriend directly.,This male owner said that he was also a man no matter how he said it.,It's already very guilty that you can't give your girlfriend good material conditions.,** Cavity letter can still do such a thing.。

    The self-esteem of this male protagonist was hit in the process of getting along with his girlfriend, and the pressure was so great that he didn't even dare to take the initiative to mention dating with his girlfriend, and even his girlfriend took the initiative to find him, and he couldn't wait to shirk it.

    From the beginning of the official relationship between the two people, the male protagonist who found the economic gap thought about breaking up. But because his girlfriend really loves him, he can't say anything. After struggling like this for a long time, he did a long time of psychological construction, and finally mustered up the courage to break up with his girlfriend.

    In fact, his girlfriend Zaoqing has long found out the gap between the two people, so although it is a pity, she did not particularly keep it. The girlfriend left a sentence and thought that it might not last long with the male protagonist, and then happily agreed to break up.

    Although the male protagonist was sad after the breakup, he was also relieved. The invisible pressure of being with his girlfriend had almost crushed him, and now he was finally relieved.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because the price is too great, I don't want to spend energy and time to talk to someone!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. Maybe it's not that you don't talk about it, but"Don't dare"。

    I don't know since when people's definition of love is no longer biased towards beauty but hurt, trouble, and reduce the quality of life.

    The pressure of life and work has entered the hereditary stool world of low desire in advance, and he can't even see his own future, so he no longer has the luxury of looking forward to the future of the two.

    2. The imaginary love is too beautiful, which makes the reality too bad.

    If you don't choose to settle, you know that you can't achieve anything, but"Eyes are high and hands are low", trapped for a long time"The domineering president fell in love with me"of imagination.

    3. Too low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence, and never dare to take that last step.

    In the end, I missed a lot of opportunities and fate in vain, causing myself to become more and more inferior, and finally I didn't want to take the initiative anymore to comfort myself that fate had arrived, <>

    Naturally, the bridge was made. 4. Accustomed to being alone, two people are too tired to be together, not like when they are alone, they are free.

    You don't have to worry about who will be angry, you don't have to worry about who will leave, and no one will quarrel with you.

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