Why is silence the most ruthless revenge?

People, the more they grow up, the more lonely they are, the more mature they are, the more silent they are, they understand the truth, they look down on life, they also see through people's hearts, they grow wise, they accumulate too many disappointments, they are cold, and they are becoming more and more silent.

A person's maturity begins with silence.

I don't know when I became silent. That is after many, many ruthless quarrels, after many, many disappointments, I feel that any word is superfluous, even if it is care, concern and greetings, a relationship, from nothing to nothing to nothing to say, is two people's chess opponents, is two people's "-for-tat".

A person's pay, can not be exchanged for the satisfaction of two people, a person's persistence, in exchange for two people to stay together, only sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, even a trace of perfunctory, are blasphemy of true love, people often say "beating is kissing and scolding is love", in fact, silence is also a way of communication, is a silent telling, how long, without you and I have spoken, and how long, there has not been a hearty quarrel?

If I love you, I care so much about you;If I love you, I will do everything I can to be with you. Perhaps, as you know, that's how I love you;Perhaps, you also understand how to reciprocate love, and you pretend not to know, pretend not to see, because you really don't love anymore.

Silence is a realm.

Silence is not that there is nothing to say, but that there are a thousand words in your heart, but you feel that not saying it is the wisest choice. Silence is a kind of understanding, a kind of tolerance, you have your attitude, I have my opinion, there are some things, there is no need to say. For example, if you love someone very much, when he (she) no longer wants to listen to you, no matter how much he or she says, he (she) is humiliating, and when he (she) really wants to spend the rest of his life with you, even if you are always silent, he (she) will try his or her best to get into your heart.

Silence is a way to reconcile with the world.

If you can't get used to seeing it before, you must always vent the unhappiness in your heart;I feel like I am the embodiment of jealousy and hatred;And after experiencing the ups and downs of life, I have seen too many disturbances in the world, and in retrospect, there is really no big deal. For the people around you, fighting for it, either hurting the harmony, or losing interests, and finally breaking up unhappily, you have to meet every day, why bother?

For strangers, if you are not good at controlling your emotions, you have to argue "right and wrong" in everything, and if you meet someone who is cynical or desperate for society, you will be hurt. It's better to be silent, worthy of your heart, worthy of your deeds, very good!

Because of silence on the other party's weak heart, you will unconsciously guess what you are thinking, you will be uneasy, and make the other party feel uneasy, which is the most ruthless revenge.

Because when there is silence, it means that there is no opinion on this matter.

Anger is the most incompetent way for a person to maintain his dignity and rights, because the real strong always rely on strength to maintain their dignity, not by meaningless emotions. We will eventually understand that the most ruthless way to retaliate against the other party is never to tear each other apart with the rent, let alone to retaliate, so that the other party cannot live in peace, silence and ignoring the other party's shortcomings is the best way to punish a person who has an intimate relationship with him, and the best way to retaliate is: silence and ignoring the other party.

When you used to care a lot about whether those people were helpful to you, or whether they were good or bad, once you have saved up enough disappointments and learned to honor them with silence and ignorance, you really grow up.

There is a kind of hurt, invisibly, called silence, and there is a kind of old hail disappointment, after the chill, it is called speechless.

When two people get along, there will inevitably be contradictions and conflicts, not afraid of quarrels, most afraid of having nothing to say to each other, quarrelling, indicating that they still want to be together in Lazhi, silent, indicating that they don't want to communicate anymore.

Don't think that quarreling is the end of the relationship, don't think that you are angry, it is the other party who doesn't care about you.

A person who has you in his heart loses his temper with you because he cherishes you and quarrels with you because he doesn't want to lose you.

Only with strangers and outsiders does she not have these emotions.

A person loses his temper at you because you are important.

A person who always nagged you is because he cares about you.

A person takes the initiative to talk to you because he cares about it.

If one day, the nagging is gone, the care is gone, and the sail becomes quiet and sensible in an instant, then there will be nothing to do with you.

<> "The most ruthless revenge against a person is to ignore it."

If someone hurts you, you can't forget it for a long time, you can't let go, what do you think is the most ruthless revenge on him?Maybe many people's first reaction is that they are good potatoes for the first time, why should they let him?Of course, it is a tooth for a tooth, and the way of others is to treat others.

But in fact, if you really get entangled with these bad people and bad things, don't you think it's a greater drain on yourself?In fact, you don't have to bother to deal with a person if you really take revenge on someone, but only need to do two words: ignore.

1. Ignore and take a stand with indifference.

There is a line in "The First Half of My Life": "The best revenge is not hatred, but the coldness from the bottom of my heart, why spend energy to hate an irrelevant person." "In the face of the person who hurts you, the more you care, the more your emotions will be influenced and manipulated by the other party.

On the contrary, the more you don't care, the more the other party will be bored like a clown, which will make him feel extremely frustrated. In fact, there are thousands of ways to solve problems, no need to entangle with others, you come and go, the best way is to ignore all changes.

2. Ignore and live your life.

Charlotte Brontë wrote in Jane Eyre: "Violence is not the best way to eradicate hatred, and just as revenge will never cure harm." "Many times, instead of changing other people's minds, it is better to try to be yourself, quietly rise to the top, and then amaze the four.

There is a saying that it is well said that living your life well is the greatest riposte to the person who hurt you. The more decadent you are, the happier those who don't see you well; The better you get, the more uncomfortable those who hurt you become. Instead of pestering with them, wasting your own time, and consuming your mind, it is better to ignore them, find a way to improve yourself, and stay away from their circle.

For those who hurt themselves, the best revenge is not to destroy the other party, let alone to destroy. Instead, ignore these boring people and work hard to make your life better.

3. Ignoring is an effective means of keeping a distance from rotten people.

A truly smart person will not spend time and energy on bad people and bad things, which is not worth it or necessary. They will only keep their distance from them and make themselves better and better, so that they can stay away from them, so that they can only look up at themselves, and they will not reach themselves at all.

So, instead of dwelling on bad people and things and wasting your precious time, you should ignore them and spend your time on improving yourself. The better you become, the farther away you are from them, because they've been like this for the rest of their lives, but you still have infinite possibilities to move up.