When a loved one dies in the family, what should be done first?

If it is a normal death, the treatment method is different in rural and urban areas. And death is divided into natural death and unnatural death.

So what is an unnatural death? To put it simply, it is an unnatural law.

resulting deaths, such as suicide, homicide, etc.

Take our rural area as an example, after the average person dies, the first thing is to set off a firecracker, as for the reason, I guess it may be divided into two main parts, one is to notify the people around, the other is a kind of mourning, not all firecrackers, are festive.

After the firecrackers are set off, the surrounding neighbors will usually rush over to help and dress the deceased in the shroud that they had prepared before.

Then the host's family will start to discuss the aftermath of the deceased, such as notifying relatives and friends, looking for Mr. Taoist priest to do the dojo, arranging guests, etc., anyway, many, many things. If you are in the city, if you find someone dead in your family, it seems that you have to notify the police and call 120 for the purpose of issuing a death certificate.

If there is no death certificate, the funeral home.

Yes, it will not be received.

At this time, the pain is painful, but you must be calm, especially the people who have the backbone, because there are quite a lot of things to do, so notify your relatives first.

People come to discuss, usually they have no experience in this matter, and then they need uncles, elders or cousins.

Wait for help. After the arrival of the relatives, they will discuss and decide on a person who will preside over the funeral, this person is professional in our place, and he can be responsible for the operation of all the funeral, because he is professional, he can find the person who does the work at any time, but all the procedures have to be paid, for this reason, find an experienced elder in the relatives to check, which is equivalent to the two of them jointly presiding over all the things of the funeral, and all the money spent must be approved by the gatekeeper.

All in all, the procedure for a natural death is simpler and shorter than that for an unnatural death. If you don't have experience, ask some experienced people to help, and will the police come to the door? It doesn't seem to be possible in the countryside, but in the city, you need to take the initiative to find the police, because you have to issue a death certificate.

I think I should visit first, and at the same time, I should comfort my family and friends, and I should also do what I have to do, and at the same time, I should help more.

When encountering such a situation, I think we must stay calm, and don't be overly sad, we should take care of the aftermath in time, and don't lose control of our emotions, we must control our emotions and comfort other family members.

First of all, it is necessary to prepare some items after the death, and then notify relatives and friends, and then contact the funeral company to deal with the relevant follow-up matters.

Nothing is needed except sadness or sadness.

The most important thing is the mentality, don't be too sad.

If there is an elderly person in the family who has passed away, do not drink alcohol, and try not to participate in any drinking venues. It is a very pleasant thing to get together with friends. If everyone is unhappy, there is no need to party.

So try not to participate in such a very pleasant occasion. In this atmosphere, you're happy, you're happy, you're sad. If you're too happy, everybody will say, look at somebody in so-and-so's family who died, and he's so happy here.

If you're too sad and too sad, people will think you're unhappy. Therefore, try not to participate in such occasions.

In ancient times, there was a saying that within three years of the death of an old man, when the old man was mentioned or thought of the old man, he would often cry. Then when other people or you mention the elderly, you have this sad feeling. There's no need to be depressed.

It doesn't matter if you can show it, it's normal.

If someone in the family has just died, they can't post couplets for three years.

That's all I can think of.

After the death of a family member, the most recent thing to live is to ask the loved ones not to grieve excessively, even if there is no suggestion to redeem it, it is better to live your own life, so that the lost person will not worry us.

Do not wear colorful clothes such as red, pink, purple; Second, when you want to celebrate the festival, you should not sound the cannon and stay away from the place where there are many songs and dances.

Someone in the family has passed away, if it is an elder, and the parents' generation is the elder, just wear simple clothes, try to be white and cyan.

Now if someone dies in the family, there is actually no big taboo, as long as there is no banquet in the family and there is no marriage, there is no problem. The rest is not needed, and now everything is simpler, not as much as in the past.

Hello, someone in the family died, and someone else gave money, this is to be accepted, and when the other party has any happy events, you can go back with it.

Someone in the family has passed away, and it is best not to exchange the money given by others, and when the other party has any difficulties in the future, you can help him in another way.

Someone in the family has passed away, and things that need to be taboo cannot be returned when others give money, but when others are prosperous, they cannot make up the gift.

In fact, if someone in the family dies, in this case, you should dress modestly, and do not visit other people's homes during the funeral.

Someone in my family has passed away, what do I need to send back? Do others give money back? The money given by others is a gift money, and it does not need to be returned.

It is taboo to dress too festively, because the old people in the family need to mourn silently, and they can't post red couplets for three years during the Spring Festival, and they can't drink, sing, dance and other entertainment activities!

Someone in the family has died, what do you need to taboo? The opportunity on our side is that if someone dies in the family, then you don't go to someone's house for the next month, because it's a taboo.

Someone in the family has died, what do you need to taboo? This netizen. It's all human thoughts. There is no chance. As long as you don't take anything to heart. He'll be fine.

Generally speaking, there is nothing to be taboo about when someone in the family dies, the main thing is not to disrespect the deceased elders.

Tell your loved ones to see you one last time.

Prepare clothes for the end of the day and things you need for the future.

Within one year of the death of the elderly in the family, it is necessary to pay attention to the following:1. The date of the funeral should not be chosen on the day of the funeral.

2. During the period of filial piety, it is taboo to visit relatives and friends, especially to participate in happy events.

3. During the period of filial piety, children should not wear red and green.

4. During the period of filial piety, children should not participate in entertainment activities.

5. In the first year of the death of an immediate family member, it is forbidden to post red couplets in front of the Spring Festival.

The deceased's shroud is worn.

The fabric of the shroud worn by the deceased should be made of silk, because "silk" and "thick" have the same sound, meaning that future generations can have more children and more blessings, and at the same time, the number of pieces of the shroud worn is mostly singular, such as one, three, five, etc., and even numbers are taboo.

In addition, it is also taboo to use "satin" fabrics as shroud fabrics, which is a symbol of ominousness.