Boyfriends have shortcomings, face loving, egos, and narcissism

Speak in person. In-depth communication. No reservations.

Just be careful not to overdo it. Be calm. Two people are going to go for a lifetime.

Not a face friend. So there is no need to be taboo about what face is not face. A man who wants to save face again.

When you get along with your daughter-in-law alone, you won't have any face. Unless you can't let go. By talking about the other person's shortcomings, you are helping the other person improve themselves.

It's not a bad thing. But women are meant to save face for men. Especially outside.

This is especially true for men who are not as good as women in their careers or financially. It's a little more serious

Communication, I have a friend who also loves face, self, and narcissism.

I also talked to him about it during the conversation.

He knows it himself.

Forget how he got back to me.

But I scolded him with foul language when I saw that he was unhappy.

Men have it, why do they care so much.

Then there is no need to worry about these, after all, everyone has shortcomings, only if you point it out, then the other party may be aware of it, maybe he will thank you, after all, some people may not be able to figure it out at the beginning, may not be able to think about it, may not know how to be flexible, then it will naturally be easy to fall into this kind of face-loving, and let yourself not get benefits. After all, we all understand that face is not given to you by yourself, face is given to you by others, when you say a word, the other party is willing to give you face, then naturally it will not embarrass you.

But if you try to save face by yourself, when the other party says that you have no ability, you prove yourself, and if you have the ability, you let the other party know how you are a self, then the other party will think that you are a clown, you are too naïve, too stupid, and a sentence or two from others can make you like this, then it can only prove that you have no brains. So through relevant examples, through some cases, let him know the existence of shortcomings, and he must change it, and he must change this thing of dying to save face and suffer sin. Only in this way can it be possible to make you better, it is possible to make you better, and others will give you face.

First of all, find the right time so that both people can talk calmly. Secondly, find a movie plot where the male protagonist loves face, and when you see this, hint at your boyfriend and ask him to reflect on whether he has this shortcoming.

I think we should find a suitable time, and then communicate with him patiently to solve this problem together, and not point it out in front of others.

Since you know that he loves face, then you should be careful not to expose his shortcomings in front of everyone, and you can tell him his shortcomings individually when he is in a good mood, as long as you are sincere, he will accept it.

I think you should tell him directly, in fact, sometimes people don't need to care so much about other people's opinions, so it will be very tiring to live, it is better to put down and live happily.

Since he loves face so much, then I suggest that you should use a more tactful way to talk to him, so that it won't be very embarrassing, believe your words, he can still listen.

You don't want to point out his shortcomings directly in front of other people, you can wait until you secretly analyze with him in private, what is wrong with him like this.

When he has to do something because he is afraid of losing face, explain the consequences to him and criticize him.

You can't point out someone's shortcomings in front of them. If you feel that his face-loving habit has seriously affected some things, then you can discuss with him in private. Tell him what the bad consequences are.

Everything can only be seen whether he really listens to it, and realizes that he is not right, and changes.

It's okay for only two people to say it when they're talking, so that your boyfriend won't think you're disgusted with his shortcomings.

Be sure not to point out his shortcomings in public, but to tell him in private, and also to point out such harm.

You should communicate with your boyfriend and tell him that you have earned face, don't think about your own face first, as long as you do everything in place, and let others see it, so that you can win the biggest face.

When it's just you, you can point out his shortcomings, and be tactful, don't point them out in front of a lot of people.

If you don't point out these shortcomings to him, he won't realize it himself, and it will be very embarrassing in front of outsiders.